Is it Ok

[ShouldWe]

To fantasise about your wife dressing sexily. flirting and getting hot with a stranger, maybe in his car after the nightclub ?

What the hell is wrong with me, as she's an attractive mid 40's woman and I should guard her jealously.

By the way I will be travelling and may not be able to reply for two weeks.

Apologies in advance, I will check this thread later though.

 

[HussarVanburen]

To fantasise about your wife dressing sexily. flirting and getting hot with a stranger, maybe in his car after the nightclub ?

What the hell is wrong with me, as she's an attractive mid 40's woman and I should guard her jealously.

By the way I will be travelling and may not be able to reply for two weeks.

Apologies in advance, I will check this thread later though.

Yes. It means you are half a man. A real man wouldn't want to pimp his wife out.

I am not kidding. You should seriously change your mind on this shit.

 

[Justfantasies]

Nothing wrong with you at all . . . I have encouraged my wife to do this and she has gone the whole way with complete strangers. It is an amazing turn on for me.

I love hearing about women who like to fuck other guys

 

[lance1969]

Nothing wrong with it.. I have fucked many a woman that were married, some watched, some recorded, some joined in ..

 

[Artemis19]

It okay if you are both okay with it. Not something I'd jump into lightly, though.

 

[peebudy]

perfectly okay...dress her up and send her my way!

 

[evermyre]

If you are both okay with it and have had many, many exhaustive conversations about what is okay and not okay then I say go for it! The biggest thing is that you have both communication about what you hope to gain from it for your own relationship.

 

[njlauren]

Others have said a lot that needs to be said , don't jump into it lightly, it needs to be both of you, etc, but one thing I will say is that fantasies are okay as fantasies, too, and there are many fantasies we never want to act on, and that is okay, too.

I would be very careful about how your broach this with your wife, because more then a few women IME would take this to mean that you don't find them sexy, or somehow can only get off by having her have sex with others, or that you don't cherish them, all of these are responses I have heard/read about.

I also will add it is dangerous, that you may open a genie you can't put back in the bottle, that if your own sex life and relationship isn't strong, this could blow it to hell and high water, if she finds that having sex with other guys/being shown attention by others, is stronger then what she has with you, and yes, I have seen this happen, where wives have ended up going with another guy (or gal)......it usually means the marriage already was in trouble...which is why you need to make sure your relationship is already strong.

 

[ShouldWe]

Others have said a lot that needs to be said , don't jump into it lightly, it needs to be both of you, etc, but one thing I will say is that fantasies are okay as fantasies, too, and there are many fantasies we never want to act on, and that is okay, too.

I would be very careful about how your broach this with your wife, because more then a few women IME would take this to mean that you don't find them sexy, or somehow can only get off by having her have sex with others, or that you don't cherish them, all of these are responses I have heard/read about.

I also will add it is dangerous, that you may open a genie you can't put back in the bottle, that if your own sex life and relationship isn't strong, this could blow it to hell and high water, if she finds that having sex with other guys/being shown attention by others, is stronger then what she has with you, and yes, I have seen this happen, where wives have ended up going with another guy (or gal)......it usually means the marriage already was in trouble...which is why you need to make sure your relationship is already strong.

Thanks for all the replies, we have touched upon this subject in bed and both enjoyed it.
A few years ago we had an experience which we didnt discus afterwards, as it happened after a friend stayed over after a party.
We were all a bit too drunk and my wife stayed downstairs with my friend when I fell into bed.
She arrived up to bed hours later, wearing only panties and blouse and immediately fell soundly asleep. Later i slipped my hand inside her panties and couldnt believe how wet both she and her panties were. At the time I didnt have an other man fantasy, so we both never mentioned it again. However, now I'd like to set up a repeat experience, but I'm not sure how to arrange it.