Is buttfucking another person cheating?

[Hamletmaschine]

Just thought I'd try to bring together some recent themes on the board.

So ... what do you think?

No oral. No vaginal. Just buttfucking. Would that be cheating?

"But, honey, I didn't screw her, I just buttfucked her!!"

Or: "No, honey, he didn't fuck me, he just buttfucked me."

What if it was with someone of the same sex? With or without a strap-on?

What if you just put it in there a little bit and wiggled around some and pulled it right back out?

 

[lovetoread]

Only if you cum is it cheating.

 

[riff]

It's cheating.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Only if you're not using lube.

 

[perks]

you're deliberately taunting me today, hammie, deLIBERATELY!

 

[riff]

Cheating is cheating.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

Only if you cum is it cheating.

This would extend to oral and vaginal, too, I take it. Or is it only applicable in the case of buttfucking?

 

[riff]

Cheating is cheating (chorus)

 

[Hamletmaschine]

Cheating is cheating.

Thanks for the input from the Department of Redundancy department.

 

[mig]

Cheating is cheating (chorus)

Cheating is cheating(refrain)

 

[Rubyfruit]

LOL

Seriously, I'm surprised how often this topic comes up. What's so difficult about the concept? If you're hiding it from your SO, it's cheating.

 

[activesense]

It's all in the intent...

Some highly caffinated thoughts at the end of the day:

I think if you meant to buttfuck them, then it is cheating, just like it would be if you kissed, licked or jacked off on them - HOWEVER, if it was an accident (which my girlfriend refuses to believe), then it is not cheating.

People just don't realize how easy to accidently back into someone (and if they happen to have already been lubed up), well there you go - another accidental buttfuck.

I think it is all about communication... as long as you explain clearly, you're OK.



have a happy first day of summer,

activesense

 

[riff]

LOL

Seriously, I'm surprised how often this topic comes up. What's so difficult about the concept? If you're hiding it from your SO, it's cheating.

Thank you, Ruby. You said just what I was trying to say.

Your AV worries me though. Is Purple Haze hurt or just nursing?

 

[Hamletmaschine]

Re: It's all in the intent...

Some highly caffinated thoughts at the end of the day:

I think if you meant to buttfuck them, then it is cheating, just like it would be if you kissed, licked or jacked off on them - HOWEVER, if it was an accident (which my girlfriend refuses to believe), then it is not cheating.

People just don't realize how easy to accidently back into someone (and if they happen to have already been lubed up), well there you go - another accidental buttfuck.

I think it is all about communication... as long as you explain clearly, you're OK.



have a happy first day of summer,

activesense

As always activesense, your post makes ... well ... sense.

So that time I was going at it doggy-style with this one sweet young thing and I was intentionally doing that, it was cheating. But when I slipped out of her and accidentally shoved it in the "wrong" hole (the lights were off, after all), that part of it was not cheating.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Only if you're cheating while buttfucking.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

Were we married once? That kind of double-talk sounds awfully familiar....

 

[activesense]

Re: Re: It's all in the intent...

As always activesense, your post makes ... well ... sense.

So that time I was going at it doggy-style with this one sweet young thing and I was intentionally doing that, it was cheating. But when I slipped out of her and accidentally shoved it in the "wrong" hole (the lights were off, after all), that part of it was not cheating.

Exactly, you understand the situation completely...

I was just trying to draw a new perspective into this complex concept.

The moral of the story - be careful where you put your thang.

activesense

 

[Private Vasquez]

Were we married once? That kind of double-talk sounds awfully familiar....

I don't think so.

I thought I was your hero?

 

[Hamletmaschine]

No, you misunderstood. I said, "gyro."

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

only if it's on accedent

 

[Private Vasquez]

No, you misunderstood. I said, "gyro."

Then you shall henceforth be known as lambchop with yogurt.

 

[pipercatt]

I love that cucumber sauce they put on gyro's.

yum.

 

[riff]

What about the boy?
What about the boy?
What about the boy, he saw it all.

You didn't see it.
You didn't hear it.
You will say nothing to on one.....

 

[Hamletmaschine]

Does this mean people will start calling me "Lammy" (w/yogurt-cucumber sauce) instead of "Hammy"?

 

[pipercatt]

Does this mean people will start calling me "Lammy" (w/yogurt-cucumber sauce) instead of "Hammy"?

Do you want us to?