Is it bad that I...

[Steve2018]

I’ve been with my mrs for over 5 years but I’ve just started a new job in the office that her best mate works in. We’ve been flirting for a few weeks and I can tell that she wants it, is it bad that I really want to fuck her even though it could ruin a 5 year relationship and her friendship?
What do I do?

 

[EctoJohn]

Is it bad you want to?
Not really.
We all fantasize.

Is it bad you continue to flirt knowing you're headed for dangerous territory?
Yes.
Is it bad if you do more than flirt?
Very much so yes.

It's a good sign that you can acknowledge this is not a good idea, but what you need to do is just cut it off cold turkey.
Stop flirting.
This is a no win situation if you continue.
Also consider the fact that the friend may not think she is flirting with you and just being fun and friendly with her best friend's husband.
Just because you think she wants to fuck doesn't mean she thinks that way.

Be friendly, be professional, be responsible.

Put your upper head in charge.
Don't forget that they are best friends, they can and will talk about you.
If you cross the line, there is no way your wife won't know.

Fantasize about it privately if you must, get off to the idea if you really must to get it out of your system, just don't act on it with her in reality.

Also consider the professional ramifications of fooling around with the best friend.
That might cost you your job to avoid a sexual harassment nightmare for the company.
That makes this even more of a lose-lose situation.

Do not fuck or attempt to fuck the best friend.
Ever.

 

[hilton1958]

I couldn't have put it better than EctoJohn, there can be no happy ending here for anyone!

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

Keep those thoughts to yourself in the shower. Enjoy stealing a glance or two, and wondering what if... But keep it zipped up. Nothing good can come of this.