Intelligence turns me on...a lot.

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I can't be the only one, can I? So why is it so hard to find someone who wants to have an intelligent conversation?

Here are the basics on me: 27 year old BBW. Long brunette hair, pale skin, green eyes, my license says 5'10" but I'm actually an inch and a half shorter. I am a little on the shy side, but easily warm up to the right kind of person.

I am looking for someone with a brain. I want to talk to someone about everything from their pet peeves to current events. Of course I wouldn't be on this site unless I wanted to talk about sex, but it has to be more than "wut are u waring." I want to really get to know someone and have conversations about their experiences and desires. Ideally I would like this to be an ongoing friendship. I don't really care what you look like or how old you are, but I care a lot about how well-spoken and confident you are.

I am currently dating someone but we have some severe compatibility issues in the bedroom, so you have to be comfortable with that and know that this is NOT going any further than messaging, IMs, texting and maybe some phone calls. It's fine with me if you are attached to someone as well. I will happily respect your time for work and home as long as you can respect mine.

I am open to a lot of things, but I'm not a dominant type so if that's what you're looking for I'm definitely not the woman for you. I have discovered over the last several years that I am a naturally submissive person and I respond to men that take charge and are used to getting what they want. I am NOT looking to be someone's slave, but I am definitely open to light roleplay and experimentation. If you want more information about that you will just have to ask.

I feel like I'm sending the wrong vibe, so here a few more things about me to lighten the mood: I LOVE to laugh and I do it all the time. It's not a nervous habit or me being obnoxious, I just genuinely love to laugh. I can be composed when I need to be, but I prefer to be laughing and happy. Keeping that in mind, I don't watch sitcoms on tv or movies classified as comedies unless someone else picks it. I don't know why, I just don't generally like them. I'm a bookworm and a lifelong gamer. I love scary movies and anything about zombies. And finally; my favorite ice cream flavor is butter pecan.
 
Lol sorry just had a thought at the end of your lovely post about the movie you like. In my head all I had was a voice saying "do you like scary movies" then the white mask ooooh shudders :)

Enjoy all the boring pm's from men that ignored all your text apart from u saying submissive :)
 
Tried to PM you but got disrupted partways in the message. Shall tyry again
 
Gamer!

I'm half asleep right now and I saw that you're also an avid gamer. what are you excited for this year and next? And if you're into zombies, are you as wary of Resident Evil 6 as the rest of us?
 
Lol sorry just had a thought at the end of your lovely post about the movie you like. In my head all I had was a voice saying "do you like scary movies" then the white mask ooooh shudders :)

Enjoy all the boring pm's from men that ignored all your text apart from u saying submissive :)

That made me giggle, Debbie. =) I'm trying to sort through things now.


I'm half asleep right now and I saw that you're also an avid gamer. what are you excited for this year and next? And if you're into zombies, are you as wary of Resident Evil 6 as the rest of us?

If I admit that I have never played a Resident Evil game do I have to turn over my "Zombie Lovers Association of America" card? lol My zombie gaming is pretty limited to Left 4 Dead 2. Beyond that I'm a huge fan of puzzle, strategy, and a few RPGs. I'm waiting with bated breath for Valve to officially announce Portal 3, I still haven't finished Skyward Sword, and I'm only ten minutes into Skyrim. Between all of that and school I should be pretty entertained. =)


Thanks for all the responses. I was super nervous about this but everyone here has been very kind. =)
 
"I like intelligent people."

Sometimes I see this, and sometimes I post it. It seems difficult for people responding to that post to prove. I mean, don't get me wrong, it's totally true - I like people with some smarts to 'em.

But what are we expecting? Someone to drop us a PM that says, "Hey, I'm pretty fuckin' smart - check out my PhD thesis if you don't believe me?"

Or maybe just grammar is a good start. Mmm, grammar.
 
"I like intelligent people."

Sometimes I see this, and sometimes I post it. It seems difficult for people responding to that post to prove. I mean, don't get me wrong, it's totally true - I like people with some smarts to 'em.

But what are we expecting? Someone to drop us a PM that says, "Hey, I'm pretty fuckin' smart - check out my PhD thesis if you don't believe me?"

Or maybe just grammar is a good start. Mmm, grammar.

Grammar is a great start. lol I don't claim to be perfect, but I can put together a sentence and know when to break a paragraph. Maybe next time I should ask for those thesis...or it is theses? On a related note, did you know that "platypodes" is an accepted form of the plural for platypus? I always assumed it was platypi.
 
GreenEyesNTexas, I'm not ripping you with this post. I'm just having fun with you; I'm not trolling. Hope you see this post for what it actually is. :)
I can't be the only one, can I? So why is it so hard to find someone who wants to have an intelligent conversation?
Surprisingly, not a lot of people are looking for that on Lit.

Long brunette hair, pale skin, green eyes, my license says 5'10" but I'm actually an inch and a half shorter.
Is this a test of our collective intelligence? An attempt to see how many pages of responses come in before someone solves H=5'10" - 1.5" ? I'm interested as well.

I am looking for someone with a brain. I want to talk to someone about everything from their pet peeves to current events. Of course I wouldn't be on this site unless I wanted to talk about sex, but it has to be more than "wut are u waring." I want to really get to know someone and have conversations about their experiences and desires. Ideally I would like this to be an ongoing friendship. I don't really care what you look like or how old you are, but I care a lot about how well-spoken and confident you are.
I'm fairly certain that anyone reading your thread, must have a brain. I think you are looking for someone that is using a significant portion of theirs, and using it correctly.

I am currently dating someone but we have some severe compatibility issues in the bedroom, so you have to be comfortable with that and know that this is NOT going any further than messaging, IMs, texting and maybe some phone calls.
I suspect this encouraged a lot of PM's that contained pics, or links to pics, of the sender's purported apparatus.

I am open to a lot of things, but I'm not a dominant type so if that's what you're looking for I'm definitely not the woman for you. I have discovered over the last several years that I am a naturally submissive person and I respond to men that take charge and are used to getting what they want. I am NOT looking to be someone's slave, but I am definitely open to light roleplay and experimentation. If you want more information about that you will just have to ask.
Just so you know, this type of paragraph is considered de facto invitation to fill your inbox in 10 minutes.

I feel like I'm sending the wrong vibe, so here a few more things about me to lighten the mood: I LOVE to laugh and I do it all the time. It's not a nervous habit or me being obnoxious, I just genuinely love to laugh. I can be composed when I need to be, but I prefer to be laughing and happy. Keeping that in mind, I don't watch sitcoms on tv or movies classified as comedies unless someone else picks it. I don't know why, I just don't generally like them. I'm a bookworm and a lifelong gamer. I love scary movies and anything about zombies. And finally; my favorite ice cream flavor is butter pecan.
Your love of laughter will help with all the crotch shots you've likely received.

Have fun!
 
Keeping that in mind, I don't watch sitcoms on tv or movies classified as comedies unless someone else picks it. I don't know why, I just don't generally like them. I'm a bookworm and a lifelong gamer. I love scary movies and anything about zombies. And finally; my favorite ice cream flavor is butter pecan.

So many questions stem from just this statement. So, do you like the comedies that others pick? If so, what kinds do people usually pick for you to watch? What about stand up comedy, or comic strips, or videos of cats doing funny things on YouTube? I must know more about this comedy blindspot...
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I can't be the only one, can I? So why is it so hard to find someone who wants to have an intelligent conversation?

Here are the basics on me: 27 year old BBW. Long brunette hair, pale skin, green eyes, my license says 5'10" but I'm actually an inch and a half shorter. I am a little on the shy side, but easily warm up to the right kind of person.

I am looking for someone with a brain. I want to talk to someone about everything from their pet peeves to current events. Of course I wouldn't be on this site unless I wanted to talk about sex, but it has to be more than "wut are u waring." I want to really get to know someone and have conversations about their experiences and desires. Ideally I would like this to be an ongoing friendship. I don't really care what you look like or how old you are, but I care a lot about how well-spoken and confident you are.

I am currently dating someone but we have some severe compatibility issues in the bedroom, so you have to be comfortable with that and know that this is NOT going any further than messaging, IMs, texting and maybe some phone calls. It's fine with me if you are attached to someone as well. I will happily respect your time for work and home as long as you can respect mine.

I am open to a lot of things, but I'm not a dominant type so if that's what you're looking for I'm definitely not the woman for you. I have discovered over the last several years that I am a naturally submissive person and I respond to men that take charge and are used to getting what they want. I am NOT looking to be someone's slave, but I am definitely open to light roleplay and experimentation. If you want more information about that you will just have to ask.

I feel like I'm sending the wrong vibe, so here a few more things about me to lighten the mood: I LOVE to laugh and I do it all the time. It's not a nervous habit or me being obnoxious, I just genuinely love to laugh. I can be composed when I need to be, but I prefer to be laughing and happy. Keeping that in mind, I don't watch sitcoms on tv or movies classified as comedies unless someone else picks it. I don't know why, I just don't generally like them. I'm a bookworm and a lifelong gamer. I love scary movies and anything about zombies. And finally; my favorite ice cream flavor is butter pecan.
Welcome & hope you find what you are looking for.
 
So many questions stem from just this statement. So, do you like the comedies that others pick? If so, what kinds do people usually pick for you to watch? What about stand up comedy, or comic strips, or videos of cats doing funny things on YouTube? I must know more about this comedy blindspot...
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lol I will sit through a sitcom or comedy movie if someone else wants to watch it, but I seldom find them funny. Sometimes I like them, but I just really hate sifting through all the really terrible stuff to find the handful of good movies. I do like a few stand up comedians and I loved reading the comics as a kid. As for cats on youtube...of course I like watching funny cats on youtube. The kittens riding a roomba makes me giggle every time.
 
I can't be the only one, can I? So why is it so hard to find someone who wants to have an intelligent conversation?

Here are the basics on me: 27 year old BBW. Long brunette hair, pale skin, green eyes, my license says 5'10" but I'm actually an inch and a half shorter. I am a little on the shy side, but easily warm up to the right kind of person.

I am looking for someone with a brain. I want to talk to someone about everything from their pet peeves to current events. Of course I wouldn't be on this site unless I wanted to talk about sex, but it has to be more than "wut are u waring." I want to really get to know someone and have conversations about their experiences and desires. Ideally I would like this to be an ongoing friendship. I don't really care what you look like or how old you are, but I care a lot about how well-spoken and confident you are.

I am currently dating someone but we have some severe compatibility issues in the bedroom, so you have to be comfortable with that and know that this is NOT going any further than messaging, IMs, texting and maybe some phone calls. It's fine with me if you are attached to someone as well. I will happily respect your time for work and home as long as you can respect mine.

I am open to a lot of things, but I'm not a dominant type so if that's what you're looking for I'm definitely not the woman for you. I have discovered over the last several years that I am a naturally submissive person and I respond to men that take charge and are used to getting what they want. I am NOT looking to be someone's slave, but I am definitely open to light roleplay and experimentation. If you want more information about that you will just have to ask.

I feel like I'm sending the wrong vibe, so here a few more things about me to lighten the mood: I LOVE to laugh and I do it all the time. It's not a nervous habit or me being obnoxious, I just genuinely love to laugh. I can be composed when I need to be, but I prefer to be laughing and happy. Keeping that in mind, I don't watch sitcoms on tv or movies classified as comedies unless someone else picks it. I don't know why, I just don't generally like them. I'm a bookworm and a lifelong gamer. I love scary movies and anything about zombies. And finally; my favorite ice cream flavor is butter pecan.

You had me at butter pecan...(and intelligent conversation)
 
Greetings and salutations; its a distinct pleasure to meet someone who actually values intelligence. Your personal is quite well-written and detailed, and as such virtually compelled me to make some sort of response to it.

Just to be clear, I'm not trying to flatter you or your intelligence. I've met other intelligent people on Lit, many of which have been quite delightful to chat with. That does not, however, make it any less of a pleasure to meet yet one more. As a unique individual, I'm sure your intelligence comes with a unique sort of charm and beauty that no one else possesses, and as such it would be my good fortune to get a chance to know you.

Out of a sense of courtesy, I don't plan to just randomly PM you out of the blue. Should you find the idea appealing, I'll leave it to you to either invite me to do so, or to simply send a PM my way. I'll also understand that you may have plenty of other men (and possibly women) currently demanding your attention, so I may not hear from you anytime soon.

So, if you're so inclined, feel free to drop me a line. In any case, have a wonderful time, both here and in all the other worlds your imagination takes you into.
 
Hi GreenEyes. I'm 53, 145 lbs, my license says 5'8" but I'm actually 5'7.5" I own a business, in which writing is a major part of what I do. I consider myself imaginative and creative, but I also come here for candid conversations with interesting people.

I enjoy chatting frankly and openly about sex, some role play and so on, but a sense of humor and the ability to get certain references is important.

I generally can make time to chat in real time or via e-mail. I think there's a photo in my profile, including my Yahoo ID. I can fill you in on more details via PM, if you'd like.
 
You are not the only one that looks for an intelligent conversation. Or, for that matter, good grammar and the ability to discern between "there" and "their" and similar words. However, unless you look really hard, and sift through all the mundane PMs' you won't find the gold nugget that you want. There will be flashes in the pan but you need to look past that. I hope you will see the gold nugget in this message (had to put in a plug for myself..;-) ). Hope you will PM and we can have an intelligent conversation.
 
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