Is it possible

[ttvttp]

Is it possible to be a Professional Bachelor like the one shown on Montel in the bdsm lifestyle or you just find women who are into stuff like spanking?

 

[nh23]

Huh?

 

[northwoods_sub]

what exactly is the question here? Are you looking for one night stands? Are you looking for opportunities to only have play partners with no strings attached? Or are you asking if all submissive women like to be beaten?

 

[ttvttp]

No im saying some like just very little parts of bdsm and im not talking about all women alot of women dont like any aspects. And yes one night stands and play partners. I just would have a very hard time living with someone so yes thats what I meant.

 

[LittleJade]

No im saying some like just very little parts of bdsm and im not talking about all women alot of women dont like any aspects. And yes one night stands and play partners. I just would have a very hard time living with someone so yes thats what I meant.

It's really hard to build trust when it's a one night stand.

Just saying.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Around here we play pirate once a year, then Indian, then Rebel & Yankee. BDSM is about the same. It's punctuation.

Little Jade. If you wanna see trust in action visit some of the mangroves along the Causeway, here at night. I cant imagine how folks sort themselves out in the dark. Maybe it doesnt matter to them.

 

[FungiUg]

No im saying some like just very little parts of bdsm and im not talking about all women alot of women dont like any aspects. And yes one night stands and play partners. I just would have a very hard time living with someone so yes thats what I meant.

I think you could find "regulars" and have play sessions that way. As one night stands though... as a rule I don't do much BDSM with anyone in the first play session, it's more about building a connection and getting to know each other. Still, what works for me isn't for everyone I know, so maybe? It would depend on the other people.

So I'd hesitantly say yes, it is possible. Probably not as satisfying as a regular or long term play partner though, as you'd forever be doing the starting off/basic stuff.

 

[CutieMouse]

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[Etoile]

Is it possible to be a Professional Bachelor like the one shown on Montel in the bdsm lifestyle or you just find women who are into stuff like spanking?

Can you clarify this "Professional Bachelor" bit? I don't watch Montel.

 

[CutieMouse]

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[ttvttp]

Would you look for bdsm partners in the casual encounters or something else?

 

[CutieMouse]

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[ttvttp]

I want pretty much a slave or slaves but I don't want to live with them. I just can't ever see myself personally how I am living with anyone.

 

[CorsetLvr]

I want pretty much a slave or slaves but I don't want to live with them. I just can't ever see myself personally how I am living with anyone.

People in hell want ice water. So in other words you want someone that is totally devoted to you without any obligation on your part? Good luck with that. They have a name for that kind of person, a "door mat."

 

[HB1965]

Yes it's possible. I have a play partner who does just that.

 

[CutieMouse]

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[Etoile]

That's a polite response, Cutie, and I would expect nothing less from you. However, my reaction is the same as CorsetLvr's. He "pretty much" wants slave(s), he wants to be a "professional bachelor" and he wants one-night stands. The one-night stands thing is fine, plenty of people don't want a relationship, but the non-committal attitude and lack of enthusiasm just spell player to me.

Well, I was wondering about this "professional bachelor" thing, so I looked it up. Let me share some links.
http://www.probachelorbook.com/homepage.php
http://www.authorhouse.com/BookStore/ItemDetail~bookid~17919.aspx

Um, yeah. That kind of stuff doesn't work, IMHO. Being who you are, being natural, and being self-actualized is what attracts women. Following some guy's dating handbook isn't going to get you women. It looks like he gives good advice - wash with soap, wear something nice - but I don't think it's going to win the LAYDEEZ more than just being a happy person will do.

So to re-answer the OP's question, is it possible to be a "professional bachelor" in the BDSM lifestyle? Sure. If you successfully become a "professional bachelor," then you will be dating the kinds of women YOU want, women who WANT to date you. So pick kinky girls, some might only like spankings and some might like edge play. Being a "professional bachelor" does not dictate the kind of women you can date...YOU get to choose that.

 

[CutieMouse]

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