SagitarianMan
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Do you have a view on age and sexuality? whate makes the best lover? Were your best experiences with those your age those oler than you or those younger than you?
Is Older Better
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Just give me my orgasm, and no one gets hurt!
I seem to be drawn to older men, but I think that is perhaps the fact that men my own age seem horribly immature. Not saying all of them, just 99% of them
The best lover would have to be one who's secure in his sexuality, and isn't trying to 'prove' his masculinity to me.
I seem to be drawn to older men, but I think that is perhaps the fact that men my own age seem horribly immature. Not saying all of them, just 99% of them
The best lover would have to be one who's secure in his sexuality, and isn't trying to 'prove' his masculinity to me.
Maniac9538
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How old are you Tess? I know alot of my friends who are my age (20) try and put off the fact that they are studs to any and every girl they have been with, but me I view it differantly...I have been w/ one girl and we ended on good terms, but I'll admit it...I was 17 when we were together so compared to some of these other guys I guess I am a novice, but I could care less, because when we were together we knew it was right and we cared for one another. I only hope I can find another girl and make her happy like I did her.
smile..just my thought
i have only had a younger man as a lover, my husband being 3 years younger, but i fantasize primarily about older men.
all the experiences in my life that i consider intimate and sexually charged happened with much older men. The gentle affectionate instructor at my day camp up to my college advisor who used to let me sit on the floor by his chair and lay my head on his lap as he read my papers.
i think age has very little to do with one's abilities sexually. it has no relevance to a person's desire and the enjoyment they can give their partner.
i have only had a younger man as a lover, my husband being 3 years younger, but i fantasize primarily about older men.
all the experiences in my life that i consider intimate and sexually charged happened with much older men. The gentle affectionate instructor at my day camp up to my college advisor who used to let me sit on the floor by his chair and lay my head on his lap as he read my papers.
i think age has very little to do with one's abilities sexually. it has no relevance to a person's desire and the enjoyment they can give their partner.
I have never seen age as a factor in a relationship. I have been known to date older men though, I do not have a clue why. My ex was 12 years older than me and I didn't find that out untill we had been dating for over a mounth. I also couldn't tell you if young or older make the best lovers for the same reason as above, I have never had a lover who was younger than myself.
I have had sex with men around my age, a bit younger and 12 years older. I would have to say by far the best lover was the older man. He was incredible and much more into pleasing me then himself. It has been a few years since I last saw him, yet I still dream about him. Give me an older man any day!
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I,m an older
I tend to like younger women but I,ve had every tell me I,m wrong for likeing 25 year old because I,m 41
I love younger women when they are mature and can being with somebody old then they are.
i,ve some younger be vaery sweet and gentle to me and beleve me that can be a plus when your disabled.
I tend to like younger women but I,ve had every tell me I,m wrong for likeing 25 year old because I,m 41
I love younger women when they are mature and can being with somebody old then they are.
i,ve some younger be vaery sweet and gentle to me and beleve me that can be a plus when your disabled.
teresafannin
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I am 41 & my love is 42. He is the best lover I have ever had. For me, it has gotten better as I have gotten older. I have a lot more self confidence than I did when I was in my teens & 20's. With age comes wisdom & sensitivity, IMO. For me, an older man is not as intimidated by a strong woman. I was a single mom for a long time & I love my independence. My guy has stuck by my side through the worst year of my life. It takes some maturity to do that without losing his own identity. I am finally in a relationship with someone who wants to be an equal partner & I am loving it.
Maniac9538 said:
I'm 21. But, coming from a small town, the "pickings" were/are very slim in the department of mature males. Please don't assume I was refering to every male my age, I'm not. *grin* I've just found that being a strong willed, opinionated woman can intimidate some men my age. So, in order to be myself, and have the relationships I want, I tend to seek out older men, because I can be me, and still have fun. Of course, if there are any younger men that are comfortable enough to be in a relationship with someone who knows who she is, and what she wants, and how to get that, feel free to drop me a line.
Women & Wine
Women tend to get hotter and better as they age. As a women approaches 40 something happens to them, it is almost like they become a different person.
As they approach 50, watch out!!!
The downside is, l believe when they break 56 they tend to slow down.
Time and experiance is the best teacher.
Does anybody agree!!!!!!!
Women tend to get hotter and better as they age. As a women approaches 40 something happens to them, it is almost like they become a different person.
As they approach 50, watch out!!!
The downside is, l believe when they break 56 they tend to slow down.
Time and experiance is the best teacher.
Does anybody agree!!!!!!!
insideShiraz
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Fine like Wine as the name implies...
I like women of the same age, younger,or whatever is legal. But I will always have a burning desire for the older woman. A great deal of this has to do with the fact that I am a pastor's son and was still a virgin when I turned 18 (Although a perverted virgin at that!). At that point I became involved with the older married women in my Dad's church who still loved Jesus but could trust the newly blossoming boy they had always seen running around the church. I was able to "just drop by" without any suspicion because after all, I was the pastor's son. These women were so sultry and with a taste for the forbidden. Neglected by their husbands, these women did anything and everything with me on many an afternoon. Nothing has turned me on as much since. Not to say that my girlfriend doesn't still excite me, because she does. My girlfriend is much younger than me and is sometimes jealous, but she was gay in highschool before becoming bi-oriented in college, and she gets turned on by the likes of Angelina Jolie as much as I do by Suzanne Summers. Turnabout in fantasy is fair play.
insideShiraz
I like women of the same age, younger,or whatever is legal. But I will always have a burning desire for the older woman. A great deal of this has to do with the fact that I am a pastor's son and was still a virgin when I turned 18 (Although a perverted virgin at that!). At that point I became involved with the older married women in my Dad's church who still loved Jesus but could trust the newly blossoming boy they had always seen running around the church. I was able to "just drop by" without any suspicion because after all, I was the pastor's son. These women were so sultry and with a taste for the forbidden. Neglected by their husbands, these women did anything and everything with me on many an afternoon. Nothing has turned me on as much since. Not to say that my girlfriend doesn't still excite me, because she does. My girlfriend is much younger than me and is sometimes jealous, but she was gay in highschool before becoming bi-oriented in college, and she gets turned on by the likes of Angelina Jolie as much as I do by Suzanne Summers. Turnabout in fantasy is fair play.
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younger women
I like 18 yr olds they are not yet jaded by men who don,t know to treet them yet
if an older get with a younger woman he should be gentle because the way that man treets makes the way she feels about men for life
I like 18 yr olds they are not yet jaded by men who don,t know to treet them yet
if an older get with a younger woman he should be gentle because the way that man treets makes the way she feels about men for life
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older
age is just a number. There are many that act older than their years, and many that never grow up. Sometimes a combination of the two can be very nice.
age is just a number. There are many that act older than their years, and many that never grow up. Sometimes a combination of the two can be very nice.
Loverboy2000
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the truth about it......
that,s ture if there is right mixture of both it is fun being with someone younger then you are.
that,s ture if there is right mixture of both it is fun being with someone younger then you are.
Loverboy2000
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Are there any young ladies out there?
Who would love to talk to an older black man? I,m 41
Who would love to talk to an older black man? I,m 41
Loverboy2000
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To age
Kingman you have a point there but have you ever dated a younger woman that was mature beyoned her years?
That made you feel spl because you know she could have any young man she wants she with you instead?
Kingman you have a point there but have you ever dated a younger woman that was mature beyoned her years?
That made you feel spl because you know she could have any young man she wants she with you instead?
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To Tess
Alright let,s hear the young ladies about how you about being with an older man.
Alright let,s hear the young ladies about how you about being with an older man.
To Loverboy2000
As I said in my original post, I feel drawn toward older men. I mean, there is that look...you know what I'm talking about, don't you? You can be just talking to them about world politics, and they suddenly look at you with eyes that smolder with passion. I don't claim to speak for anyone else, but he takes my breath away when he looks at me like that. Makes all my insecurities about being an attractive, sexually appealing young woman vanish.
Here's kisses for all of you that have mastered that look. Use it well, you don't know the power it holds. *smooch*
As I said in my original post, I feel drawn toward older men. I mean, there is that look...you know what I'm talking about, don't you? You can be just talking to them about world politics, and they suddenly look at you with eyes that smolder with passion. I don't claim to speak for anyone else, but he takes my breath away when he looks at me like that. Makes all my insecurities about being an attractive, sexually appealing young woman vanish.
Here's kisses for all of you that have mastered that look. Use it well, you don't know the power it holds. *smooch*
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To Tess1
Think you sweetie you give me hope that i will find someone as sweet as you someday.
Think you sweetie you give me hope that i will find someone as sweet as you someday.
older vs. younger...
I'm old enough (50 this year) to know what I like and what I want. I've found some older men who are great lovers, and some who just do the same old thing, and if you don't like it, that's just too bad...it's what they do. Younger men, as a rule, seem to be more inventive, more open to new things...and just more fun.
Which is better depends on what you want...trying to choose is kinda like deciding whether oranges are better than apples.
I'm old enough (50 this year) to know what I like and what I want. I've found some older men who are great lovers, and some who just do the same old thing, and if you don't like it, that's just too bad...it's what they do. Younger men, as a rule, seem to be more inventive, more open to new things...and just more fun.
Which is better depends on what you want...trying to choose is kinda like deciding whether oranges are better than apples.
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