introducing myself

[LTMMC]

What makes a connection meaningful to me? Considering that I am married and I have resolved to continue my sexless marriage, for several good reasons, I would love to connect with a wife who misses in her marriage what I miss in mine. And who also seeks to compensate for the voids in her life with a remote partner like me. This sort of companionship avoids physical cheating on our spouses, we need not live close to each other, and our consciences about cheating would not get overly taxed that way.

Of course we need some kind of magic to make up for what our mail connection will be missing: real-life touching of each other. With love-making limited to fantasies and masturbating to them. This kind of magic I see happening from the words we exchange with each other. So they cannot be just any old words. What we tell each other must satisfy the unfulfilled needs and desires inside of us: our need for affection, our need to be wanted and liked, maybe admired a bit. And our need for a dear somebody who appreciates the substance of each other.

I am talking about a genuine interest in our total selves. That’s a big concept and a bit of a challenge too. It would be too great a challenge, unless something essential happens between the two of us: both you and I feel delighted and rather enriched by each other’s emails.

What leads to this feeling is immaterial. It could be as simple as I loving the freckles on your body, and you getting aroused by my fantasies. And mutual compliments, and listening to the concerns each of us has, and offering our partner solace and support now and then. And I am sure with time, a great bond and understanding will develop between us. You may not have to say much, for me to know what your thoughts are leading up to. And vice versa. Our mail exchange will soothe and fondle our souls, and entice our libidos and tingle our minds.

It helps when we resonate with each other in some fundamental ways. And it will help if you are a mighty curious woman, since I am a curious man. And if you love the written word. A certain amount of maturity on your part would not hurt either, nor a sexually craving mind. And most of all: a sense of fairness and a desire for mutual joy and pleasure. The key word is enchantment. Do you feel a lot more of it, after we begin mailing each other or not?

I hope you found reading my post enjoyable. Should that be so, I ask you to PM me back. So we can find out whether you and I are the right two people for such a mutually delightful mail relationship.

 

[LTMMC]

Bumping my ad, because I wrote a completely new one

My first attempt at introducing my wants and dreams and desire was verbose, mainly. Looks like I did not focus much on YOU, potential reader of my ad. This second one ought to be far more straightforward. Hope you enjoyed it and you will PM me back.

 

[LTMMC]

bumping my post another time.

 

[LTMMC]

regrettable

I regret a lot that the woman I am looking for did not respond to my ad yet. But it seems to me, it is your loss as well, not having met me. So just write me a PM real quick!

 

[Jada59]

Here's a thought! Pick one name and stick with it. Use simple, easily understood words and stop being so verbose.

 

[LTMMC]

Here's a thought! Pick one name and stick with it. Use simple, easily understood words and stop being so verbose.

dear Jada, I greet you cordially on this bright Sunday morning! And I thank you wholeheartedly for your excellent advice. I would not know what to do without your ever so constructive suggestions. And so fitting for you as well.

Brilliant; I would say, for a woman hardly ever knowing how to write more than five sentences in a row, to suggest to me, to write less. Just think what would happen, if everybody followed your advice. Then we would end up with far shorter posts here, and there would be much more room for ostentatious signatures like yours.

Ten times as many words as in your sparse comments here. And so full of wisdom. Truly admirable, like your avatar picture as well. If we did not have you, Jada, the Lit Personals would be far less entertaining. So let me wish you a wonderful day. And keep on trucking!

 

[LTMMC]

I wrote a new ad

I am bumping my ad today, because I re-wrote all of it

 

[LTMMC]

I am bumping my ad today, because I re-wrote all of it

I wish I could use the same excuse as last time for bumping my ad today, but I cannot. There is not a single word in this ad that I feel like editing today.