Is it "allowed" or "normal" for couples who are breaking up...
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Re: Is it "allowed" or "normal" for couples who are breaking up...
No
*bratcat* said:to continue having sex? Cause...ummm...well, just answer the question, please.
No
MorgaineLaFay
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Are you talking about you and the Mr. Bratcat?
If so...I don't know how normal...but then wtf is normal?
I am going with Yes.
I think most couples that have been together & have a serious history are going to have sex together still, here and there. Not all ... but some.
It's a bond that holds some couples together still. A way they can still connect on some level.
If so...I don't know how normal...but then wtf is normal?
I am going with Yes.
I think most couples that have been together & have a serious history are going to have sex together still, here and there. Not all ... but some.
It's a bond that holds some couples together still. A way they can still connect on some level.
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Sure!
But If Ya'll Hate Each Other So Much, Then It's A Huge Mystery Ta Me WHY Ya'll Would Wanna Screw Each Other!
If It Was Just A Case Of Being Unable To Live With One Another, Then Go For It. After It's Over You Can Leave And Go Home
But If Ya'll Hate Each Other So Much, Then It's A Huge Mystery Ta Me WHY Ya'll Would Wanna Screw Each Other!
If It Was Just A Case Of Being Unable To Live With One Another, Then Go For It. After It's Over You Can Leave And Go Home
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Re: Sure!
is this not the case with marriage in general???RudeNastyAssBitch said:
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When my husband and I first split up, we agreed to keep having sex for a number of reasons, A) We were still friends B) It was familer C) we knew there was no chance of disease.
I stopped it after a short time because I became uncomfortable with the situation. Even in the best of breakups there is bad feelings and it just wasn't something I could keep doing with him. I found it caused more problems the it helped. Just my opinion...ymmv
I stopped it after a short time because I became uncomfortable with the situation. Even in the best of breakups there is bad feelings and it just wasn't something I could keep doing with him. I found it caused more problems the it helped. Just my opinion...ymmv
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sex with someone your angry at can be really hot...
i don't think it's healthy tho...to keep on having sex with someone you're divorcing. i understand the reasons behind it.comfort,familiarity...it is sex but it's going to make things more complicated and confusing in the long run.
i don't think it's healthy tho...to keep on having sex with someone you're divorcing. i understand the reasons behind it.comfort,familiarity...it is sex but it's going to make things more complicated and confusing in the long run.
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Why do you care what we think?
I mean why not start a poll if you're serious about having literotica guide your every move in your personal life?
"Sorry hon, can't fuck ya tonight, folks at lit said it wouldn't be right."
Jesus.
I mean why not start a poll if you're serious about having literotica guide your every move in your personal life?
"Sorry hon, can't fuck ya tonight, folks at lit said it wouldn't be right."
Jesus.
april-wine
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Here's my question......errr comment.....
You still love him....
The sex is still good.....
You are obviously still friends....
Why the hell are you breaking up????
You still love him....
The sex is still good.....
You are obviously still friends....
Why the hell are you breaking up????
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I lied, it isnt. Your a dead lay....RawHumor said:
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intentionally done wrong, I know it gets you hotRawHumor said:
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I used to think that everything had to be black and white. But when I finally had a girlfriend (with whom I had a serious attachment) for few years, I realized that in reality everything is so totally ambiguous. Furthermore, I realized that I'm okay with that.
The funny thing is, I don't think my girlfriend ever admited that we had a "relationship" at all, because her standards were so high about what constitutes such a thing. So I don't know what we had. I just was, I guess.
We had sex quite a few times after we broke up. I didn't know what we had, or what I lost, or whatever--so it didn't exactly add to the confusion.
The thing is, I doubt that another woman would be so tolerant. If I wish to remain friends with my ex (as I mostly do) then I figure I have to create a history which will prove to potential girlfriends that I can and will not screw around with my ex. Otherwise, it'll be ultimatum time. I'd rather not lose my friend. So, I haven't had sex with my ex since May of 2000.
I figure that's a pretty good track record. The question is, if you were a prospective girlfriend, would you trust me with my ex? How long does it take to prove that you can be friends with your ex and not have sex with her? What do you think?
Sorry, I didn't mean to make this about me. But it does kind of illustrate my feelings about the issue.
The funny thing is, I don't think my girlfriend ever admited that we had a "relationship" at all, because her standards were so high about what constitutes such a thing. So I don't know what we had. I just was, I guess.
We had sex quite a few times after we broke up. I didn't know what we had, or what I lost, or whatever--so it didn't exactly add to the confusion.
The thing is, I doubt that another woman would be so tolerant. If I wish to remain friends with my ex (as I mostly do) then I figure I have to create a history which will prove to potential girlfriends that I can and will not screw around with my ex. Otherwise, it'll be ultimatum time. I'd rather not lose my friend. So, I haven't had sex with my ex since May of 2000.
I figure that's a pretty good track record. The question is, if you were a prospective girlfriend, would you trust me with my ex? How long does it take to prove that you can be friends with your ex and not have sex with her? What do you think?
Sorry, I didn't mean to make this about me. But it does kind of illustrate my feelings about the issue.
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*bratcat* said:
Whatever.
Just seems a little pathetic that you don't seem to have enough conscience or mental clarity to figure this one out for yourself.
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Re: Re: Re: Is it "allowed" or "normal" for couples who are breaking up...
Because you are either with someone, or you aren't.
If you make an agreement that the sex is just for the sake of sex, then you are just having sex.
If you tell someone that it's over, and continue to have sex with them without making the prior mentioned agreement, then you are either giving them mixed signals, or are confused.
*bratcat* said:
Because you are either with someone, or you aren't.
If you make an agreement that the sex is just for the sake of sex, then you are just having sex.
If you tell someone that it's over, and continue to have sex with them without making the prior mentioned agreement, then you are either giving them mixed signals, or are confused.
april-wine
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*bratcat* said:
Ahhhhh so there ain't no talking during the hot, sweaty, nasty sex????
Hmmmmm how about you come down here, I promise not to talk.....
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