Is it a Prerequisite for men...

SexyThang

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To be insensitive clods?

Is it something they learn or are they born that way? Just curious.
 
Actually - its in our jeans

I think you hit the nail right on the head.
 
If I Am Correct...

Your Partner Is KidRock1.
I Could See How Ya Might Belive this to be true! LOL

Though he seemed to have a bout of Eloquence and Charm Yesterday, how often does that really happen?

Even still, my husband is a MOST Insensitive and Clown-like creature as of late, so perhaps it really IS in their jeans...LOL!!!

Nice To Meet You Sexy Thang:)
RNAB
 
You've Only Seen the Dark Side

Send me an email Sexy and start getting to know what it can actually be like. That goes for the rest of you misused females also. You know what the definition of a gentleman is - always rests his weight on his elbows! Hope to hear from you so I can give you an attitude adjustment.
 
You do have a point there, RANB!! :)

He's usually pretty good, but it's those OTHER moments that make me wonder!!

Nice to meet you also..fellow Torontonian :)
 
Dillinger, you twit. Get your ass over here so I can see your "jeans." I think it IS a prerequisite, sure seems like it, anyway. I don't think that I'd really want a man that can tune into my feelings, though. I really like MANLY men... you know, the kind who are all for walking the walk, but don't care to talk the talk. I think for a lot of guys, being sensitive or insensitive is a facade. So choose facades wisely, and try to find one that is genuine; then decide if he makes you happy. Communication is the key to sensitivity. I honestly believe that if you just talk to the person, eventually they'll learn to read you, they can tell what's bothering you, and if something IS bothering you. I swear that my monk only has to look at me to know what I'm thinking. THAT is the key to sensitivity.
 
Dillinger said:
Actually - its in our jeans.


We'll have to see about that, get over here for jean inspection right now. And make sure they're easy access too!
 
Oh don't get me wrong, mine can tune in and out at will.

But when he compares me to Linda Blair..for saying what's on my mind, LOL.

Sorry Dixon, I'm not into titty bars. Do you work in one?
 
Gosh, i'm not an insensitive person....



< shuffles foot and backs out of the thread with my head down>
 
Men just need to learn that it's okay

to share their feelings. That's not, unfortunately how boys are raised to be men. It starts early on in life. Men just need better training and lots of therapy!


blue
 
That's it in a nutshell, Flamingo.

They refuse to share their feelings and that's when the "fun" starts!
 
Why is it then......

that all women must be winey cunts who seemingly insist on remolding pertinent men in their lives into men of their won making and their feminine ways of thinking?

The only sensitivity a good, normal man needs - is to realize that women often require such play - and play up to it - just enough so they can get laid.

If men are not of this mind set - then they are not men - they are something "not manly."

Ah - the truth hurts.
 
No, they're just assholes. Got nothing to do with not being manly, although those that feel the need to prove it obviously have doubts about themselves.
 
There is no facade here. I present my self as I am. My punning aside I don't believe you can apply "all" to any group - men or women. I'm actually quite the opposite of a clod. And insensitive - I really don't think I am.

However - the differences between men and women are in our genes and especially in my jeans... and I am now open for inspections...
 
With the possible exception of Mother Teresa -- and she may have had her moments, too -- every last one of us is capable of being an insensitive, self-absorbed clod. It certainly isn't gender-specific.
 
"Proving" manhood....

can be an indication of self-doubt. But....

It can also be fun.

Some guy stuff is just fun to do - for us.
 
Just to clarify things.....

I do prefer sex, and that is my preference. I just wish that the new meds would allow my libido to function at a higher level. And so does dr. blue.

I certainly hope that removes all doubt as to Sparky's query.


blue
 
PS.....

It's fun being an asshole sometimes.....

You should try it.

I recommend it.

You shouldn't knock it until you've tried it.
 
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