Is It Dominanxe-submission?

[NOIRTRASH]

Research points to no bio predispositions for female same sex, sex.

But what I observe is lotsa dominance-submissive interaction.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

A doubting Thomas is a skeptic who refuses to believe without direct personal experience—a reference to the Apostle Thomas, who refused to believe that the resurrected Jesus had appeared to the ten other apostles, until he could see and feel the wounds received by Jesus on the cross.

I question everything till I get how it works. I come from natural philosophers, and its in my blood. The General Aptitude Test Battery listed medical research my highest vocational potential. Thru grad school I spent weekends at the medical school library exploring medical puzzles. My thesis explored alcoholism inheritance, every addict alive swears addiction is a disease. It isn't.

I think same-sex, is pathology when it is a barrier to making babies. And I pay attention ion to the research and what I observe. And what I see is female same-sex, sex is a D/s transaction.

 

[Desiremakesmeweak]

'How it works...' 'It' in this case, I presume is FF sex.

'It' then is way too general a descriptor. Human beings are themselves SO massively wide of a spectrum - just leaving the sex part out. So when you throw that back in it just makes it EVEN MORE COMPLICATED.

If on the other hand you 'just' consider the modern expression, 'the normative,' then normally, people are not super great looking, not super fit, not super wealthy, not super intelligent, not super competent at anything...

Jeez, it's a wonder they even 'do' sex!

How much diamond is crushed and industrialized before the graders pick out a few 'possible' gem-grade stones?

Is there a general 'lesbian' mind set or set of relationship mechanisms? I don't think so.

You're right in picking out that D/s stuff is pretty obvious of a theme in literature and porn and even glamour graphics vis-a-vis commercial advertising material and mainstream entertainment and movies.

That doesn't represent reality. It represent normality. But normality, is not REAL-ity. Not EVER.

People never face reality.

 

[HandsInTheDark]

Research points to no bio predispositions for female same sex, sex.

But what I observe is lotsa dominance-submissive interaction.

Lots of guys who start to look into dominance assume it's a ticket to endless sex. And once you get that in your head, you start wondering if you can realize every straight male's ultimate fantasy, MFF sex.

Reality turns out to be a bit different - D/s is not that simple - but this is a fiction site, so you'd rarely know it from the stories. MFF is also surprisingly common on roleplay sites, even when the females are played by actual females.

Unless you meant F/f relationships. Those happen, but I never got to watch because Dommes get very possessive. I'm assuming it's not much like porn videos.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

'How it works...' 'It' in this case, I presume is FF sex.

'It' then is way too general a descriptor. Human beings are themselves SO massively wide of a spectrum - just leaving the sex part out. So when you throw that back in it just makes it EVEN MORE COMPLICATED.

If on the other hand you 'just' consider the modern expression, 'the normative,' then normally, people are not super great looking, not super fit, not super wealthy, not super intelligent, not super competent at anything...

Jeez, it's a wonder they even 'do' sex!

How much diamond is crushed and industrialized before the graders pick out a few 'possible' gem-grade stones?

Is there a general 'lesbian' mind set or set of relationship mechanisms? I don't think so.

You're right in picking out that D/s stuff is pretty obvious of a theme in literature and porn and even glamour graphics vis-a-vis commercial advertising material and mainstream entertainment and movies.

That doesn't represent reality. It represent normality. But normality, is not REAL-ity. Not EVER.

People never face reality.

People talk out their asses about most things, but theyre pretty much alike. Sex is the ticket to lotsa ends and babies are usually what you get for playing the game. Orgasms are collateral rewards. Sex between girls don't make babies.

I observe that women lie and confabulate justifications, all the time.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

When my sight returns I wanna take a look at the birth order of lesbian couples. Birth order is significant for D/s with hetero couples.