Is it wrong ?

[Almostasaint]

to be hacked off because your online lover hasnt spoken to you in three days ,,,,,or should i just grow up ?

 

[fille]

Frustrating, but you have to remind yourself of the realities of the situation.

 

[virgin_not]

Absolutely wrong...so just grow up.

 

[Almostasaint]

i know ....but surely im the centre of her universe ....

 

[ConquerMe]

Same thing as if you were physically in the same place... Give him/her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe there's a good reason and he/she hasn't been able to get online.

Wait to hear his/her reasons before you freak out too badly - I mean, you can say you've missed him/her, but don't get angry over it until you know for sure that you've something to be angry about.

Otherwise, you could alienate your "lover" and screw up your relationship.

 

[Almostasaint]

i started this thread off with my tongue firmly planted in my cheek .... however on reflection you are all right ...thank you and may your god go with you