is cyber sex really that good

[Brooknam281]

I've never had cyber sex before... is it really all that great? why not just have phone sex?

 

[chained_bird]

yes and no. like any other type of sex, it depends on your partner.

personally, i prefer cyber to phone. with cyber, you get a chance to edit what you're doing, get rid of the awkwardness in the wording. it's easier to refer back to what's going on if you get a little confused.

i think another big one might be volume. if you're on the phone with a partner who's very quiet, you may be disappointed. or if you're quiet, you may worry about disappointing your partner. with cyber, you get a little more reign with your imagination.

Just some thoughts.

 

[Guest]

I've found it's highly overrated. Fantastic sex, to me, is about multiple levels of stimulation: physical, mental, and emotional. With cybersex, you're dealing almost exclusively with mental stimulation. (The physical stimulation is self-service, and emotional stimulation is nigh impossible unless you take a great deal of time to establish feelings for the individual you're cyber fucking, and that rarely happens.) So, when you're reduced to just mental stimulation, I think you'll find that the people that could most stimulate your mind aren't exactly the cybersex type. In which case, you're left trying to get off with people that really don't have the requisite skill to arouse and excite with words and mental imagery. (Unless you have extremely low standards, that is.)

As such, I've always found attempts at cybersex to be an abysmal waste of time and energy.

 

[Banth]

I agree wholeheartedly, as my few forays into cybersex were disappointing to say the least since all the participants all failed to deliver upon their promises of intellectually stimulating exchanges. Good thing I didn't give up on my Blaze books

I've found it's highly overrated. Fantastic sex, to me, is about multiple levels of stimulation: physical, mental, and emotional. With cybersex, you're dealing almost exclusively with mental stimulation. (The physical stimulation is self-service, and emotional stimulation is nigh impossible unless you take a great deal of time to establish feelings for the individual you're cyber fucking, and that rarely happens.) So, when you're reduced to just mental stimulation, I think you'll find that the people that could most stimulate your mind aren't exactly the cybersex type. In which case, you're left trying to get off with people that really don't have the requisite skill to arouse and excite with words and mental imagery. (Unless you have extremely low standards, that is.)

As such, I've always found attempts at cybersex to be an abysmal waste of time and energy.

 

[GeorgeWBush]

It depends on your partner if he/she is good or not my girl likes me to make her cum both from cyber and phone but i like phone sex because i can hear her make her noises when i tell her to rub her pussy or to pinch her clit and she starts to whimper and breath heavy and when she starts to cum she screams out oooooooooooooooooohhhh mike.

 

[ewopper]

it helps to have a wide vocabulary too

ooh shit... ahhh fuck... yessssss... and ogod gets old after awhile

roflmao

 

[Moleculor]

ooh shit... ahhh fuck... yessssss... and ogod gets old after awhile

roflmao

If that's how you're doing it, you're doing it wrong.

Anywho, it's been half a decade or so since I had cybersex (I think), but back then I knew people who would literally write out 500 word "poses" back and forth for it. Yes, 500 words in a single response. For them, it was like creative writing. It was creative writing for me too, but not quite that detailed.

That said, I'd prefer phone sex too, these days.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

I don't really think of it as sex so much, really more of interactive masturbation. I've had fun with it, you may as well try it and find out.

 

[Pyro Paul]

Cyber sex is a great way to commuincate your basic emotions towards people through the straigh anonimity of the web. Opposed to Phone sex, cyber sex tends to be more articulated because you odnt have the power of being there or being able to say things or hear things.

when your on a phone you can simply say, oh baby, yeah, suck it hard yeah yeah yeah. and since you have your voice, tone, way it was said that makes it erotic. where as online that same line looks bland and simple.

when your online it is best to be more detailed which builds a better picture than phone sex ever could, but you still lack some of the personal details that is brought in by phone or actual sex.

'i slide my hands softly over your volupsious breasts and meed my hands slowly against your flesh, my fingers pinch slightly against the hard nubby nipples that point out into the fresh cold night air as my lips gently cup around your clit, my tongue licking in soft circles around your pleasure...'

That is a better scene and alot of people would perfur That opposed to a guy/girl saying, "oh baby" half a dosen times.


In the End, Phone sex tends to be more personal than Cyber. where as Cyber sex tends to be more discrpitive and vivid than phone. Take your pick.

 

[babydoll2u]

ooh shit... ahhh fuck... yessssss... and ogod gets old after awhile

roflmao

LOLOL.. got that right.... now phone sex.........

 

[CatfightFan]

I don't really think of it as sex so much, really more of interactive masturbation. I've had fun with it, you may as well try it and find out.

I can't think of a better description.

 

[ewopper]

LOLOL.. got that right.... now phone sex.........

haven't had phone in awhile either i'm rusty