is everything you see somehow related to bdsm?

[vikingwarrior72]

it seems like everywhere i look, whether it be in the house, or out in public. i get reminded of some type of bondage. my computer chair doesn't even look the same after i started researching into this stuff. has this happened to anyone else?

 

[O'Mac]

No. I have a job, friends, family, and so much more that preoccupies my mind. BDSM is a part of my life, but it doesn't run my life.

 

[satin_coals]

Lol. I don't seem to have that problem unless I'm visiting Bunnings Warehouse (or Home Depot, hehe) Then my mind just reels .. even if we're actually shopping for something to renovate with, lol.

Otherwise I am pretty good. Like O'Mac, I have so many other things to pre-occupy myself with.

 

[vikingwarrior72]

i suppose it must be something like a new toy syndrome. i wouldn't say it "controls" me or anything. maybe i'm just awestruck at all the possibilities.

 

[Aeroil]

Only if you have too much time on your hands.

 

[O'Mac]

i suppose it must be something like a new toy syndrome. i wouldn't say it "controls" me or anything. maybe i'm just awestruck at all the possibilities.

I was kinda like that with my xBox, so I know the feeling.

Seriously, I'd say then when I first started out, I DID put a large emphasis on ritual and building a routine. As I got more and more practise in, it just became another thing I did. Not that it still isn't special or meaningful. I guess it's kinda like shuttle launches.

And to explain that analogy...

We go into space like every week! Truly, if it's not the Yanks or Russians, it's the Europeans sending up satellites and probes and stuff. It's cool and amazing that al this happens, but it's just that it happens so much you can't always single it out. And that's cool.

Hmmmm, not sure where I was going with that. I just think I want to be an astronaut.

 

[satin_coals]

Hmmmm, not sure where I was going with that. I just think I want to be an astronaut.

You want to be an astronaut? awww that's my dream job, hehe *grins*

 

[catalina_francisco]

My mind has always been tuned into seeing the possibilities for things in a sexual sense, so these days that is extended to SM and D/s ideas as well. Where people are concerned though, I try not to think about and categorise everyone as either Dom/me, submissive or switch as some do.

Catalina

 

[Kailey_86]

When I first started looking into this I found myself looking at people and wondering whether or not they might be into it and if they were what would they be, a Dom or sub. Now that I know more about the subject and am more comfortable with it I feel like it is just part of life and I am not out looking for it anymore.

 

[mcgill82ferret]

Grins. Maybe when the techies are done with the space station and declare it space junk, we kinksters can get it cheap and turn it into a dungeon.

Which has me wondering... they've done all these experiments about "how things are affected in space..." maybe a scene like "how weightlessness effects a BDSM scenc might be of interrest..." and we get up there before its just space junk. Just musing...

 

[shy slave]

I am with the OP on this one.

No matter how busy my mind is a small part is always thinking about sex/Bdsm/D/s.

I discovered BDSM late in life but even before that I would look at various things and wonder about their potential to either be fucked on or used as a fuck toy.

Last year I went to a hen night (bachelorette party), one of the girls had beautiful Victorian style earrings.
They looked just like clover nipple clamps.
Once that thought was in my head I had to share with the bride to be who has Domme tendencies.
Needless to say after a couple of drinks she and I just could not take our eyes of them and our conversation was all about how they could be used and various places they could be clamped.
Due to our laughter and interest in this poor girl we ended up having to explain why we were fixated by them

She avoided us for the rest of the evening

I guess if you see BDSM in earrings you could be called slightly obsessed lol

 

[Shankara20]

I am with the OP on this one.

No matter how busy my mind is a small part is always thinking about sex/Bdsm/D/s.

I discovered BDSM late in life but even before that I would look at various things and wonder about their potential to either be fucked on or used as a fuck toy.

Last year I went to a hen night (bachelorette party), one of the girls had beautiful Victorian style earrings.
They looked just like clover nipple clamps.
Once that thought was in my head I had to share with the bride to be who has Domme tendencies.
Needless to say after a couple of drinks she and I just could not take our eyes of them and our conversation was all about how they could be used and various places they could be clamped.
Due to our laughter and interest in this poor girl we ended up having to explain why we were fixated by them

She avoided us for the rest of the evening

I guess if you see BDSM in earrings you could be called slightly obsessed lol

I see toys everyplace I go, hardware store, kitchen store, grocery store and with my fondness for lace undies clothing stores.

Now I have added rice to my list of toys. Yes, rice. Not so long ago I mentioned that I was experimenting with bras. Cup size and how to fill them came up in the conversation. Eb mentioned that she fills the toes of nylons with rice to make falsies for her crossdressers. So now I am purchasing larger cup sized bras and making rice falsies in all sort of sizes. The first ones I made I used the brown rice I have at home, but in time the raw rice aroma became distracting. So this weekend I went shopping for bulk white rice to make falsies - at this very moment I have two lovely C-cup jasmine rice boobies on my chest. The rice department will never be the same.

*sigh*

 

[MorfeuV]

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[CutieMouse]

Falsies for Shank

 

[Shankara20]

Falsies for Shank

cute... thanks

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Count me in the list of the obsessed.

My girl janey complains that I can "pervert" anything. Anything at all. I think I sealed that particular claim to fame when I explained to her how I could use car tires for a bondage/suspension scene... We can't go shopping anywhere without me finding something to smack/clamp/bind/poke or otherwise torture her with.

 

[myinnerslut]

im with the people who see bdsm everywhere.. though for me its really just seeing sex everywhere. bdsm is a subcatagory.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Ever notice how this yellow thing below the word AMAZON looks like a penis?
https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/G/01/x-locale/common/logo-and-your-done.gif

 

[A Desert Rose]

Or the ends of this black ribbon behind the word Heineken looks like a double penis?

http://www.beerlabels.com/labels/mini/0/1/0/beerlabels.com-01081.jpg

 

[A Desert Rose]

and the trees on this lable remind me of Christmas...

http://www.mylifeisbeer.com/beer/bottles/autopics/131.jpg

 

[babiesmiles]

I guess if you see BDSM in earrings you could be called slightly obsessed lol

No if your Master handcrafted for you a pair of little delicious earrings which look exactly like two little floggers

Sometimes I wear them even on work when seriously dressed with my job suits, and must say I 've never been asked about them yet .
Lots of glances but never a single question.

I guess the reason is such a question would disclose too much about the "inquisitor " !!

 

[FurryFury]

is everything you see somehow related to bdsm?

Yes.

It doesn't "run" my life but that is where my mind goes. I tend to intergrate things into my life in all areas even if no one else but me is aware of it.

Fury

 

[sexychik69]

When I first started looking into this I found myself looking at people and wondering whether or not they might be into it and if they were what would they be, a Dom or sub. Now that I know more about the subject and am more comfortable with it I feel like it is just part of life and I am not out looking for it anymore.

Agreed, I do that as well, or used to when I was more new to the BDSM realm. I even went as far as imagining whether my professors were a Dom or a submissive, if they even enjoyed the lifestyle. Kinda brought an extra kink into class and kept me from getting bored.

 

[Xelebes]

CAPITALISM is a way and a means to COLLAR us all, just like FEUDALISM. We are never FREE under this SYSTEM, despite living in a DEMOCRACY, which really is just another way to COLLAR us all and put us into ENSLAVEMENT....

 

[SirFace]

it seems like everywhere i look, whether it be in the house, or out in public. i get reminded of some type of bondage. my computer chair doesn't even look the same after i started researching into this stuff. has this happened to anyone else?

Yes, Im consumed.