Is my wife a slut?

[screwher]

As most of you seemingly know, my wife and I are a hotwife couple. We both enjoy her having sex with other men. Mrs. Screwher currently has two lovers. I'm hoping more is soon added to the roster so to speak. Throughout our marriage, a total of five other men have fucked my sexy hotwifey

One of the things I enjoy doing on this site is chatting with other men about them having sex with her. And just about our lifestyle in general. A handful of men have called my wife a "slut". I admit that it kind of turns me on when they do. For me though Ive always equated being a slut with having a large number of sexual partners over a relatively short period of time. Over our thirty years together only five other men have gotten naked and nasty with my wife. So going by that , I don't think she's very "slutty".

But...

A case has been made recently that my wife may be a slut, or acting slutty, within this lifestyle. First off, the fact gat she's married and dropping her panties for other men. Another is that she's using our marital bed with one of her lovers. And mostly, her relationship with the other lover. Their whole "relationship" is simply he calls her up. She practically drops everything to run to his place. They have no pretence anymore about it being a date. She goes to his place. He fucks her. Then sends her home.

So with all of this in mind, do you consider my wife to be a slut. There's no right or wrong, or offensive, answers.

 

[JustbeingRandy]

I'd have to say yes she is a slut in all the glorious and happiness that I personally believe should be bestowed on this title.

Hope she continues being just as wild and nasty as she can be, and never let outside opinion change her

 

[Pines]

I wouldn't call your wife a slut as I view that the use of that word to be derogatory.

 

[Mutau]

Hot Wife

If a classification or category is required, use hot wife.

 

[Love2Spurt]

No. Not a slut. She doesn't drop her panties for any dick around. Only the ones she wants to. She is selective. I think there's a huge difference between slut and hotwife

 

[KinoKe]

Here's the problem: one man's slut is another man's princess (or maybe duchess). How do you define slut?

 

[twister947]

This is a minefield. Let your wife define herself.

 

[oneblueye]

As most of you seemingly know, my wife and I are a hotwife couple. We both enjoy her having sex with other men. Mrs. Screwher currently has two lovers. I'm hoping more is soon added to the roster so to speak. Throughout our marriage, a total of five other men have fucked my sexy hotwifey

One of the things I enjoy doing on this site is chatting with other men about them having sex with her. And just about our lifestyle in general. A handful of men have called my wife a "slut". I admit that it kind of turns me on when they do. For me though Ive always equated being a slut with having a large number of sexual partners over a relatively short period of time. Over our thirty years together only five other men have gotten naked and nasty with my wife. So going by that , I don't think she's very "slutty".

But...

A case has been made recently that my wife may be a slut, or acting slutty, within this lifestyle. First off, the fact gat she's married and dropping her panties for other men. Another is that she's using our marital bed with one of her lovers. And mostly, her relationship with the other lover. Their whole "relationship" is simply he calls her up. She practically drops everything to run to his place. They have no pretence anymore about it being a date. She goes to his place. He fucks her. Then sends her home.

So with all of this in mind, do you consider my wife to be a slut. There's no right or wrong, or offensive, answers.

with the fact that the two of you have agreed on what ever her actions and attitude are to be then how can it be sluttish?
I don't consider her a to be a slut.

 

[Mtnmike]

Have to agree, that to me personally a slut is someone that will and does fuck anybody, anytime or anywhere. Saying this, I think she has the right title " Hot Wife " and enjoys sex.

 

[Abbafan]

I wouldn't worry about labels. It's not my cup of tea but you both seem to be down with it and enjoying yourselves. have at it.

 

[anniebaby10]

I wouldn't worry about labels. It's not my cup of tea but you both seem to be down with it and enjoying yourselves. have at it.

I agree... why worry about a label if you are both ok with her actions.

 

[screwher]

Thanks for everyone's input here. Anyone else want to chime in?

 

[Justfantasies]

I think of a slut as a woman who loves sex and indulges in it as much as possible. She may share her adventures with her SO or not. She sleeps around a lot, but is not especially submissive

 

[LauraWilling]

I think of a slut as a woman who loves sex and indulges in it as much as possible. She may share her adventures with her SO or not. She sleeps around a lot, but is not especially submissive

What if she is submissive and a husband or SO encourages her. I call that a hot wife, but is a hot wife a "slut?" I've been called both. Sometimes as a slur other times as a compliment.

 

[Umanual]

Well from my experience with my loving hotwife, I would not call my horny wife a slut, however, ...she may occasionally act like one, lol. My Wife has been with several men, I am usually involved as a participant, sometimes she goes out on her own. She always comes home and often with her pussy loaded up for me to savor and enjoy the sloppy seconds. I love her and our sex life could not be better since we discovered her latent talents and desires...
I hope you both enjoy your experiences.
Cheers

 

[peterthelicker]

Hi Screwher....

I would say your wife is neither a slut nor a bitch.

A slut fucks everyone. A bitch fucks everyone but me!

So far, it appears Mrs. Screwher is discerning in her choices.

 

[screwher]

Being in a polygamy lifestyle myself, I would prefer hotwife over slut. Even though slut can sometimes be hotter and more suitable is certain situations.

For sure. As I said, I love it when another man calls her that when chatting on this site with me. Calling her that in real life will get you nothing but a punch in the snout.

 

[IsItBad]

whats in a name?

i mean.....yes by all means your wife is a slut
but....you like that don't you?
you want her to be a slut
you want to know other guys are pumping her full of cum
you want her to tell you the details of what they do to her

so....its just a label....good or bad.....right or wrong
if she likes it ....and you like it.....then so be it.....

now i have known guys who called their wives sluts because they were just so flirtatious and always wanting to be the center of attention.....when the husband was NOT for it....and did NOT want to see her doing it.....which is a totally different scenario

i have been married for an eternity......and would love to hear the details of sex my wife had with others before me.....but to this day.....not a word......as if she was a virgin the moment we met.....

 

[Veeweewee]

It depends on the context.

if I am at a business networking meeting and am known as a slut then that's kind of really bad. Although it's never happened I think I would be extremely offended in those circumstances.

Any chance of healthy business relationships would be destroyed by that.

However if I am referred to as a slut in a sexual setting, I would find as a turn on and an enhancement to the sexual experience... For me anyway.

Context, point of view.....

 

[screwher]

As most of you seemingly know, my wife and I are a hotwife couple. We both enjoy her having sex with other men. Mrs. Screwher currently has two lovers. I'm hoping more is soon added to the roster so to speak. Throughout our marriage, a total of five other men have fucked my sexy hotwifey

One of the things I enjoy doing on this site is chatting with other men about them having sex with her. And just about our lifestyle in general. A handful of men have called my wife a "slut". I admit that it kind of turns me on when they do. For me though Ive always equated being a slut with having a large number of sexual partners over a relatively short period of time. Over our thirty years together only five other men have gotten naked and nasty with my wife. So going by that , I don't think she's very "slutty".

But...

A case has been made recently that my wife may be a slut, or acting slutty, within this lifestyle. First off, the fact gat she's married and dropping her panties for other men. Another is that she's using our marital bed with one of her lovers. And mostly, her relationship with the other lover. Their whole "relationship" is simply he calls her up. She practically drops everything to run to his place. They have no pretence anymore about it being a date. She goes to his place. He fucks her. Then sends her home.

So with all of this in mind, do you consider my wife to be a slut. There's no right or wrong, or offensive, answers.

Bumped. Looking for more input here.

 

[Explorer99]

Not sure it matters - in a wider context.

Are you both happy with what she's doing? It sounds like it.

Are either of you excited by the term 'slut' - whatever definition you choose to apply to it? Sounds like you are!

Perhaps the biggest question with the most significance - you ask 'is she a slut?' I'd ask 'is she your slut?'

Maybe that's what really matters?

 

[Experimemt626q]

This is a minefield. Let your wife define herself.

1000% agree.

 

[Clem99]

To me, the term ‘slut’ suggests she would fuck anyone, anywhere. Your wife is more selective so, I would say no.

If you two are having fun, that is what matters.

IMO, the correct term is ‘awesome’.

 

[Muwarr90]

Rather than labels, consider each relationship on it's merits. Are her relationships mutually respectful?

Is she having the other man into your marital bed because she doesn't respect you?

Is the guy who calls her and expects her to drop everything disrespectful of her?

Is anything she's doing causing you, her, or even her lovers, to lose any self-respect?

If there is respect all the way around, don't worry about labels. If respect is lacking, then deal with that issue, rather than applying a term that itself may be a sign of disrespect.

 

[MikeXIrons]

For me, "slut" has always MOSTLY (85%) meant: sexual, horny, isn't ashamed to admit she wants it, isn't scared to go get it even if she "shouldn't". All good stuff.

Then, there's maybe 15% that has the negative flavor mentioned above... a bit of "skank" that sometimes goes along with LOTS of sexual partners in the real world.

I think tone of voice can make it clear if you meant to include that element.

Oddly, I think as an adjective, it carries a little less of the negative part... a woman saying (in the heat of the moment) something like "Mmmm... this makes me feel a little slutty" doesn't seem to have the negative 15%.

I've heard "vixen" used to mean "slut" without the negatives... though, technically, a vixen is supposed to be a woman with a temper. But... I like the new meaning better.

I've always liked "naughty" since you still get the "Wants it even through she shouldn't" element, but, also get some playfulness mixed into the meaning without any "skank".

And, you don't get to spank someone for being slutty, but you do get to spank them for being naughty...

Of course, combining them can be best, as in, "Wake up, Love. I need to tell you what a naughty little slut I've been."