Is he asking me out?

[N48]

Received an email from guy at work who I've never met asking if I'd like to go for a drink sometime. He thought it would be 'nice' and described me as 'slim' amongst other things. Is he asking me out?

 

[NickNTime]

Received an email from guy at work who I've never met asking if I'd like to go for a drink sometime. He thought it would be 'nice' and described me as 'slim' amongst other things. Is he asking me out?

Oh yeah. I'd say he most certain't is. Want to share the email?

 

[Chrissi]

More like a pre-date...but yes absolutely!!!!

A public setting, one on one, he hopes it will be nice, and he commented on your looks...he definitely sounds interested. Yay you, if you are interested too


Topher

 

[N48]

Wow! Thanks for confirming that for me guys. Always considered myself straight but getting this email made me wonder! Wondered if he just wanted friends or ifhe wanted to have his way with me? Would he have been fantasizing about me do you think? Think it's this which intrigues me and makes me lil scared about if I did meet.

 

[NickNTime]

why not meet him if he seems like a nice guy, but don't lead him on. I consider myself straight really, but have been considering guys as another option lately.

Wyh not see what you think?

 

[Chrissi]

Wow! Thanks for confirming that for me guys. Always considered myself straight but getting this email made me wonder! Wondered if he just wanted friends or ifhe wanted to have his way with me? Would he have been fantasizing about me do you think? Think it's this which intrigues me and makes me lil scared about if I did meet.

Not knowing what the email said, other than what you told us, but while I would say he is interested, don't jump to any conclusions too far down the road.

I love to flirt, I'm certainly not afraid to ask a guy out for a coffee or drink even if I have no idea if he is gay or open to a "date," but that doesn't mean I want to rip his shirt and pants off either.

Respond, in kind to his message, if you are interested.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Wow! Thanks for confirming that for me guys. Always considered myself straight but getting this email made me wonder! Wondered if he just wanted friends or ifhe wanted to have his way with me? Would he have been fantasizing about me do you think? Think it's this which intrigues me and makes me lil scared about if I did meet.

''have his way with me..?"
I wouldn't go there. If anything happens it should be consensual. You say you're straight, so this is all new territory for you. I'd go with an open mind, but not with a wild rush into anything intimate. If you're comfortable with the guy and the situation, go with it. If you're not comfortable just say so.
But the situation has a lot of potential...

 

[N48]

Thanks for the advice all. I'd say I'm nervous about actually acting on my curiousities. Moreso did he figure I was curious and so pinged me the email? I think deep down I need this- even at least once to see if I like it. Presuming of course it goes down that route. I think in private I'd be more relaxed ie his place. I've been fantasizing like crazy over what might happen. Maybe Delaware is interesting afterall!

 

[NickNTime]

Thanks for the advice all. I'd say I'm nervous about actually acting on my curiousities. Moreso did he figure I was curious and so pinged me the email? I think deep down I need this- even at least once to see if I like it. Presuming of course it goes down that route. I think in private I'd be more relaxed ie his place. I've been fantasizing like crazy over what might happen. Maybe Delaware is interesting afterall!

Thank you for the update. If you don't mind I'd love to hear more. I haven't had the same experience yet, so I'm curios about what happens with you.

 

[Somehowyou]

My advice is to test the waters. You are really not out anything if you go and meet a guy for a drink. I have made it with a few shemales but I still consider myself to be straight. Just to make sure, I went to a gay bar to se what I would do. I remember that night. Very interesting... I tried to meet a few transgendered/CDs but they wouldn't have anything to do with me. I met a guy and we talked (nice guy) but as we talked I couldn't take my eyes off a young girl that was tearing up the dance floor. I told the guy good night and I approched her. I told her that she was the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. She said "but your gay?" I said I really dont think I am and we laughed and had drinks...We didn't go home together but I learned something about myself.

Go out and broaden your horizens.

 

[hrmph]

I say meet the guy and see what develops. The one time I was asked out by a guy in high school I politely turn it down but was actually beginning to be bi curious.

I never ended up exploring before I got married so I would advise you to give it a shot. =)

 

[MaleThonger]

Please keep us in the peanut gallery updated with what happens, sexual or otherwise!

 

[NickNTime]

Received an email from guy at work who I've never met asking if I'd like to go for a drink sometime. He thought it would be 'nice' and described me as 'slim' amongst other things. Is he asking me out?

I noticed that its been a week since he emailed you? Have you responded at all? Have you met? I'm starting to feel,sorry for the guy if he hasn't gotten any response.

 

[priapusone]

is he

yes, keep us posted on the affair of cocks!