AussieJames
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i just love being watched on my webcam, but i have noticed that women dont seem to be into it as much as males are................any comments?
is it natural to like someone to watch you masterbate on a webcam?
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bbwintoledo
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I find it quite normal...are you offering to perform for me? heehee
meop79
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Well of course it is!
Yes, it is very normal to enjoy knowing that someone (or even better lots of someones) is/are watching you when you are pleasureing yourself or even having sex.
Everyone enjoys being apreciated and (at least america) our society has portrayed that as wrong or at least scandalous. Which is a shame because it shouldn't be....
Sigh
Dreams of a perfect world...
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Yes, it is very normal to enjoy knowing that someone (or even better lots of someones) is/are watching you when you are pleasureing yourself or even having sex.
Everyone enjoys being apreciated and (at least america) our society has portrayed that as wrong or at least scandalous. Which is a shame because it shouldn't be....
Sigh
Dreams of a perfect world...
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i was always to shy and never thought i could do it, but one day i was talking to a very good friend of mine and well it sort of happened.
She loved it and to be honest, i came quicker and found more exciting, knowing I was being watched.
Maybe I am more of an exhibitionist than i thought *lol*
Have not had the favour returned yet, but fingers crossed
/wave
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She loved it and to be honest, i came quicker and found more exciting, knowing I was being watched.
Maybe I am more of an exhibitionist than i thought *lol*
Have not had the favour returned yet, but fingers crossed
/wave
QuickDuck
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Sure hope it's normal!!!
I have had several very exciting webcam masturbations...some with the female companion just on voice and some with her on webcam as well. Doing "it" as someone else watches and knowing it is arousing her increases the eroticism....and from what I've been told, for both! Kind of one of those, "next best thing", deals...it makes the on line as real as it can be made!
I have had several very exciting webcam masturbations...some with the female companion just on voice and some with her on webcam as well. Doing "it" as someone else watches and knowing it is arousing her increases the eroticism....and from what I've been told, for both! Kind of one of those, "next best thing", deals...it makes the on line as real as it can be made!
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Alright, alright, for crying out load! I think it's time to get a web cam, but I feel I might get into a lot of trouble with it, ha! 
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On the verge: hey, for $40, logitech is a fantastic investment, at least it was for my voyeur/exhibit fetish!
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sentrand said:
We were all new once. So, pull your chair a little closer and feed the senses. Welcome and stick around as you might find that you can enrich the very community of *like minds* After all, it's nice to have new blood to bring refreshing opions and a newness that is enticing and tingles, like anticipation. These webcams and the hungry thoughts of seeing more than words, but the flesh and interaction of two or more…
I don't think it's unnatural at all. But I do hate going to chat sites and constantly having guy IM me with, Wanna watch me?
Or just trying to show me thier webcam without saying Hi.
Befriend them first, get them interested, and I'm sure you'll get better responses.
Or just trying to show me thier webcam without saying Hi.
Befriend them first, get them interested, and I'm sure you'll get better responses.
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Totall Agree with Wiggles
Too many of us ( ie. men ) jump right into "things" in chat, like somehow this is the last day on earth and we just gotta get some!! Opinion: sex like most other experiences of life is much more enjoyable with someone we have come to enjoy in other aspects. Thank you for speaking up, Wiggles, to remind "us" behind all the handles and circumlocutions are real people.
Too many of us ( ie. men ) jump right into "things" in chat, like somehow this is the last day on earth and we just gotta get some!! Opinion: sex like most other experiences of life is much more enjoyable with someone we have come to enjoy in other aspects. Thank you for speaking up, Wiggles, to remind "us" behind all the handles and circumlocutions are real people.
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Want to Clarify Myself..............
I wasn't talking about a WEBCAM on my previous post. I guess I misunderstood the Total Question. I have never done a Mutual Masterbation on the Net. Thought never occured to me, but................................maybe something to experiment with. Are there any Ladies out there who will to help me Research this subject Further? I promise I'll behave.
I wasn't talking about a WEBCAM on my previous post. I guess I misunderstood the Total Question. I have never done a Mutual Masterbation on the Net.
Thought never occured to me, but................................maybe something to experiment with. Are there any Ladies out there who will to help me Research this subject Further? I promise I'll behave.
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Bahhh
Hell when you're on chat lets be serious most of the time guys the "girls" are either bots or guys and when you find a real live honest girl (shock, heart failure) It's almost more than a good red blooded american male can stand not to jump at her lol.
so give us some slack girls lol
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Hell when you're on chat lets be serious most of the time guys the "girls" are either bots or guys and when you find a real live honest girl (shock, heart failure) It's almost more than a good red blooded american male can stand not to jump at her lol.
so give us some slack girls lol
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Re: Your assumptions..and resolution
I'm interested, meop, in your methodology to discover you have a "real, live, honest 'girl' " ( girl is your word == don't think you'll get much slack for that choice ).
How do you determine she is not a "bot"? I'm not sure what that means, assuming something like "woof". The possibilities to present you with "non-bot" photos are endless. Voice won't give you appearance.
Voice will certainly identify a guy, unless voice-changing equipment is in use.
I guess I'm mostly arguing for my position that time and email and conversation provides the most possible means of establishing that a "real, live, honest woman" who is seeking the same on-line gratification I am is with me. My opinion [ for which since it is opinion I have very little facts, and minor experience ] is that the more quickly we rush forward to satisfy the "urge of the moment" the greater the probability we are stroking for other than a "real, live, honest" non-bot woman.
I'm interested, meop, in your methodology to discover you have a "real, live, honest 'girl' " ( girl is your word == don't think you'll get much slack for that choice ).
How do you determine she is not a "bot"? I'm not sure what that means, assuming something like "woof". The possibilities to present you with "non-bot" photos are endless. Voice won't give you appearance.
Voice will certainly identify a guy, unless voice-changing equipment is in use.
I guess I'm mostly arguing for my position that time and email and conversation provides the most possible means of establishing that a "real, live, honest woman" who is seeking the same on-line gratification I am is with me. My opinion [ for which since it is opinion I have very little facts, and minor experience ] is that the more quickly we rush forward to satisfy the "urge of the moment" the greater the probability we are stroking for other than a "real, live, honest" non-bot woman.
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*chuckle* Panda, a bot is an IRC term for anything that is not actually controlled by a human at the keyboard.
Usually it is a script with preprogrammed responses that somebody runs for some reason or another.
bot = (simply) not actually a person, and has nothing to do with looks, personality or whatever.
/wave
QuickDuck
Usually it is a script with preprogrammed responses that somebody runs for some reason or another.
bot = (simply) not actually a person, and has nothing to do with looks, personality or whatever.
/wave
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ty quick duck
As you can see, my "virgin" category is ( for now ) well deserved, LOL....I appreciate the info.
As you can see, my "virgin" category is ( for now ) well deserved, LOL....I appreciate the info.
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I'm going to take the Dan Savage path and say it isn't 'Natural'. If it were natural, you'd could look at most of the men in your workplace, in McDonalds, at Six Flags and assume they get off having people watch them masturbate on a webcam.
I do it, I love getting into Yahoo Chat, turning on the webcam and having whoever wants to, watch me masturbate. On good days, my girlfriend likes to get in on the action. We love to be watched in this fashion. There is little risk involved, all the psychos and nutcases are out of touching distance and those few people who really got turned on who want to keep in contact with us, have our email address.
It isn't natural, though, but that doesn't mean it isn't good.
I do it, I love getting into Yahoo Chat, turning on the webcam and having whoever wants to, watch me masturbate. On good days, my girlfriend likes to get in on the action. We love to be watched in this fashion. There is little risk involved, all the psychos and nutcases are out of touching distance and those few people who really got turned on who want to keep in contact with us, have our email address.
It isn't natural, though, but that doesn't mean it isn't good.
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Re: Re: Your assumptions..and resolution
LOL, well you've already been corected on the bot misconseption but look, there are damn few girls on voice or cam chat. That is simply a fact. there are a few in the local rooms but there are usually alot of real jerks in there to.
I would just like it if there were an easier way to meet up with nice girls to talk or share webcams with!
Good Grief!
I don't know maybe that's too dificult... I know one thing though I'm straight and I don't like it when guys pretend to be girls and get you to jack off while they watch... a little something about being lied to....
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SoftPanda_2001 said:
LOL, well you've already been corected on the bot misconseption but look, there are damn few girls on voice or cam chat. That is simply a fact. there are a few in the local rooms but there are usually alot of real jerks in there to.
I would just like it if there were an easier way to meet up with nice girls to talk or share webcams with!
Good Grief!
I don't know maybe that's too dificult... I know one thing though I'm straight and I don't like it when guys pretend to be girls and get you to jack off while they watch... a little something about being lied to....
meop79@yahoo.com
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Yahoo is the preferred way to cam... I have my cam on mostly on the weekends Darkbeast99 if it is just me, Erostwosome if it is me and my girlfriend. We let anyone view when we are actively on the camera (if you get denied it means you'd just be seeing the wall).
Yahoo is the preferred way to cam... I have my cam on mostly on the weekends Darkbeast99 if it is just me, Erostwosome if it is me and my girlfriend. We let anyone view when we are actively on the camera (if you get denied it means you'd just be seeing the wall).
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Women on Voice
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LOL, well you've already been corected on the bot misconseption but look, there are damn few girls on voice or cam chat. That is simply a fact. there are a few in the local rooms but there are usually alot of real jerks in there to.
I would just like it if there were an easier way to meet up with nice girls to talk or share webcams with!
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Perhaps I've just been fortunate, or the Muses smile upon my gray hair, I have talked with many very nice, intelligent, and friendly women on voice. Not many start out sexually, most get there as the comfort level and double meanings play themselves out. Fewer women with whom I've talked have web cams than I would like, yet only some were not interested in watching.
Totally agree with your honesty comment: of the thousands and thousands of commodities available on line, honesty is in the shortest supply!
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LOL, well you've already been corected on the bot misconseption but look, there are damn few girls on voice or cam chat. That is simply a fact. there are a few in the local rooms but there are usually alot of real jerks in there to.
I would just like it if there were an easier way to meet up with nice girls to talk or share webcams with!
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Perhaps I've just been fortunate, or the Muses smile upon my gray hair, I have talked with many very nice, intelligent, and friendly women on voice. Not many start out sexually, most get there as the comfort level and double meanings play themselves out. Fewer women with whom I've talked have web cams than I would like, yet only some were not interested in watching.
Totally agree with your honesty comment: of the thousands and thousands of commodities available on line, honesty is in the shortest supply!
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