intellectual fetishes

[bicuriousnky]

just another curiosity of mine...

i find that something that arouses me more than anything, more than any touch, scene, or action....knowledge, knowledge arouses me more than anything i can imagine. if someone can astound me with intellect, i get so wet. wit and intelligence do so much for me. i don't know if it could be called a fetish or not. input on this would be wonderful.


is there anyone else who is distinctly turned on by wit?

 

[tremulant]

I sure hope so, because I'm sick of being funny for no reason.

 

[1stClassNiceGuy]

Unfortunately...

Though I like the idea of a woman who can stimulate me through my mind, I have yet to personally meet any women (Or men, for that matter) who are capable, or willing. I am not saying there are none out there, just that I haven't met them, or simply have not seen them in action.

I have met many intelligent people, but none who put it to such use properly, without sounding like a know-it-all, which is a definate turn-off =)

But hey, I'm still young...we'll see!

 

[hypatia]

Intelligence and wit are an absolute turn-on for me. A man's ability to engage my mind and entertain me with his thoughts is far more precious than any other quality. Age, looks - yes, even cock size - are secondary considerations.

 

[taboo3]

aaaahhhhh Bach !!!

Perhaps I shall romance you all with witty banter expensive brandy and a concert for you on my grand piano !!!!

Or a rotgut porno and beer for all the ladies in Arizona and Nevada.

All you need is love,,,love

Love is all you need.

 

[ricsmis]

i feel i am intelligent and love to play, joke and have fun....

but in my experiences, it scares others off... they dont like it

just my input

 

[the_momur]

aaaahhhhh Bach !!!

LOL...
Wasn't that what Radar said trying to impress a woman? That summed up his knowledge of music me thinks...

 

[Modern Mephisto]

I think - or, would like to think, anyway - that everyone is turned on by some degree of intelligence and wit. There's the old adage that the largest erogenous zone is the mind, and I believe that's true. That's not to say that a man or woman needs to be able to explain the theories of quantam physics, or able to recite Shakespeare and Keats, or have the razor wit of Parker of Wilde, but I think we all need that mental, intellectual stimulate to keep us interested. We need that mental connection as much as we need the physical one. I mean, a great body is usually the quickest way to excite someone, but to keep someone stimulated? You need to have a great mind. Otherwise it's just window dressing and you're bound to get bored, sooner or later.

Sexually speaking, I think intellect is exciting and arousing because...well, creativity is a part of having a sharp mind. And creativity is essential for a good sex life. Someone who's intelligent is likely more able to tap into what arouses you, what words or images or ideas will get you off. Your mind is the pathway to the body. As such, excite the mind and the body follows. As you said, intelligence and wit make you wet...well, if someone can sexually excite you without even touching you, you begin to imagine what an deliciously dangerous combination it would be to have that brilliant mind ravishing your body.

I've always found the most sexually exciting partners to be the ones that I connected with, the ones that were on the same level with me or even higher, the ones that'd challenge me. Women that are well educated, well read, well cultured...those always get me excited. And free thinkers? Mmm. Women with wild thoughts...women that are very introspective and philosophical or self-analytical...women with ideas and opinions who aren't afraid to express them... I've only met a handful of women like that, but when I meet a girl that makes me want to dive into her mind, to explore every recess of her brain, to devour her intellect and discover what makes her so unique, so brilliant and sexy...those are the ones that completely seduce me, enthrall me, and arouse me on every level.

So...yeah, I share the intelligence fetish. (Which, in part, is why I have my glasses fetish as well. A girl in glasses looks like the intelligent, bookish type. And if I see a girl in a sexy little pair of glasses reading at the local bookstore? God help me...)

 

[bicuriousnky]

scaring people off

i feel i am intelligent and love to play, joke and have fun....

but in my experiences, it scares others off... they dont like it

just my input

that's been my experience as well. i find that most men are intimidated by the fact that i am both sexy and intelligent.

 

[bicuriousnky]

you described me

Sexually speaking, I think intellect is exciting and arousing because...well, creativity is a part of having a sharp mind. And creativity is essential for a good sex life. Someone who's intelligent is likely more able to tap into what arouses you, what words or images or ideas will get you off. Your mind is the pathway to the body. As such, excite the mind and the body follows. As you said, intelligence and wit make you wet...well, if someone can sexually excite you without even touching you, you begin to imagine what an deliciously dangerous combination it would be to have that brilliant mind ravishing your body.

I've always found the most sexually exciting partners to be the ones that I connected with, the ones that were on the same level with me or even higher, the ones that'd challenge me. Women that are well educated, well read, well cultured...those always get me excited. And free thinkers? Mmm. Women with wild thoughts...women that are very introspective and philosophical or self-analytical...women with ideas and opinions who aren't afraid to express them... I've only met a handful of women like that, but when I meet a girl that makes me want to dive into her mind, to explore every recess of her brain, to devour her intellect and discover what makes her so unique, so brilliant and sexy...those are the ones that completely seduce me, enthrall me, and arouse me on every level.

So...yeah, I share the intelligence fetish. (Which, in part, is why I have my glasses fetish as well. A girl in glasses looks like the intelligent, bookish type. And if I see a girl in a sexy little pair of glasses reading at the local bookstore? God help me...) [/B]

wow...do you know me? complete with the glasses...

 

[sylph54]

Intelligent, witty conversation with someone who can also talk about emotions is the ultimate turnon for me.

Bar none.

 

[Guest]

 

[Modern Mephisto]

Re: you described me

wow...do you know me? complete with the glasses...

Heh. Well, I just know what I like. (Asian women, European accents, and female musicians also fall into my list of fetishes/obsessions. If I can find all those in the same woman, I'll marry her on the spot and chain her in my basement. Hehe.)

And since I've only known one girl from Kentucky - and she didn't wear glasses - I'm guessing I don't know you. But we could always change that... *wink*

(I'm so fucking suave. Heh.)

 

[Modern Mephisto]

Now that was a long story and no one even got laid...

Heh. Well, that's the story of my life...nobody gets laid.

 

[chrs112]

hmm, did I have something to do with this?

I just had a feeling that I had something to do with this thread. If so, let me know. I've got more planetary motion to tell you about.

 

[bicuriousnky]

Re: hmm, did I have something to do with this?

I just had a feeling that I had something to do with this thread. If so, let me know. I've got more planetary motion to tell you about.

yes 'dear. you are my sexy surveyor . intelligence and multitudes of knowledge doth strike my fancy

couple that with a nice tounge and a few fingers....
mmmmm....how lovely

 

[chrs112]

Re: Re: hmm, did I have something to do with this?

yes 'dear. you are my sexy surveyor . intelligence and multitudes of knowledge doth strike my fancy

couple that with a nice tounge and a few fingers....
mmmmm....how lovely

I will tell you all about it....when it is warm out

 

[Ugod]

Re: Re: you described me

Heh. Well, I just know what I like. (Asian women, European accents, and female musicians also fall into my list of fetishes/obsessions. If I can find all those in the same woman, I'll marry her on the spot and chain her in my basement. Hehe.)

(I'm so fucking suave. Heh.)

Suave except I doubt you'll find an Asian woman with a European accent.......they're out there, but probably rare

 

[VelvetHeat]

I love to be intellectually stimulated. If my mind isn't into it, my heart will not be either. I don't like know-it-alls and I can't stand stupidity....ignorance, I can deal with because ignorance can be taught...but stupidity will always be just that...stupid. To be able to hold a conversation with a man or a woman sends sensations through me...a surge of energy almost like an adrenaline rush. Which, unfortunately, doesn't happen too often.

 

[Modern Mephisto]

Re: Re: Re: you described me

Suave except I doubt you'll find an Asian woman with a European accent.......they're out there, but probably rare

I was just being facetious about being suave. I'm anything but. As for finding an Asian woman with a European accent...yeah, you aren't the first to tell me that I'm holding onto an unreasonable expectation. I know that there have to be some out there - Asian girls that were relocated by their parents and grew up somewhere in Europe and are now sexy Asian women with English or French accents - but chances of me actually finding one, especially living in the US, are infinitesimal. And, hell, even if I did find one, I'd somehow have to convince her that I'm the man of her dreams and force...er, I mean, drug...er, I mean, hope...yes, hope is safe...that she'll love me.

In other words, I'm totally screwed. But, you know, thanks for reminding me of that fact. Heh.

 

[welshman]

E=MC2... thought I'd give you an instant orgasm. String theory... another one!
But I don't want intelligent conversation I want to see your tits! As long as they're the tits of a beautiful intelligent woman that is ;-) Once I know she's intelligent I want to put that on one side and arouse her, play with her, make her cum. I value intelligence as much as attractiveness (more so?) but is it erotic in itself?

 

[RoughPlay]

Re: scaring people off

that's been my experience as well. i find that most men are intimidated by the fact that i am both sexy and intelligent.

I thought this was very funny, you don't intimidate me.

Are you still married ?

 

[RoughPlay]

i feel i am intelligent and love to play, joke and have fun....

but in my experiences, it scares others off... they dont like it

just my input

I like it. You sound perfect to me.

What does the S and the M stand for in SMWF ?

 

[sylph54]

Originally posted by RoughPlay


What does the S and the M stand for in SMWF ?

Needs a good B and D ...

 

[Modern Mephisto]

Needs a good B and D ...

LoL! I thought the same thing!

But it probably stands for "Smart" or "Sexy" - though, in her case, I believe both apply - and "Married."