Is anyone ever to old/young

Vinny

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for you to have a relationship with. Ofcourse I am talking about legal tenure. How far up and down the age ladder would you go?
Age to me is just a number as long as she is of legal age
 
I prefer older men myself. However, it just depends on the individual. I have met men at 25 years of age with more maturity than a 35 year man. Most of the men I have dated tend to be in the age range of 29-36. I will be 33 in a few weeks. Simply, if I click with someone....I don't want to base things on age alone.
 
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So summer likes older men., She is 33 and I am 35 MMM could there be a chance here
 
For the record, I am 39, and I have a daughter that is 21.

Age is also just a number and I do try to convince my friend of this.

I have dated a man as young as 30 and men as old as 55. I don't believe I would feel comfortable dating someone that my daughter would date. I guess my cut off age would be about 27 or 28. I've been asked out by men that are a bit younger and I just feel that I would be dating someone my daughters age. Upper age doesn't bother me at all.
 
Vinny said:
for you to have a relationship with. Ofcourse I am talking about legal tenure. How far up and down the age ladder would you go?
Age to me is just a number as long as she is of legal age

Let see my fiance is 7 years older then myself. Does that answer the question?
 
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Vinny said:
So summer likes older men., She is 33 and I am 35 MMM could there be a chance here

If you were in the same time zone darlin', anything would be possible.
 
I usually find myself attracted to men who are older than me. I'm 26, and I tend to date men who are in their mid-upper 30s.

I was dating a guy who was 27 or 28, but he just seemed like a kid to me. That is not to say that I'm mature (I can be a kid), but he just seemed even younger than I am, even though he wasn't.

Overall, it is more important that you get along with the person and have similar ideas of what you want out of a relationship, than how much older or younger they are. I just happen to find that I have more common ground with older guys.
 
Age is irrelevant. What matters is maturity, common interests, etc. However, I will soon be 34 and it seems that I am usually attracted to slightly older men. It's not a conscious thing. . .just something I've noticed.
 
My man is 26 years older than I am and we've been together
12 years.

Works for me.
 
I agree that age is not a factor (as long as everyone is legal, that is). I'm 49 and have enjoyed partners as young as 20 and as old as 48.
 
Well I don't think I could ever have a relationship with an 18 yr old, but hey it is possible. I prefer older men too. My husband is 10 yrs older. I don't think I could go above 40 unless it was a very special man. Definately not above 60 though.
 
Life experience counts for a lot more than years. Someone who has experienced the ups and downs of a varied life is infinitely more interesting than someone who hasn't - that being said I would be uncomfortable dating my mother's friends;)
 
yes I have been told that a couple of times. I am too old for that woman.
 
Nope I didnt. there was a 7 year age difference (I was 27 - she was 20)

She is still one of the most importnat people I ahve ever met.
 
I don't set parameters on who I date. The selection is rare enough as it is. I've gone out with a girl who was 16 (when I was 20) and a woman who's 27 (just recently).

But since I graduated school early, I'm most often around women a year or two older than me, while women a year or two younger than me just seem too young.

TB4p
 
well, fuck!

guess i'm up a shit creek without a paddle.
 
VanB said:
Life experience counts for a lot more than years. Someone who has experienced the ups and downs of a varied life is infinitely more interesting than someone who hasn't - that being said I would be uncomfortable dating my mother's friends;)

You make a good point and I probably should have expanded on my own comment a bit.

As we've all probably experienced, age has little to do with maturity. For many years I had said I wouldn't be interested in a really young woman, but the young woman I referred to is rather exceptional.

Generally, I would probably lean towards women in their early 30s and up, but they have to have something between their ears. I'll never be attracted to a woman just because she is younger than me. Wit and intelligence are very stimulating characteristics.
 
Age is just a number to me. I've dated a guy that was seventeen when I was eighteen. Oh no! LoL

I've also dated older guys. It's really about the person, and what they can deal with too.

I've talked to a lot of guys that believe I'm too immature, without getting to know me. And I know that a lot of men have a problem with dating women older than them.

I don't want to limit myself.
 
I'm almost 29, and as I get older I'm more attracted to older men. There are a few men my age and younger that I'm attracted to, but they're old souls, and the age doesn't matter.

Actually, now that I think about it, almost all of my friends are the same ages as my parents. (late 40's)
 
Chronological age doesn't define anything, you can have a 25 year old with the wisdom of Solomon or a 70 year old who acts like they're 15.

I've been with women who were 18 and women who were 50, it's not a matter of age, it's a matter of who the individual is, the magnetism between you, that certain chemistry that defines a relationship.
 
patient1 said:


It all seems so unpleasant, considering your new title.;)

yeah, but they seem to want maturity. i don't have that. i doubt i want to have it.
 
I have always gone for the older men myself but I have dated guys my own age and on a few rare occasions even younger than me but not by much. Now I'm not saying there are not a few younger guys that I'd have a go at because given the chance I would, but you older men........oh so sexy you are!;)
 
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