Is it unhealthy for me to get anal strapon sex several times a week?

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I finally after 19 years of marriage got my wife to get a strapon. In our first couple of years of marriage we were fairly sexually active and since then it's been far and few between when we even have sex, and we don't even have kids. She's just not been very sexual and maybe it's because of my longevity issues, but I don't think so. One night in that first year she was fingering my ass while giving me oral and I was REALLY into it and begged her to let us get a strapon and have her fuck me. She kinda was thrown off by it and it was never discussed again. She's always been shy and ashamed of her body and that kills my sex drive. BUT rewind to 5 days ago on vacation. We had taken some lube with us and her thigh high boots that I love so we could play a few nights. It was like heaven, she dressed up, lubed me up and fingered the hell out of my ass while jerking me off, I loved it, even more than a blowjob because the lube on her hands stroking me was so taboo feeling. So I went for it again, I said, can we get a strapon and you fuck me with it? To my surprise and extreme excitement she said yes! I literally stopped and said "let's go to the sex store we passed at dinner right now!!!" Unfortunately it was after midnight and the place closed at 11. So the next day we got a beautiful leather (I love leather and vinyl) harness and a beginner dildo and even got an extremely sexy corset that she was game for because "it covers my body more and you know I'm self conscious about my body, plus you love leather". I knew my ass could probably take a little more than the beginner because over the years I may or may not have pleasured my own ass with toys that have long since gone... We came back to the condo and she put everything on. She started with fingers then when we realized I was open enough she snuck the strapon in. It. Was. Beautiful!!! And low and behold, she started pounding my ass like the dominatrixes I've seen in videos online. The only thing missing was her talking dirty to me, she just won't do it because she's "embarrassed talking about stuff like that" sigh... I'm not gonna complain about that though, I have a feeling as the sessions continue that she may open up.
So, my long winded story leads to this: in the las 5 days I have gotten her to pound my ass FOUR of the days and even on day 2 got a bigger dildo. I can't seem to get enough. So my question is this, well, questions:
Is it unhealthy to get anal strapon sex several times a week, will it affect my body when it comes to pooping, for lack of better word?
And, will my rampant desire to have her fuck me eventually die down? Is it so rampant now because it's so new and shocking that a) she agreed, and b) that she is like porn star good at pounding me?
Please, those of you real people that do this on the regular, let me know. Thanks. Oh, and I'm 45yo if that matters.
She did let me take a picture of her so I could have it in my spank bank, LOL. I'm so lucky
 
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I finally after 19 years of marriage got my wife to get a strapon. In our first couple of years of marriage we were fairly sexually active and since then it's been far and few between when we even have sex, and we don't even have kids. She's just not been very sexual and maybe it's because of my longevity issues, but I don't think so. One night in that first year she was fingering my ass while giving me oral and I was REALLY into it and begged her to let us get a strapon and have her fuck me. She kinda was thrown off by it and it was never discussed again. She's always been shy and ashamed of her body and that kills my sex drive. BUT rewind to 5 days ago on vacation. We had taken some lube with us and her thigh high boots that I love so we could play a few nights. It was like heaven, she dressed up, lubed me up and fingered the hell out of my ass while jerking me off, I loved it, even more than a blowjob because the lube on her hands stroking me was so taboo feeling. So I went for it again, I said, can we get a strapon and you fuck me with it? To my surprise and extreme excitement she said yes! I literally stopped and said "let's go to the sex store we passed at dinner right now!!!" Unfortunately it was after midnight and the place closed at 11. So the next day we got a beautiful leather (I love leather and vinyl) harness and a beginner dildo and even got an extremely sexy corset that she was game for because "it covers my body more and you know I'm self conscious about my body, plus you love leather". I knew my ass could probably take a little more than the beginner because over the years I may or may not have pleasured my own ass with toys that have long since gone... We came back to the condo and she put everything on. She started with fingers then when we realized I was open enough she snuck the strapon in. It. Was. Beautiful!!! And low and behold, she started pounding my ass like the dominatrixes I've seen in videos online. The only thing missing was her talking dirty to me, she just won't do it because she's "embarrassed talking about stuff like that" sigh... I'm not gonna complain about that though, I have a feeling as the sessions continue that she may open up.
So, my long winded story leads to this: in the las 5 days I have gotten her to pound my ass FOUR of the days and even on day 2 got a bigger dildo. I can't seem to get enough. So my question is this, well, questions:
Is it unhealthy to get anal strapon sex several times a week, will it affect my body when it comes to pooping, for lack of better word?
And, will my rampant desire to have her fuck me eventually die down? Is it so rampant now because it's so new and shocking that a) she agreed, and b) that she is like porn star good at pounding me?
Please, those of you real people that do this on the regular, let me know. Thanks. Oh, and I'm 45yo if that matters.
She did let me take a picture of her so I could have it in my spank bank, LOL. I'm so lucky
It's not unhealthy at all, but it would be even healthier to get a real dick several times a week.
 
If it's not overly large I would say it should be ok. I see in the pic it looks to be a comfortable size. Anything "big" may cause discomfort at times.
 
It's not unhealthy. People do it all the time. There are women who prefer anal sex and go for it as often as they can, and they are totally fine.
Anal sphincter is actually very large. It only seems to be small, but in reality if you completely relax the muscle you'll find it's easily 3-4 inches in diameter. So you shouldn't worry when going for normal-sized dildoes.
Needless to say, it's also quite durable to friction (but you need to use lube, otherwise you can damage the skin)

And actually no, real dick is LESS healthy than a toy. Keep your fantasies to yourself, JackOffer.
 
It’s no risk. I’ve taken sooo much, and my ass is fine, if not more toned and controllable now. (Which sucks because I really want the permanent sissy gape)
 
You're a lucky guy. Curvy Milf and a strap on? That's the dream.

Bit bigger toy would be great
 
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