Is it obvious when...

[Fly_On_Wall]

I was talking with a friend and we were talking about the way people change. and she said she thinks i'm the kind of person that would change after I am married or even after I've had sex.

This got me thinking. Don't all people have a change in attitude be it good or bad after they loose their virginity.

I've also noticed a change in attitude in people after the first time they've had sex after a period of months without.

I've seen many frineds act just a little off and I"ll say to myself, yep they got them some.

am I alone her or can everyone see this in others?
if so, how to you usuealy notice?

 

[tn_8tiv]

I've seen many frineds act just a little off and I"ll say to myself, yep they got them some.

am I alone her or can everyone see this in others?
if so, how to you usuealy notice?

Fly, you know we all change after we get married or have sex. A lot of the lust is in the anticipation, mystery and conquest. When we have achieved that it's off to other battles. Not saying it's right, just a fact of life.

In marriage it takes a lot of work to keep the sex vital and new...on both parts. There are not too many people out here who are willing to put in the effort. (Unfortunately). It becomes easier to just go after a new lover than salvage the old.

Just one man's opinion.

I like these new smilies

 

[perks]

I've had a best friend in HS who was a virgin, and I was not. She ended our friendship because, as she put it, "I was a slut". Anyway, three months after that she lost her virginity and apologized. Needless to say, we were never that close again after.

The best friend I have now was a virgin when I met her too. She was a virgin, let's see, for two years before she met someone she wanted to sleep with. She was 24. She seemed more in tune with figuring things out, because she waited. She had the best playgirl collection of anyone I know, even counting my gay friends. She hasn't been with anyone since that guy, and she back into the mags, the toys and so forth. She is more about getting her sexuality in different places, ie...mags, toys, conversation, whatever, when she isn't with someone. When she is with someone it's not a big topic for her.

Sex makes things different. Not bad, not better....just different. Will you views on seeing the world be different because you had sex?.....possibly, but only iwth an emotional connection. THe rose colored glasses are about emotional attachment, not just cause you got laid.

my two cents,
perky

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

well good answers but I wasn't asking if I'd be any different.
was just wondering if you notice people with an extra spring in their step, or have been in a horible mood then just one day *snap* they are over joyed, stuff like that.

mabey i'm just seeing somthing that isn't actualy there lol.

 

[Moridin187]

I definitely changed some after I lost my virginity..

I gained confidence, and self-esteem.. Overall I've become a more stable and happier person since...


I wish I could have more though.. *sigh*

 

[lobito]

Fly, I remember the VERY FIRST time you and I had sex. MMM, The thoughts of it are making me ROCK HARD again.

The time, you ran around the room, with the sheet barely covering your bare bottom, man, that was a classic moment in my life.

Well, i'm not going to go into anymore details, but, well, let's just say, you sure have changed since then. For the better I might add.

I you Fly!

 

[Mellon Collie]

And she said she thinks i'm the kind of person that would change after I am married or even after I've had sex.

Yes, maybe we'll both be a little less uptight.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Re: Re: Is it obvious when...

Yes, maybe we'll both be a little less uptight.

Damn girl, you do it every time...

You will be FINE

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Re: Re: Is it obvious when...

Yes, maybe we'll both be a little less uptight.

I"m uptight? okay.

I 'could' make a rude funny comment. but I won't. haha.

 

[Mellon Collie]

Re: Re: Re: Is it obvious when...

Damn girl, you do it every time...

You will be FINE

I do not!

And Fly, you are not uptight I'm just teasing you.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

You do too!

My virginity is such a pain too...

 

[Mellon Collie]

You are so mean to me.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I know you were just teaseing.

everyone likes to tease the fly.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

I'm not mean to anyone, miss Wenesday Addams.. not at all!