are there a lot of us wanton females spending time here? I am usually the only one in the crowd with a huge libido and the first to mention sex (or touch the guy next to me). But here I feel I am not a loner. Many of the women here are free and open sexually and I salute you all. What a better world it would be if we all admitted we love a great fuck and can't wait to get lover's cock in our mouth.
Is it just me, or...
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sensualgreg
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Here Here !!!!!
To all those wonderfully liberated women out there that love a good fuck ..... WHERE ARE YOU ??????
e-mail me ... PLEASE !!!!!!
gregdv8@hotmail.com
To all those wonderfully liberated women out there that love a good fuck ..... WHERE ARE YOU ??????
e-mail me ... PLEASE !!!!!!
gregdv8@hotmail.com
Czarina (love the name, BTW!),
I think the reason you find more women who are open about sex here is due to a couple of reasons.
1. It is a sex site. Well, that may seem obvious, but focus of Literotica is sex - it's what draws people to this site. And being that it is of the written word - something women are more inclined to than the visual porn sites - you will find more women here who are open about their likes.
2. Anonymity (sp??) It's easy to let your "guard" down when you don't have to worry about your true identity, or that no one sees you, or that no really knows anything about you. I would guess that most women here who express an open view on sex are somewhat reserved in RL. (I know I am. I come here and will discuss almost any topic on sex without hesitation, and really get into the Sexual Role Play board, but in RL most people who know me would NEVER suspect I would EVER come to a place like this!)
3. I know for me, I become much more uninhibited with a man who is a good, tender, caring lover. Maybe not in public - but behind closed doors? Watch out!
I think the reason you find more women who are open about sex here is due to a couple of reasons.
1. It is a sex site. Well, that may seem obvious, but focus of Literotica is sex - it's what draws people to this site. And being that it is of the written word - something women are more inclined to than the visual porn sites - you will find more women here who are open about their likes.
2. Anonymity (sp??) It's easy to let your "guard" down when you don't have to worry about your true identity, or that no one sees you, or that no really knows anything about you. I would guess that most women here who express an open view on sex are somewhat reserved in RL. (I know I am. I come here and will discuss almost any topic on sex without hesitation, and really get into the Sexual Role Play board, but in RL most people who know me would NEVER suspect I would EVER come to a place like this!)
3. I know for me, I become much more uninhibited with a man who is a good, tender, caring lover. Maybe not in public - but behind closed doors? Watch out!
Good point, SexyChele. I suppose I was taken aback by the open and honest comments I have found. I am amazed to find so many women and men who can discuss sex on a mature level and at the same time have fun with it. I am glad to have found my way here. And thank you - the name is a bit egotistic but fun.
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Well, Czarina, we are glad to have you here with the rest of closet wanton hussies!
Sorry! I must be speaking for myself, but yes, lit does allow women to be freer with their minds and tongues
oops I mean fingers...Hmmm this isn't sounding at all how I intended.
Back to the topic at hand, It isn't just you. Many of us are here because we enjoy our sexuality and sensuality. To be perfectly frank, I have learned alot while perusing and posting at lit!
It is a very cool place to be!
Sorry! I must be speaking for myself, but yes, lit does allow women to be freer with their minds and tongues
oops I mean fingers...Hmmm this isn't sounding at all how I intended. Back to the topic at hand, It isn't just you. Many of us are here because we enjoy our sexuality and sensuality. To be perfectly frank, I have learned alot while perusing and posting at lit!
It is a very cool place to be!
EverReady4u
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Glad you decided to join us here. it is nice to see more and more women cumming here (pun intended). Chatting with some of the women here I have gotten a better insight and have improved my sex life at home as well.
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Do you think that women are more hesitant to talk about sex, or act on their initial desires, because they are afraid of being taken advantage of or of being hurt (physically and or mentally)?
This would make anonymous chats much easier to do as well.
If so, is a safe environment needed for most women to allow themselves to be turned on?
J
This would make anonymous chats much easier to do as well.
If so, is a safe environment needed for most women to allow themselves to be turned on?
J
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First off let me say it is truly refreshing to see the posts of women openly and honestly expressing themselves about their wants and desires.
JDU
I think women ARE hesitant to talk about about sex or act on their initial desires based on being afraid of being taken advantage of or of being hurt (physically and or mentally). But aren't we all. As a man I have never enjoyed a long relationship ending or the discomfort gained by approaching a woman and be re-buffed.
Another less obvious reason would be the stigma attached to woman who openly pursue sex. If a man does this he is looked at as being a romeo/player/dog. All of these hold both negative and positive connotations. But between men the negative is very little. A woman pursuing the same avenues is often refered to as being easy/a vixen/ho. These tend to be viewed in a negative light.
Ladies...forgive me in advance but alot of that megative conotation is placed there by women. Men are just as guilty (if not more so) but I state that to point out that between men being ....shall we say prolific is a positive yet between women doing the same is a negative.
Now this is not to say that we should all go around screwing everyone in site to make it all even. Just noting that we all play a part in restricting the sexual freedom of women. Hopefully forums such as this will help to make the expression of sexual desire between men and women easier and more acceptable.
Not sure where all this came from. Sorry if it was to long a read for anyone. Besides.....I missed out on the free love of the seventies and am pissed about it........;-}
JDU
I think women ARE hesitant to talk about about sex or act on their initial desires based on being afraid of being taken advantage of or of being hurt (physically and or mentally). But aren't we all. As a man I have never enjoyed a long relationship ending or the discomfort gained by approaching a woman and be re-buffed.
Another less obvious reason would be the stigma attached to woman who openly pursue sex. If a man does this he is looked at as being a romeo/player/dog. All of these hold both negative and positive connotations. But between men the negative is very little. A woman pursuing the same avenues is often refered to as being easy/a vixen/ho. These tend to be viewed in a negative light.
Ladies...forgive me in advance but alot of that megative conotation is placed there by women. Men are just as guilty (if not more so) but I state that to point out that between men being ....shall we say prolific is a positive yet between women doing the same is a negative.
Now this is not to say that we should all go around screwing everyone in site to make it all even. Just noting that we all play a part in restricting the sexual freedom of women. Hopefully forums such as this will help to make the expression of sexual desire between men and women easier and more acceptable.
Not sure where all this came from. Sorry if it was to long a read for anyone. Besides.....I missed out on the free love of the seventies and am pissed about it........;-}
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it's exactly as sexychele says, for me at least *smile*
i love the written sex words over the pictorials, any day. and i feel much safer in this enviornment, letting it all hang out, so to speak. if i were to act in RL as i do in here, i would either be afraid of being jumped, or being arrested *G*
it's titillating to 'have sex' with a stranger, but dangerous, so this place provides a wonderful alternative
i've 'met' a lot of truly terrific women at this site, and they are what keeps me coming back, as much as anything else.
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i love the written sex words over the pictorials, any day. and i feel much safer in this enviornment, letting it all hang out, so to speak. if i were to act in RL as i do in here, i would either be afraid of being jumped, or being arrested *G*
it's titillating to 'have sex' with a stranger, but dangerous, so this place provides a wonderful alternative
i've 'met' a lot of truly terrific women at this site, and they are what keeps me coming back, as much as anything else.
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Women in site
I'm guessing that most women are very interested in sex; not all will admit it, some are truly not interested. One dating site asks a question about owning or viewing porn vids. Many women say they don't own any but would "watch one with you." A few say they would never watch any.
I was introduced to this site by a woman. There are certainly many women authors. Perhaps this supports the view that women tend to prefer word pictures to portraits of erections, vulvae or breasts.
Thank goodness there is such variety of taste and Lit has something for everyone.
I'm guessing that most women are very interested in sex; not all will admit it, some are truly not interested. One dating site asks a question about owning or viewing porn vids. Many women say they don't own any but would "watch one with you." A few say they would never watch any.
I was introduced to this site by a woman. There are certainly many women authors. Perhaps this supports the view that women tend to prefer word pictures to portraits of erections, vulvae or breasts.
Thank goodness there is such variety of taste and Lit has something for everyone.
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Well thank heavens for women that do admit...sex is wonderful..and in case you are wondering...I'm an older sexy lady of almost 70 that has had lovers as young as 28 and god love the younger men that appreciate and admire an open-minded sensual women...that loves to love and be loved!!! I found this site b y accident...and thank goodness I did!! A real eye opener in more than one ways...and I intend to cum (pun intended) here often!!! FoxyJJ
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P.S. IF ANY OF YOU YOUNGER MEN ARE INTERESTED IN SEEING AN ATTRACTIVE WOMAN WITH A DARNED GOOD BODY...LET ME KNOW!!!
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nicodemus hit the nail on the head
I agree with most of you, nicodemus (sp?) how right you are.
However, I honestly didn't know what good sex was (or that I was entitled to orgasm as often (if not more) as my partner) until I met my husband at the age of 25! I faked everything, simply because:
1. nobody took the time to do it right (and I couldn't tell them what "right" was) and
2. after sooooo many failed attempts, I had convinced myself I was incapable of orgasm.
Some of this I blame on how society (as a whole) stereotypes women who enjoy and want sex. Curiousity as a young woman (high school age) is stifled by insecurity, uncertainty and lack of trust (which can rarely be established in any relationship at that age). No girl wants to be labelled as a slut, therefore asking for what you want is taboo.
Most of my situation I blame on lack of self esteem. If you do not feel sexy, sensual and attractive....you will not feel free enough to explore and enjoy. Again society teaches us from a young age, if we do not look like the women in mags or tv...we are not sexy, sensual, attractive or even worthy of a second glance.
So let my little soapbox tell the men...women are complicated creatures...but if you make us feel secure....LOOKOUT!!!!!
My husband brought out the porn star in me and our sex life continues to improve day after day. LOL, now I am a cyberaddict! How exciting to sow my wild oats as a mature voluptuous woman! I never experienced casual sex (a great fuck)when I was single....and now the sex chat rooms have become part of my daily routine. (yummy)
WOOHOO!!! To all the women who have realized it is okay to be as freaky as you (and your partner) want to be!
Now email me and tell me all about it.........
I agree with most of you, nicodemus (sp?) how right you are.
However, I honestly didn't know what good sex was (or that I was entitled to orgasm as often (if not more) as my partner) until I met my husband at the age of 25! I faked everything, simply because:
1. nobody took the time to do it right (and I couldn't tell them what "right" was) and
2. after sooooo many failed attempts, I had convinced myself I was incapable of orgasm.
Some of this I blame on how society (as a whole) stereotypes women who enjoy and want sex. Curiousity as a young woman (high school age) is stifled by insecurity, uncertainty and lack of trust (which can rarely be established in any relationship at that age). No girl wants to be labelled as a slut, therefore asking for what you want is taboo.
Most of my situation I blame on lack of self esteem. If you do not feel sexy, sensual and attractive....you will not feel free enough to explore and enjoy. Again society teaches us from a young age, if we do not look like the women in mags or tv...we are not sexy, sensual, attractive or even worthy of a second glance.
So let my little soapbox tell the men...women are complicated creatures...but if you make us feel secure....LOOKOUT!!!!!
My husband brought out the porn star in me and our sex life continues to improve day after day. LOL, now I am a cyberaddict! How exciting to sow my wild oats as a mature voluptuous woman! I never experienced casual sex (a great fuck)when I was single....and now the sex chat rooms have become part of my daily routine. (yummy)
WOOHOO!!! To all the women who have realized it is okay to be as freaky as you (and your partner) want to be!
Now email me and tell me all about it.........
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CUDA'S TO YOU HONEY...IT TOOK 15 YRS OF LIVING LIKE BROTHER AND SISTER..AND FEELING LIKE A DIRTY OLD WOMAN...TILL I GOT OUT AND STARTED LIVING...I CAN ONLY SAY...I AGREE 100 PERCENT WITH YOU....IT'S MY TURN NOW...AND IF A MAN DOESNT SATISFY ME...WELLLLLLLLLLL ....HE'S OFF THE LIST!!! MEN NEED TO TAKE MORE TIME AND ENJOY THE WONDERFUL PLEASURE OF A WOMAN!!!
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like your toughts on the oral.............................giving is better than reiciving sometime.
drop me a line.............i am in Bay City, MI............44 ......male
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like your toughts on the oral.............................giving is better than reiciving sometime.
drop me a line.............i am in Bay City, MI............44 ......male
tunatony1957@hotmail.com
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In the same token that a man desires and yearns for a woman's touch any any other venues that might folow, we should also approach there is distance and the ability to actually nurture and share our inner ablities, not only as a potential lovers, but a friend and a companion to share the most deepest deires and need not to be touched physically, but on an intuitive and emotional level as well. I admire the women who are assertive, confident, gentle and strong, who not only want to be touched in more ways than a rigid shaft in their pit of burning and salacious furnace, but other regions should, no, must be caressed and massaged. So many are willing to par-take in the very emotional and physical draw of sensuality and sexulity, but it is a hard call when there are so many that are not able or will not offer to level of sensuality and sexuality that is not taken of just self need. It's where there are so many choices on the plate, but one or two must chose wisely to how they will be able to digest it all. There is trust and respect that must be established. There are many couples and so fourth that are able to give and swealter in the most hungry and salivating sexual experiences, but we also have to look at how the internet is a medium that is anew and very virgin to how we can actually connect on a level that we can find and grasp the ones' that could actually surface that great fuck and that wonderful tender heart that fills the voids of an empty pussy to an unattended cock-let's add other orifices later...sooner?
Perhaps the best way on this medium is to actually keep a keen eye and to follow the path of the people who post and maybe, I stress maybe, that an interest will spark that there is potential. The key opperative word is "potential" and not all the other passive and less appealing ways that may follow.
So, let's just say we may need to be more open to tap and harness a potential lover or mate that we can touch our bodies as well as we deisre another to touch, and swell anything that we care to share and offer.
It's more than the initial draw, but the follow through that seals the envelope...
Alas, is his/her body going to be able to mold with mine, is she/him going to be able to be tender, but fuck me madly and not be selfish in the end, is this potential lover going to satidfy me...be happy and pleasure the both of us to a level we can burn and smolder not in just sex, but a friend that had offered and accepted the beauty of two souls and two minds interacting in the very senses that we seek to fulfill and dip into that world of "joy"?
It's not about what one can give you, but what the other can give to another-be it a gentle love to a full blown BDSM experience. Just dance to the tango of desire and lust to open the doors to other potential snippets of light that may follow on the cusp of the horizon, no?
Perhaps the best way on this medium is to actually keep a keen eye and to follow the path of the people who post and maybe, I stress maybe, that an interest will spark that there is potential. The key opperative word is "potential" and not all the other passive and less appealing ways that may follow.
So, let's just say we may need to be more open to tap and harness a potential lover or mate that we can touch our bodies as well as we deisre another to touch, and swell anything that we care to share and offer.
It's more than the initial draw, but the follow through that seals the envelope...
Alas, is his/her body going to be able to mold with mine, is she/him going to be able to be tender, but fuck me madly and not be selfish in the end, is this potential lover going to satidfy me...be happy and pleasure the both of us to a level we can burn and smolder not in just sex, but a friend that had offered and accepted the beauty of two souls and two minds interacting in the very senses that we seek to fulfill and dip into that world of "joy"?
It's not about what one can give you, but what the other can give to another-be it a gentle love to a full blown BDSM experience. Just dance to the tango of desire and lust to open the doors to other potential snippets of light that may follow on the cusp of the horizon, no?
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