Is Cum Squirt All Relative?

[RacyWilde]

I guess this is a question for all the guys... and I'm not going to be coy about this.

I love watching a guy cum, though it's more about witnessing a guy's pleasure for me. I'm a very visual person - I like to see the pleasure. (I'd like to hear it too but for some reason guys tend to be rather quiet when they orgasm so often their cum shoot is the only clue into their pleasure.) I've kind of always thought that the type of cum shot is relative to the pleasure of orgasm... But, am I just reading 'tea leaves'? So I want to finally ask: is a cum shot relative to orgasmic pleasure? (Yes, I understand every male is different... that's why I'm asking. Just maybe, there is a general consensus...?)

Some supporting questions:

If the guy shoots hard and fast does that mean his orgasm is hard and fast?
If a guy shoots slow and gently does that mean his orgasm is softer or more sensual?
If a guy cums a lot or a little is that relative to his orgasm - the little cum (maybe because he has already cum that day) giving him a shorter weaker/harder stronger orgasm?
Does distance/streaming/thickness play a role in knowing how intense his pleasure is?
Does orgasm change with age? (I know it changes with the emotional intimacy a guy has with his partner.)

Any insight into the male orgasm is much appreciated.

Thanks


(And Flash, stop giggling at me )

 

[TwistedJenn]

I think these are all good questions, I'm curious as well.

 

[mbrown3]

I guess this is a question for all the guys... and I'm not going to be coy about this.

Ok, I'll give my 2 cents. For me, yes, typically there is a correlation. If I've been saving up, for example, I can shoot several feet. This can also happen if I'm just really, really turned on. Other times, more gentle, slower spurts do tend to mean a more gentle orgasm. Not less enjoyable, Just...different. sometimes it's gentle radiating waves of pleasure and sometimes it's the force of a tidal wave that explodes and takes my breath away.

May not be true for everyone, but it is for me.

 

[Intoanythin]

I agree with the statement that the longer you have not cum, or the more turned on you are, has an effect on the amount of cum, and the distance cum shoots, but for me, there really is no difference in the feeling. Cumming is always an intense and pleasurable experience.

 

[Klinkster]

1: If the guy shoots hard and fast does that mean his orgasm is hard and fast?
2: If a guy shoots slow and gently does that mean his orgasm is softer or more sensual?
3: If a guy cums a lot or a little is that relative to his orgasm - the little cum (maybe because he has already cum that day) giving him a shorter weaker/harder stronger orgasm?
4: Does distance/streaming/thickness play a role in knowing how intense his pleasure is?
5: Does orgasm change with age? (I know it changes with the emotional intimacy a guy has with his partner.)

To answer, without writing a novel. (So many questions with so many answers)
1: Maybe, but not necessarily.
2: Maybe, but probably not.
3: Maybe, or he may be built that way.
4: Maybe, but not necessarily.
5: Yes. Absolutely.

So many questions with so many variables......pick one for more details..........

 

[KentuckyDom1971]

I think the thickness of the cum has more to do with that particular mans body and hydration. The more dehydrated a man is the thicker his cum will be and the less distance it is likely to shoot.
My orgasms will lose intensity and the cum will lose volume if I have back to back to back orgasms. They still feel awesome but can be less intense.
I think the sign of how much pleasure a man is receiving, at least in my case, will be revealed in the tension of his body, breathing, and even vocal.
For example, when I cum I tend to growl and have a tremendous release so that I am panting heavy afterwards. There is no question I have enjoyed my orgasm when I cum.

 

[RacyWilde]

Ok - I've been getting some great answers via PM - I wish they were public so we could discuss . But, anyway, it seems that a few guys don't even rate pleasure by cum at all (some don't even have to come to be fully satisfied!). So, my next question is...

How do you know his level of pleasure without asking him?

Asking a guy about his pleasure level is such a kill-joy - it's something that I never do. You don't want 20 questions from the girl when all you want to do is bask in the afterglow of an orgasm. So, how can a girl know? Yes, most guys say stuff like "That was fantastic", "I loved it", "You rock!" and the awkward "High Five", but that kind of tells me nothing...lol. And usually I'm not in such a relationship with the guy to be able to ask such intimate questions.

Is it the fact that he keeps coming back? (Because in my opinion, guys will usually come back just as long as they can still get some...lol. It's not usually about degree of pleasure.) Or is it that next day appreciation? - He makes sure to contact you, no matter how busy you both are, just to reconnect for a moment? If cum is not a giveaway, then what is?

 

[RacyWilde]

Ok, I'll give my 2 cents. For me, yes, typically there is a correlation. If I've been saving up, for example, I can shoot several feet. This can also happen if I'm just really, really turned on. Other times, more gentle, slower spurts do tend to mean a more gentle orgasm. Not less enjoyable, Just...different. sometimes it's gentle radiating waves of pleasure and sometimes it's the force of a tidal wave that explodes and takes my breath away.

May not be true for everyone, but it is for me.

OMG - I love this line: gentle radiating waves of pleasure It made me melt. Yes, what you've written is kind of what I've been thinking. Thanks.

I agree with the statement that the longer you have not cum, or the more turned on you are, has an effect on the amount of cum, and the distance cum shoots, but for me, there really is no difference in the feeling. Cumming is always an intense and pleasurable experience.

Yes, but the longer you haven't come for, that usually equates to the quicker you will come during sex? Because I think the general collective thought of women is that the quicker a guy comes, the more turned on he is. I know when a guy takes a long time my mind starts to wonder what is wrong...lol. (I was brave enough to ask a guy one time and he said he didn't want the sex to end so he held on for as long as he could....lol.)

Thanks for your insight.

To answer, without writing a novel. (So many questions with so many answers)
1: Maybe, but not necessarily.
2: Maybe, but probably not.
3: Maybe, or he may be built that way.
4: Maybe, but not necessarily.
5: Yes. Absolutely.

So many questions with so many variables......pick one for more details..........

lol - Thank you. Yes, I have so many questions... You can see why I'm asking them here rather than grilling my next sex partner

I think the thickness of the cum has more to do with that particular mans body and hydration. The more dehydrated a man is the thicker his cum will be and the less distance it is likely to shoot.
My orgasms will lose intensity and the cum will lose volume if I have back to back to back orgasms. They still feel awesome but can be less intense.
I think the sign of how much pleasure a man is receiving, at least in my case, will be revealed in the tension of his body, breathing, and even vocal.
For example, when I cum I tend to growl and have a tremendous release so that I am panting heavy afterwards. There is no question I have enjoyed my orgasm when I cum.

Hm... dehydration... we are getting scientific! lol. Maybe I should make my next guy drink a litre of water before sex...lol.

Do guys really want back to back to back orgasms? Is it the challenge? The boast to say you did...lol? If you don't want sex to end - is it better to have many or hold off and have one mega load that makes you too limp to carry on?

Thanks

 

[RacyWilde]

I think these are all good questions, I'm curious as well.

I know, right!? Us girls need answers, damn it! lol

 

[sandra753]

I love watching them as well,love when a group of them line up and masturbating some grunt and scream because they hold it back so long it hurts.

 

[RacyWilde]

I love watching them as well,love when a group of them line up and masturbating some grunt and scream because they hold it back so long it hurts.

Oh man! I have never had a line up. Thats on my sexy bucket list...lol. Lucky girl!

I have a friend in the UK that plans to set me up... yikes! So nervous excited.

(And the more grunt and scream the better!!!!!)

 

[mbrown3]

OMG - I love this line: gentle radiating waves of pleasure It made me melt. Yes, what you've written is kind of what I've been thinking. Thanks.

Thanks. And for the record, I am anything but quiet when I cum.

 

[Klinkster]

How do you know his level of pleasure without asking him?

That...is something you have to learn! We (guys) are different you know!.

Example: With me, if my wife is giving me a hand job, the better it is, the more I will start humping her hand as I'm close to cumming. It's proportional to the 'quality'...I suppose that covers it.... If I'm about to have a better O, I start thrusting back, and faster. Not so great, for what ever reason, I may just do it a little.

Different than a BJ. I get close to blowing my load, and I freeze up, but shake and thrust a little more quickly, but shorter strokes.

Something you have to read with experience.
Some other guy....will not be the same....

 

[sandra753]

Oh man! I have never had a line up. Thats on my sexy bucket list...lol. Lucky girl!

I have a friend in the UK that plans to set me up... yikes! So nervous excited.

(And the more grunt and scream the better!!!!!)

It's definitely a hot site to see,mine were mostly black and huge

 

[EggoWaffle]

There have been some good answers to the initial questions, so I won't add to those. As for how to know if his level of pleasure without asking...for me, if I roll over and go to sleep, it was pleasurable, but not mind blowing. If I come back for more or want to get close, it was pleasurable and awesome.

Safe to say orgasms are pleasurable 98% of the time, though.

 

[StupidDoes]

speaking for myself, the amount of cum does notdictate the level or intensity of the orgasm. take the dry orgasm for example: i stroke until i cum but ruin the orgasm therefore ejaculating without pleasure. then i stroke hard and fast and bring myself to an intense orgasm..with no cum! the real indication for me is the uncontrollable legs twitching (yes..like a dog)

also the length of time edging can intensify the level of pleasure and the volume of cum.

on the flip side. simply not orgasming for a week and then orgasming can produce a simple release of a ton of cum..but not really pleasurable. its almost functional at that point...however tye follow up second orgasm is much more intense but low volume of cum.

did my rambling help at all?

ps. i am willing to allow you to work with my cock to test various orgasming techniques to determine a pattern of cum/pleasure ratio. this experiment will realy need to look at how levels of moisture, tightness around the penis, and other factors effect this ratio. please let me know when you would like to begin.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

I love watching them as well,love when a group of them line up and masturbating some grunt and scream because they hold it back so long it hurts.

Yes, this is true.
Also I have seen men cum what looked like a five feet stream and others only a little squirt. From inside those long hard shots are amazing but I've never met a squirter or a dribbler I didn't like.

Is Cum Squirt All Relative?
By the way my husband said if the girls are young, the boys go bareback, relatives are sure to follow!

 

[sandra753]

Yes, this is true.
Also I have seen men cum what looked like a five feet stream and others only a little squirt. From inside those long hard shots are amazing but I've never met a squirter or a dribbler I didn't like.

Is Cum Squirt All Relative?
By the way my husband said if the girls are young, the boys go bareback, relatives are sure to follow!

Love those who shoots ropes of cum

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Love those who shoots ropes of cum

We are nudist and spent a lot of time "further" down the beach from the regular nudists. I know of at least two close friends who just had to show me how far they can shoot. My hubby is not normally a "Man" watcher but even he would be impressed.

Many others thought I needed to watch them masturbate and cum too. But those two long squirters still give me memories that make me smile.

 

[sandra753]

We are nudist and spent a lot of time "further" down the beach from the regular nudists. I know of at least two close friends who just had to show me how far they can shoot. My hubby is not normally a "Man" watcher but even he would be impressed.

Many others thought I needed to watch them masturbate and cum too. But those two long squirters still give me memories that make me smile.

Awesome,now i wish i could have seen that. My weakness is tasting cum and it's hard to watch and not tasting.

 

[Klinkster]

As far as distance....

#1 is just how you are plumbed. In my 20's, laying on the bed, I could shoot over my head, and hit the window behind the headboard. Talkin' 10 feet.

#2 is with age, you lose a lot of pressure. About all I can do, is hit our faces a shot or two.

Volume......

I used to be good for 10 or 12 squirts. The first 6 or so, being the best and most powerful, and the remainder, not so great, but still shootin'!

Now.....5 or 6, but only 2 or 3 are big, and the rest are dribblers. A note, that after 6 or so, I'm still cumming, and still pumping, but the magazine is empty.

 

[sandra753]

As far as distance....

#1 is just how you are plumbed. In my 20's, laying on the bed, I could shoot over my head, and hit the window behind the headboard. Talkin' 10 feet.

#2 is with age, you lose a lot of pressure. About all I can do, is hit our faces a shot or two.

Volume......

I used to be good for 10 or 12 squirts. The first 6 or so, being the best and most powerful, and the remainder, not so great, but still shootin'!

Now.....5 or 6, but only 2 or 3 are big, and the rest are dribblers. A note, that after 6 or so, I'm still cumming, and still pumping, but the magazine is empty.

I seen a 57yo black guy shoot his over 5ft Now it took him long time to shoot,but very impressive to me.

 

[Klinkster]

I seen a 57yo black guy shoot his over 5ft Now it took him long time to shoot,but very impressive to me.

I wish I could still do that....even when I was 57!!!

 

[HeyAll]

I think men & women are a lot a like in this area.

The eye test if usually a good indicator. If you see a guy raging hard and shoots a big load, then you can bet that feels amazing.

If he shots a big load with lots of cum, then yes, he felt a lot of pressure. After all, in order for a cock to become that erect and shoot something, then there has to be blood pressure. It's basic science. If there's no blood flow, there can't be an erection.



That said, a lot of it is hormonal (just like women). It cock could be raging hard on its own (especially in the morning). Or a guy could get super hard, super quick, with little stimulation. He's just in the mood, physically speaking.

On the flip side, a guy could be super aroused mentally and his erection could only be so-so. If the body doesn't want to co-operate, it doesn't want to co-operate. Most of the pleasure comes from how stiff it is. The more erect and hard the cock is, the more pleasurable things will feel.

If a cock is flaccid and you rub it, it doesn't feel much. But if a cock is raging hard and its being rubbed in a normal way, it feel amazing.


As for cum, a guy can only produce so much within a period of time. Yes, it's true that shooting a big load feels amazing, and is a sign of a great orgasm. But a guy could shoot a small load (or nothing at all!) and still feel an amazing orgasm.

And I think a lot of this does decline with age. Basic biology, the older you get, the less testosterone you have and the less blood pumps there.


In short, I think men & women are common in this regard. It all comes down to either hormones or mental stimulation. If you have both at the same time, there's going to be an amazing orgasm at the end.

 

[sandra753]

I think men & women are a lot a like in this area.

The eye test if usually a good indicator. If you see a guy raging hard and shoots a big load, then you can bet that feels amazing.

If he shots a big load with lots of cum, then yes, he felt a lot of pressure. After all, in order for a cock to become that erect and shoot something, then there has to be blood pressure. It's basic science. If there's no blood flow, there can't be an erection.



That said, a lot of it is hormonal (just like women). It cock could be raging hard on its own (especially in the morning). Or a guy could get super hard, super quick, with little stimulation. He's just in the mood, physically speaking.

On the flip side, a guy could be super aroused mentally and his erection could only be so-so. If the body doesn't want to co-operate, it doesn't want to co-operate. Most of the pleasure comes from how stiff it is. The more erect and hard the cock is, the more pleasurable things will feel.

If a cock is flaccid and you rub it, it doesn't feel much. But if a cock is raging hard and its being rubbed in a normal way, it feel amazing.


As for cum, a guy can only produce so much within a period of time. Yes, it's true that shooting a big load feels amazing, and is a sign of a great orgasm. But a guy could shoot a small load (or nothing at all!) and still feel an amazing orgasm.

And I think a lot of this does decline with age. Basic biology, the older you get, the less testosterone you have and the less blood pumps there.


In short, I think men & women are common in this regard. It all comes down to either hormones or mental stimulation. If you have both at the same time, there's going to be an amazing orgasm at the end.

I can agree 100% with that and think God i can have great big one's