Introduction

[starla{TDM}]

I figured since people really do read the profiles that I better introduce myself.
My profile means pretty well *grins* nothing, and yes I do like to joke around.

I am not looking for anything no Master, Dom, Top, Bottom, Mistress, Domme, femDom, sub, slave, sister, or anything else. I have it all here at home, I am looking to just chat with others of like mind.


My name is starla ya thats my real name. I own a BDSM Toplist that focuses on bringing information to the BDSM Community. As well as a Yes Master Website which is my journal ect.

I have been in the BDSM lifestlye for most of my life. Altho my ex and I thought we were just weird.

I am a 24/7 consensual slave to my Master, and a wife and a business partner. We are never ever apart, literally. Together 99.9 % of the time.

I hold a PhD in Finance and one of my favorite books is a Random Walk Down Wall Street ( ya ya I know boring read ). I no longer work, accept as a slave and thats not work at all!

Some say we are extreme, but extreme is relative. And that in itself is a whole other topic

I am a firm beleiver that if it works for you then so be it, no one, be they vanilla or in the BDSm lifestyle has the right to judge others.

I beleive in R.A.C.K and not S.S.C.

I am Canadian YA YA canada rocks, but I reside in Florida.

I am disabled (which enters a whole new array of bdsm issues ) Anyone else here disabled?

We have kids one in pre med and one still in high school and BOTH off for summer break, anyone want them?????


There! I think that sums it up!



have a great day!
starla{TDM}

 

[chris9]

Welcome, Starla.
What's R.A.C.K?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Welcome, Starla.
What's R.A.C.K?

Risk Aware Consensual Kink

 

[chris9]

Risk Aware Consensual Kink

Ah, thank you for explaining so fast! Not sure if I ever get to the point when all the abbreviations make sense...

 

[catalina_francisco]

I figured since people really do read the profiles that I better introduce myself.
My profile means pretty well *grins* nothing, and yes I do like to joke around.

I am not looking for anything no Master, Dom, Top, Bottom, Mistress, Domme, femDom, sub, slave, sister, or anything else. I have it all here at home, I am looking to just chat with others of like mind.


My name is starla ya thats my real name. I own a BDSM Toplist that focuses on bringing information to the BDSM Community. As well as a Yes Master Website which is my journal ect.

I have been in the BDSM lifestlye for most of my life. Altho my ex and I thought we were just weird.

I am a 24/7 consensual slave to my Master, and a wife and a business partner. We are never ever apart, literally. Together 99.9 % of the time.

I hold a PhD in Finance and one of my favorite books is a Random Walk Down Wall Street ( ya ya I know boring read ). I no longer work, accept as a slave and thats not work at all!

Some say we are extreme, but extreme is relative. And that in itself is a whole other topic

I am a firm beleiver that if it works for you then so be it, no one, be they vanilla or in the BDSm lifestyle has the right to judge others.

I beleive in R.A.C.K and not S.S.C.

I am Canadian YA YA canada rocks, but I reside in Florida.

I am disabled (which enters a whole new array of bdsm issues ) Anyone else here disabled?

We have kids one in pre med and one still in high school and BOTH off for summer break, anyone want them?????


There! I think that sums it up!



have a great day!
starla{TDM}

Welcome and you might find these threads of interest; BDSM, D/s and Disabilites
People with Disabilites ....there are also a few others on varying topics including how mental illness affects D/s and also PMS. Enjoy the board....it is a great community with some really cool people.

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Ah, thank you for explaining so fast! Not sure if I ever get to the point when all the abbreviations make sense...

You might like this thread on RACK vs SSC.

Catalina

 

[navarre]

Greetings.

*goes looking for his copy of Random Walk Down Wall Street*

 

[snowy ciara]

I thought I was the only one who'd read that, besides Kat... Who's an accounting major...

Hi starla, nice to meet you.

Can I be in the cool clique cause I've read the book?

 

[Kajira Callista]

I thought I was the only one who'd read that, besides Kat... Who's an accounting major...

Hi starla, nice to meet you.

Can I be in the cool clique cause I've read the book?

no *pets snowy*

 

[snowy ciara]

Rats and other large and icky rodents.. ppppuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrr

 

[Kajira Callista]

Rats and other large and icky rodents.. ppppuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrr

the only way you can be part of the clique is if you bind your breasts and photograph it all.

 

[snowy ciara]

Still MORE rats and other large and icky rodents!

I have to confess I'm wondering how extreme is extreme....

 

[starla{TDM}]

Wow, I think it is cool that others have read that book. Most people look at me with this funny expression on their faces.

snowy ciara -- Good question but one I am not willing to answer. Maybe someone else would be interested in answering it. What I consider extreme may not be your definition of it or Susy's Q's definition. Extreme is dependent on how much experience you have. I have had people read my journal and email me and tell me we are "extreme" do I think we are? No. Hence why I stated "Some say we are extreme, but extreme is relative."

Is blood extreme? Water Sports? Scat? Caging? Breath Play?

To someone new in the lifestyle all this and more is extreme, to others its a matter of R.A.C.K.

For us, I like to think that we are aware of what we do and as long as we remain happy, then life is good and everything else is gravy.

Thanks for the welcome!

starla{TDM}
forever His

 

[Masters_aphrodite]

Hugs to starla{TDM}

i have enjoyed this messageboard, and hope you do too. It is good to see your post.

Master and i do not think those things are extreme *smiles innocently*. You do have a wicked sense of humor too!

Hugs

 

[catalina_francisco]

Still MORE rats and other large and icky rodents!

I have to confess I'm wondering how extreme is extreme....

LOL, IME it is very subjective. I have heard people refer to themselves as extreme based on the concept they have just tried anal sex and mild bondage....we are into whipping, cutting, spilling blood when in the mood and still tend to not think of ourselves as extreme though others often think we are.

Catalina