Input needed

[NYCSub]

During a discussion with a friend about 24/7 M/s relationships I was asked what act, sacrifice or gesture would I do for a Master in return for his collar, to show my submission.

Before responding, assume the following:

This is a committed relationship
Both people view it as such, similar to a vanilla engagement
This is to be viewed as a gift of sorts from the slave to the Master
No vanilla suggestions
Brandings, tattoos, piercings and slave registry don't count as those would be considered "givens".

Any ideas?

I was stumped since in fact the Master can take or demand whatever he wants.

 

[Xelebes]

Well, I am lacking any ideas to offer, I am going to say that being a strict atheist, this is probably how I'll seek gaderscipe (or gatherwhip or wed... whatever...)

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

During a discussion with a friend about 24/7 M/s relationships I was asked what act, sacrifice or gesture would I do for a Master in return for his collar, to show my submission.

Before responding, assume the following:

This is a committed relationship
Both people view it as such, similar to a vanilla engagement
This is to be viewed as a gift of sorts from the slave to the Master
No vanilla suggestions
Brandings, tattoos, piercings and slave registry don't count as those would be considered "givens".

Any ideas?

I was stumped since in fact the Master can take or demand whatever he wants.

My given--I don't consider submission a "gift".

What would I do to show my submission in return for his collar?

Allow him to permanently fasten it around my neck.

Nuff said.

~Anelize

 

[BigDaddyT]

I agree with Anelize.

It would be enough for my sub to kneel at my feet as I permanently attached her collar around her neck.

DaddyT

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Re: Input needed

My given--I don't consider submission a "gift".

What would I do to show my submission in return for his collar?

Allow him to permanently fasten it around my neck.

Nuff said.

~Anelize

Deserves repeating

 

[catalina_francisco]

Re: Re: Input needed

My given--I don't consider submission a "gift".

What would I do to show my submission in return for his collar?

Allow him to permanently fasten it around my neck.

Nuff said.

~Anelize

So beautifully put as usual. Accepting a collar and all it stands for may seem to many an easy, even joyful moment, understanding the commitment it is making, the acceptance of what you have agreed to, can be overwhelming and draining, euphoric and awesome all in one.

Catalina

 

[Etoile]

I've always used a blowjob as my "return gift" for things. Everything from jewelry to travel to my collar has been "paid back" with a blowjob.

Which, of course, I'd give anyway. So it's not really payment, but we pretend that it is.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I've always used a blowjob as my "return gift" for things. Everything from jewelry to travel to my collar has been "paid back" with a blowjob.

Which, of course, I'd give anyway. So it's not really payment, but we pretend that it is.

LOL, Etoile this is definately something I think most Dominants would see as a redeeming feature of your submissiveness!!

Catalina

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

There is nothing my girl can do to warrant my collar she has earnt it already or not, if you have to do some act to earn a collar you are doing it wrong already.

As the lady anelize said submission isnt a gift its taken by the Dom by force of personality he overwhelms her

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Did the plane fly over my head?

You mentioned committed relationship similar to a vanilla engagement.

Most engagements require an acceptance of the proposal do they not? It's not like this Master automatically gets this slave because he decides he wants her. The slave still has to say yes.

i would think accepting the collar "gift" enough.

 

[shy slave]

I've always used a blowjob as my "return gift" for things. Everything from jewelry to travel to my collar has been "paid back" with a blowjob.

Which, of course, I'd give anyway. So it's not really payment, but we pretend that it is.

A girl after my own heart!!

But a true gift would be agreeing to iron His work shirts, but a blowjob is easier and much much more fun!!

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

A girl after my own heart!!

But a true gift would be agreeing to iron His work shirts, but a blowjob is easier and much much more fun!!

You have the choice to iron Masters shirts shy slave?? interesting indeed

 

[rosco rathbone]

I've always used a blowjob as my "return gift" for things. Everything from jewelry to travel to my collar has been "paid back" with a blowjob.

Which, of course, I'd give anyway. So it's not really payment, but we pretend that it is.

You should open a school of etiquette for young women of both sexes.

 

[Lancecastor]

I like the way Etoile gets to the nub of the matter.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Yes, it's enough to make you forgive her the "spivak pronouns".

 

[Lancecastor]

I've only had a pronoun from er, so I couldn't say.