Is bigger really better? If you are a lady...I guess yes since you can "expand" to fit almost any size and you like that feeling of being "filled" up. As a bi-male, that's not so true...why? First, a monster cock is fun to play with, but can you deep throat it,,,not really and can you fuck it....not unless you are a slut with a gaping ass...I like a normal sized guy (which most of us are)...to be able to swallow it and lick those balls and the base of that cock...that's what really turns us on. Your thoughts?
Is Bigger Better?
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wildrose70
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Well there is that happy medium...I have had all different sizes and yes some are just too darned big...men seem to think bigger is better..
Tain't neccassarily so....I'm more comfortable with a nice sized one...that will fit in your mouth and not tear you apart!!!
And like it's been said so many times...
It's not what you have.....it's how you use it!!
Tain't neccassarily so....I'm more comfortable with a nice sized one...that will fit in your mouth and not tear you apart!!!
And like it's been said so many times...
It's not what you have.....it's how you use it!!
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Very timeless issue, and you discuss it very thoughfully. Guys have always had "Penis envy" , and are very sensitive to feeling they are smaller than they should be to please a lover. Public treatment in porno movies and mags doesn't help, either. The web is just stuffed with ads for penis enlargement ("add 1-4 inches on your penis.."). Forget all this shit. I'm just a little over 6.5 inches, and some of the sexiest women I've ever seen (I mean with 40DDD busts, and tight asses, and nice waist, and beautiful hair and face) have told me that I have about the "nicest" cock they've ever had, and they don't stop calling me. So ... it isn't bullshit. Learn how to satisfy your partner, and have a great life. 
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Thanks, so much, Zidane. You're one sweetie. Want to drop me a note @ HeadOfVelvet@Aol.com? In any event, I loved the line that the size of the boat didn't matter as much as the motion of the ocean. I hope your floating crackers are finding their appropriate cheese-melters this weekend. b.
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bigger doesnt mean better
i believe alot of people...i am guessing more guys than girls...think that size matters...i have talked with several guys who wish they were bigger...but for me, i can truthfully say bigger doesnt always mean better...just because you are a well endowed male doesnt make you a good lover automatically...like quilesed...it is definitely the motion of the ocean...
i believe alot of people...i am guessing more guys than girls...think that size matters...i have talked with several guys who wish they were bigger...but for me, i can truthfully say bigger doesnt always mean better...just because you are a well endowed male doesnt make you a good lover automatically...like quilesed...it is definitely the motion of the ocean...
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re Is Bigger Better
Honestly,
I find any thing between 5 1/2" to 7" perfectly adequate since I'm not particularly into cervical penetration.
Why do guy's worry about this so much ?
I rather have a 5 incher that lasts all night than a 8" that misfires after 2 minutes.
Its not what you've got its how you use it that counts.
Honestly,
I find any thing between 5 1/2" to 7" perfectly adequate since I'm not particularly into cervical penetration.
Why do guy's worry about this so much ?
I rather have a 5 incher that lasts all night than a 8" that misfires after 2 minutes.
Its not what you've got its how you use it that counts.
Georgia Girl
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When you consider that the female vagina is approximately 7 inches in length as a standard it is understandable why anything over that is not going to be used adequately.
I spoke with someone once who claimed to have a 12 inch cock, personally I was not interested. He claimed it would pass right through my cervix. All I could think was OUCH!!! and the fact that my IUD would stab him.
It really is all about being comfortable with what you have, pleased enough with it to show it off and knowing what to do.
Dawn
I spoke with someone once who claimed to have a 12 inch cock, personally I was not interested. He claimed it would pass right through my cervix. All I could think was OUCH!!! and the fact that my IUD would stab him.
It really is all about being comfortable with what you have, pleased enough with it to show it off and knowing what to do.
Dawn
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I agree with Dawn
What matters the most is pleasing your lover, male or female. It is mutual pleasure that makes it all worth while not what size you are.
Though I must say something that big would probably be painful unless they were careful.
What matters the most is pleasing your lover, male or female. It is mutual pleasure that makes it all worth while not what size you are.
Though I must say something that big would probably be painful unless they were careful.
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I agree...
Size is overrated. I know there are women who like the feeling of being pounded into the mattress, but not me. Whatever floats your boat. I would rather work with what God gave you. I like to think that technique is more important than size anyday.
Ebony (Just my opinion)
Size is overrated. I know there are women who like the feeling of being pounded into the mattress, but not me. Whatever floats your boat. I would rather work with what God gave you. I like to think that technique is more important than size anyday.
Ebony (Just my opinion)
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To me size dosent matter....have been with some very well endowed men who didnt know what the hell to do no matter how big their cock was. And have been with some men of average size who really knew what to do. I would rather be with someone who knew how to make me scream no matter what the size of his cock. You cant do anything about the size of your cock.....but you are in total control of how well you can use it!
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size isnt such a big deal. use it well, and leave em satisfied. staying power and technique have always seemed to work with me. ( i have about 7 inches). besides, if ya got a problem satisfying with your dick, then shift your emphasis to learning to use the tongue better. course i like to do both hehe
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Did you know?
I think that if you search some of the websites that cater to men. They are in agreement of what the average size penis is.
I think it ranges between 5 to 6 inches (I may be off a half or so).
Since like most bell curves that average is smack dab in the middle that means that every one else is either larger or smaller than "average".
However, However if you are like me when when confronted with a bell curve, I say "Who gives a shit?"
Do you have one? Does it work? Do you know how to use it? If you can answer all three of those questions with a yes, then as far as I am concerned you are good to go! LOL
Anyway, I have found that the really rock hard penises tend to be the ones that are not the biggest. After all, there is only so much blood in the body! <chuckling>
Ebony
I think that if you search some of the websites that cater to men. They are in agreement of what the average size penis is.
I think it ranges between 5 to 6 inches (I may be off a half or so).
Since like most bell curves that average is smack dab in the middle that means that every one else is either larger or smaller than "average".
However, However if you are like me when when confronted with a bell curve, I say "Who gives a shit?"
Do you have one? Does it work? Do you know how to use it? If you can answer all three of those questions with a yes, then as far as I am concerned you are good to go! LOL
Anyway, I have found that the really rock hard penises tend to be the ones that are not the biggest. After all, there is only so much blood in the body! <chuckling>
Ebony
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similar experience
I can relate. Once this guy IM'd me asking me if I was interested in meeting a man with a 13 inch cock, cause he knew that black women liked them large. I did not know whether to laugh or cry at the stereotype. I opted to laugh my ass off. It stills make me chuckle. I told him that answer was not no but Hell no! Pain is not my thing! I laughed so hard, that you can see in my avatar the remnants of that ass I used to have!
Ebony <still LMAO>
Georgia Girl said:
I can relate. Once this guy IM'd me asking me if I was interested in meeting a man with a 13 inch cock, cause he knew that black women liked them large. I did not know whether to laugh or cry at the stereotype. I opted to laugh my ass off. It stills make me chuckle. I told him that answer was not no but Hell no! Pain is not my thing! I laughed so hard, that you can see in my avatar the remnants of that ass I used to have!
Ebony <still LMAO>
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I don't mean to dismiss the fine men in this thread, who have posted this genuine concern...because a lot of women (not all, mind you - but a lot it seems) have the same anxieties about the size of their boobs, or their bums - etc...I guess it's human nature!
I'm going with the other ladies that have posted - in all honesty, I couldn't give two figs about the size of a man's knob...if he rocks, floats and shakes my boat - he's okay in my books!
I'm going with the other ladies that have posted - in all honesty, I couldn't give two figs about the size of a man's knob...if he rocks, floats and shakes my boat - he's okay in my books!
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Honeygirl said:I don't mean to dismiss the fine men in this thread, who have posted this genuine concern...because a lot of women (not all, mind you - but a lot it seems) have the same anxieties about the size of their boobs, or their bums - etc...I guess it's human nature!
I'm going with the other ladies that have posted - in all honesty, I couldn't give two figs about the size of a man's knob...if he rocks, floats and shakes my boat - he's okay in my books!
I am also in agreement here.....and the last part of what you said is how alot of women feel....
1sexylady......
This is a timeless debate~ but other than bored out sluts, I agree most normal women could care less as long as it works,well.
I've had a lot of "friends" over the years, and I'm not a big guy, kind a short and sassy with an athletic build and I've always been a little miffed about it all. I have small hands and small feet so I know that women look at me and go "shorty" in thier minds LOL! but I've never had a complaint about my nice little 7"r
When ever I get to where I know wer'e going to fuck I always ask for them to overlook my little dick, before they even know it's not really little, I call it the little guy, it lowers expectations and it works out really well LOL!
I'd say on average, women have told me they don't like pain, but also don't like a dead fuck either~
I was screwing a friends wife for a couple years and she told me her hubby had a REALLY big dick and he always hurt her with it~ She loved mine so that made me feel great, the first time I fucked her I pounded her for an hour solid~ she actually put me "on the clock" LOLOLOLO!!! I didn't know anyone did that~ a couple hours later she was all jellyfied~ I don't think size matters and if it does, there's plenty of "dicks" out there HAHA!
Another friend told me she had never met a big dick that wasn't attached to a big dick~ I liked that one, cause I know guys just like that! The lord overcompensated them for some reason and most of the time it seems to be for lack of respect or personality~
It's all good
I've had a lot of "friends" over the years, and I'm not a big guy, kind a short and sassy with an athletic build and I've always been a little miffed about it all. I have small hands and small feet so I know that women look at me and go "shorty" in thier minds LOL! but I've never had a complaint about my nice little 7"r
When ever I get to where I know wer'e going to fuck I always ask for them to overlook my little dick, before they even know it's not really little, I call it the little guy, it lowers expectations and it works out really well LOL!
I'd say on average, women have told me they don't like pain, but also don't like a dead fuck either~
I was screwing a friends wife for a couple years and she told me her hubby had a REALLY big dick and he always hurt her with it~ She loved mine so that made me feel great, the first time I fucked her I pounded her for an hour solid~ she actually put me "on the clock" LOLOLOLO!!! I didn't know anyone did that~ a couple hours later she was all jellyfied~ I don't think size matters and if it does, there's plenty of "dicks" out there HAHA!
Another friend told me she had never met a big dick that wasn't attached to a big dick~ I liked that one, cause I know guys just like that! The lord overcompensated them for some reason and most of the time it seems to be for lack of respect or personality~
It's all good
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I have to agree with honeygirl. I think guys care more about dick size than women do. I also tend to believe that women care more about the size of their breasts than men do.
I know SOME men care about women's breast size, just as some women care about the size of a man's cock - normally wanting the largest in both cases.
I'd say that the vast majority of the opposite sex would rather see a "nice" set (either breasts or cock) than a huge one.
I know SOME men care about women's breast size, just as some women care about the size of a man's cock - normally wanting the largest in both cases.
I'd say that the vast majority of the opposite sex would rather see a "nice" set (either breasts or cock) than a huge one.
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I dont think size matters at all!
When I was younger and very horny I couldnt find anything to get off with I used a itty bitty little chap stick! And had some mindblowing orgasms with just that.
Yeah all the nerve endings that count are right at the begining anyway. So what ever goes past that is just a waste. But now that I am more "experienced" I would rather have a nice thick cock than a real long one.
When I was younger and very horny I couldnt find anything to get off with I used a itty bitty little chap stick! And had some mindblowing orgasms with just that.
Yeah all the nerve endings that count are right at the begining anyway. So what ever goes past that is just a waste. But now that I am more "experienced" I would rather have a nice thick cock than a real long one.
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I do not know if size truly makes a difference, but I would love to find out! Maybe for me it is not the lenghth so much as width, I think a big fat dick would be much more fun than a long one.
