is it really that hard??????????

[too_hotman2000]

hello there.........
i am 20 years old virgin male . i really would like to have an online friend . we can chat and share experiences . i have a cam too . if any lady here is interested plz send ma pm or add me too_hotman2000@yahoo.com

 

[SweetErika]

Well, it'd likely be a lot easier if:

1) You followed the rules by not posting your email address.

2) You checked your spelling and grammar, and typed out whole words instead of textspeak. In a medium that depends on the written word, poor writing can convey a lack of effort/laziness and even a lack of intelligence. Plus, if you show yourself to be a poor/unimaginative writer in your ad, people are probably going to assume you'll be just as lousy in email/chat/phone.

3) You showed some personality wrote something that stood out from the other fifty bajillion other horny guys who just want to get off as quickly as possible and are too damn lazy to put some effort into creating an interesting ad. Lit isn't an all-you-can-fuck buffet; most of the ladies here are very intelligent, caring and want someone who's also intelligent, interesting and caring.

So, figure out what you really have to offer, be specific and show who you are. If that's confusing, read some of the ads from other men that get a lot of responses, and try to mirror what they're doing right (without lying/exaggerating, of course).