Is Bigger Better????

[Ck Me Out 2005]

i have heard so much about the size of a man, that i was wondering if its really true. does it feel better or is just the idea sounds better? i know i enjoy looking at a nice big thing (i'm male) but then wonder how much use can you get out of it. movies i've seen the guy only seems to enter maybe half way, i like to watch movies were it goes in all the way and you can hear the sound as it slap. i like it when you are in all the way and hear the slapping sounds as you slam in.

 

[aka Lusty]

Length means nothing to me. It's all in the girth. I have no interest in having a cock bouncing off of my cervix, so anything beyond average is useless to me.

 

[Brandy1969]

Length means nothing to me. It's all in the girth. I have no interest in having a cock bouncing off of my cervix, so anything beyond average is useless to me.

I couldn't agree more.

 

[Eilan]

Men whose self-worth is wrapped up in the size of their dicks aren't sexy.

If size mattered, a lot of ladies would forego the man and buy a dildo. Or three.

Besides, it's really all about pussy depth.

 

[bethanyman]

im only average length but 6 inches around
been told that width is the key

 

[bamagirl]

Personaly I don't think size matters.The best lover I ever had was also the smallest.Its the person and how they use what they have and how they make you feel....

 

[rthnck]

Filling the hole

I am personally in the long but thin category. Perfect for anal! I always believed that girth was more preferable to a woman than length and so purchased various dildos and vibrators and cock sleeves to give my significant other the feeling that I was sure she was looking for. And lo and behold she didn't like it! She's all about length (lucky me) and actually finds larger objects (and we've tried them all from thumb size to wrist size) uncomfortable. In summary: every hole is different, not every woman likes the same thing and it ain't the meat, it's the motion.....

 

[lonelyinsnowlan]

There's something to the size... but it's also about ability. A guy can have a humungous cock and not have a clue how to use it to please a woman. I've only been with one man who was really too small. In fact, some of the smaller men have been more pleasurable.

I agree with the girth vs. width comments that some have made. I'm more of a girth girl.

 

[StevenWill]

More to it

We will never get around the fact that penises are attached to people, just like breasts. You can build a fantasy around a huge dick, or even an evening or weekend, but you can't build a relationship around it. Penises bring men pleasure and breasts bring women pleasure; we don't grow them for others to judge. We love to turn our sources of subjective pleasure into objects for others to use. Sex is a team sport and we are all on the same team. A good partner trumps a big body part every day of the week.

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[Miss Eggroll]

Good sex starts in the other head.

 

[juicyjinjams]

....oooh erm..... hmmmmmm.........

let me think.....

...... a thick one for me please..... not too long..... ...full of cum

....... .....but the other head not too big, and definately not thick

 

[Davor]

let me think.....

...... a thick one for me please..... not too long..... ...full of cum

....... .....but the other head not too big, and definately not thick

Sure you can handle a thick one babe...?

 

[ExtrmMiho]

Hmmmm, it's the famous question. Well, to me, size doesn't really matter. Like it has been said, just as long as the person knows how to use it. To big can be painful. Just learn how to work it and I'll do the rest, heheheh.

 

[SexyChessMaster]

Tools

'Tool' is one of many euphemisms for the penis. Like any tool it's usefulness dependant on the mind-set and expertise of the tool user! We should also recognise, when it comes to sexual intimacy, we have other 'tools' too.

A tongue, lips, teeth, the mouth itself and the saliva it can produce. Two hands, 10 fingers, two feet, 10 toes, other movable/touching body parts, even directed breathing, the voice, and not forgetting the anus. These are 'tools' which we guys need to master if we are to pleasure our partner(s) and ourselves!

Expertise is important but as many will know, without the feelings that direct such tools, the whole exercise mechanical and unfulfilling. But there may be some exceptions! And then what of experience? From student to expert ... quite a journey!

 

[mickyp123]

Length means nothing to me. It's all in the girth. I have no interest in having a cock bouncing off of my cervix, so anything beyond average is useless to me.

Its not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean as they say

 

[aka Lusty]

Its not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean as they say

Clearly there are two schools of thought going on in this thread, but let's be honest here. There is such a thing as an unusually small penis, and no amount of 'motion of the ocean' is going to make a difference.

 

[mickyp123]

Clearly there are two schools of thought going on in this thread, but let's be honest here. There is such a thing as an unusually small penis, and no amount of 'motion of the ocean' is going to cure that.

That is true but i am sure it would work for him lol

 

[aka Lusty]

That is true but i am sure it would work for him lol

I don't doubt that, Mickey. I'm just saying...

 

[mickyp123]

I don't doubt that, Mickey. I'm just saying...

Lol......so am i


lightning never strikes twice (micky)

 

[Lee9104]

Size is not what matters. I have been with a man that was large but he had no clue what to do with it. I have been with men that are smaller and no more about how to please a woman. Its all about pleasure to me not size.

 

[ayrton]

While it sounds like most of you girls agree that as far as the sex act itself size doesn't matter, but do any of you find a big cock arouses you more? I ask because I am a total breastman. I get much more excited by a woman with big tits than small. I'm just talking purely sexually. In a relationship the size of a girls tits means little to me, but just seeing a girl with big tits I get extremely aroused. I guess a correlation would be hard, since I can see the size of a womans breasts while clothed where you really can't see the size of a penis while clothed...unless it's really huge! LOL