intellectual fetishes

[bicuriousnky]

just another curiosity of mine...

i find that something that arouses me more than anything, more than any touch, scene, or action....knowledge, knowledge arouses me more than anything i can imagine. if someone can astound me with intellect, i get so wet. wit and intelligence do so much for me. i don't know if it could be called a fetish or not. input on this would be wonderful.


is there anyone else who is distinctly turned on by wit?

~bi

 

[Party Girl]

You have no idea.

I think it's just about the sexiest thing in the world for someone to be able to make me laugh AND be able to make me think. The last guy I pursued rather shamelessly and relentlessly was such a turn-on for me because the first time we ever seriously talked, he asked me if I knew anything about one of my favorite philosophical arguments. *sigh* Yummy.

 

[Ziggy*stardust]

is there anyone else who is distinctly turned on by wit?

~bi

Holds up hand ... definitely a huge turn on for me as well!

Humor and intelligence are the sexiest things to me; it's what attracted me to my husband when I first met him online in a chatroom.

stardust

 

[midwestyankee]

I'm a believer as well. The quality of the mind comes before all else. After that, character. Eventually, looks.

But it all starts with the mind.

 

[timewilltell]

For me it's not necessarily high intellect but just being able to engage in easy conversation that turns me on.

Just talking about everyday life, being able to carry on a two or three hour conversation and realize we never talked about sex but I am still incredibly turned on.

Thats when I know I have found a woman I must get to know better...

 

[charmed1]

I agree with Time...

It's the ease of conversation with that person that turns me on.

 

[phoenix1224]

just another curiosity of mine...

i find that something that arouses me more than anything, more than any touch, scene, or action....knowledge, knowledge arouses me more than anything i can imagine. if someone can astound me with intellect, i get so wet. wit and intelligence do so much for me. i don't know if it could be called a fetish or not. input on this would be wonderful.


is there anyone else who is distinctly turned on by wit?

~bi

I've always loved women like you...

 

[done_got_old]

just another curiosity of mine...

i find that something that arouses me more than anything, more than any touch, scene, or action....knowledge, knowledge arouses me more than anything i can imagine. if someone can astound me with intellect, i get so wet. wit and intelligence do so much for me. i don't know if it could be called a fetish or not. input on this would be wonderful.


is there anyone else who is distinctly turned on by wit?

~bi

Yes, I've always been turned on by intelligence.

 

[Saoirse]

I certainly think the mind is one of the best and greatest sexual organs we possess... and once its stimulated the sky is the limit!!!

 

[MercyMia]

just another curiosity of mine...

i find that something that arouses me more than anything, more than any touch, scene, or action....knowledge, knowledge arouses me more than anything i can imagine. if someone can astound me with intellect, i get so wet. wit and intelligence do so much for me. i don't know if it could be called a fetish or not. input on this would be wonderful.


is there anyone else who is distinctly turned on by wit?

~bi

Not just wit, but the kind of wit that comes with an edgy energy. Yes, I've had cerebral orgasms, too.

 

[bicuriousnky]

intellect and conversation

For me it's not necessarily high intellect but just being able to engage in easy conversation that turns me on.

Just talking about everyday life, being able to carry on a two or three hour conversation and realize we never talked about sex but I am still incredibly turned on.

Thats when I know I have found a woman I must get to know better...

i agree with that....it seems to me though that intellect and regular conversation often go together.

a mentor of mine once told me that the true intellect is not the one who knows all of the big words, but the one who knows how to use all of the words...basically, a person who can relate to everyone at anytime is the one who is the true intellect.

~bi

 

[bicuriousnky]

Re: Re: intellectual fetishes

I've always loved women like you...

well thank you m'dear sir

~bi

 

[phoenix1224]

Re: Re: Re: intellectual fetishes

well thank you m'dear sir

~bi

No, thank YOU...

 

[MT_Pitcher]

The ability to express an idea, a thought, a feeling, has always been a turn on for me. I'd rather masturbate than play with someone dumb as a door knob. At least I don't feel guilty afterwards and don't have to try and find common conversation grounds, like Sesame Street.

But that's not all.
Curiousity, inventiveness, literacy, humor and playfulness.

The mind is the largest and most important sex organ.

 

[~Sweets~]

I have to agree with everyone here. The mind is the first point of attraction for me, the other things will come later if there is indeed a mindful connection. Humor is right there too, I need to laugh lots, and its very playful as well. You can learn so much about people by the way they carry themselves, their true character is revealed. Then I can make a judgement about the attraction level.