Infertility

[Nobody Special's wife]

Why is it that, All this woman can get pregnant but me??!!

I have gone to the doctor he wants me to pay him 400$ up front so I can get some of this endometriosis lazered off.

I'm looking into other options, The thing is I don't have very many option..I want a baby damnit! But I want to beable to carry it to full term too . What would you do if you were in my position??


THE WIFE

 

[Gingersnap]

I would pay the money and get it done. You seem like a nice person and I hope and pray you get your wish soon.

 

[Guest]

SEE A SPECIALIST!

 

[Angel]

::hugs::

I seem to have trouble getting pregnant, and when I did I lost it...but by all means if you really want kids and the procedure will help, do it. I know I would and will. I haven't really looked into WHY I seem to have such a problem conceiving, I figure I'm only 22 and I have a lifetime ahead of me. And I won't call it a problem until a few years go by without another conception..it just hurts when all of my friends seem to get pregnant everytime a guy breathes on them.

If it will help, DO IT. Even if it will only help a little, at least it makes you a step closer.

 

[Gingersnap]

Angel silent infections in women are one of the most common causes of infertility. Make sure you don't have one as it can cause much damage and you will not realize it is happening. I wish you luck and hope you have your baby wish fulfilled.

 

[Angel]

I was checked for that when I miscarried. They checked into alot of stuff like that, to see if it was a reason for the miscarriage etc etc, and I was fine. They didn't get into my eggs and stuff like that though, but I know it wasn't an infection. That was the first thing they checked, and followed up on REPEATEDLY after the miscarriage to make sure i didn't get one from it.

I am assuming that since I DID get pregnant that I can have kids. I guess Now just is not the time.

 

[Guest]

Hey hon, like I told Ambro about he and the Fantasy Goddess, you and Eric need to come visit me. For whatever reasons I am a fertility icon. (Just ask Ezzie. She became pregnant by the two men I have introduced her to over the years. lol) Good luck to you two! (And to you Ambro & FG!!)


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[Angel]

Or, we can have a fertility party, and just stand near Tiggs all night, LOL fuck the doctor and Pay Tiggs.

 

[Guest]

Some people just weren't meant to reproduce. Face the facts, ya' ugly piece of white trash.

O and hswriter I'm not banned or anything so your going to have to find another threat to make to throw that (fake) weight of yours around.

 

[Earthmuffin]

Hang in there NSW *hug*

Ya know what Shut Up? You're just showing yourself to be the ignorant, small-minded, selfish, priggish individual that gets bannded for the whiny excuse of "no reason". Get out of a thread with real humanity, it might infect you.

 

[Angel]

You know, it's one thing to be an asshole on *fun* threads, and it's quite another to poke fun at someone who is dealing with the fact she may never be able to concieve a child. It is another matter altogether when you have the nerve to blast somebody who is obviously emotionally involved in the topic and is obviously hurting, and you don't even have the guts to say who you really are.

 

[Beebeeblue]

Or, we can have a fertility party, and just stand near Tiggs all night, LOL fuck the doctor and Pay Tiggs.

Im all for the fertility party!!! I have one child and really want another. It took so long to get her, and with me turning 29 this month, time is running out. Forget that ticking clock...Ive got an alarm clock going off every day.

NSW, I hope things go your way. I understand the deep desire to have a child. I would go with the suurgery and see how it goes. If you go to http://www.onhealth.com they have lots of information there, and a support board full of people in the same position. You arent the only one, and you should not have to go thru it alone. Look at your options, and go with it.

 

[circe!]

Pregnancy

Isn't it weird that after worrying for so long about accidently getting pregnant, when you finally decide you do want a baby, conception is so difficult?!

I would actually cry each month after getting my period. Then I got a puppy. The cutest little furry Rottie pup you've ever seen. The next thing you know, hey presto, I'm pregnant. Two months after the first baby I adopt a cat. Whoa! Pregnant again! A year later, another puppy, another baby, and on and on until my farm is filled with kids and critters.

I seriously believe that there is a link between fertility and nurturing an animal or an adopted baby.

So go to your local shelter, hon, and rescue a couple of kittens or a poor little pup and mother it.

Brightest Blessings, circe!

 

[FantasyGoddess]

Why is it that, All this woman can get pregnant but me??!!

I have gone to the doctor he wants me to pay him 400$ up front so I can get some of this endometriosis lazered off.

I'm looking into other options, The thing is I don't have very many option..I want a baby damnit! But I want to beable to carry it to full term too . What would you do if you were in my position??


THE WIFE

I am in your position, but I am getting the same thing done. My insurance covers it. Ambro has deposited his "super spermie" but it has not worked yet. I wish you the best of luck because I know how it feels when everyone around you is getting pregnant.

 

[Ksss]

Yes, get the endometriosis taken care of. Thru research I have found that, if you are able to get pregnant, it will help to take away the endometriosis. Endometriosis is a very painful disease, I also suffer from it. Laser surgery is the way to go, minimal time in recouperation. Good luck to you and hope your wish comes true soon!

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

~~~~~HUGS~~~~~~ TO ALL OF YOU FOR EVERYTHING....now if I can just come up with the 400$ I would be ok. But any way lets party with tiggs she may be the fertility goddess after all.....

 

[Cheyenne]

Best of luck to all of you. I have a woman who works for me who has endo and has been trying to get pregnant for the last 5 years. I feel so bad for her every time another woman in our office announces she is pregnant. You can see the disappointment in her face that once again, it isn't her. Baby showers are the worst, followed by the actual babies being brought into the office. This woman holds on to those babies like she really would prefer not to hand them back to their mom.

One phrase I've learned to eliminate is "I'd give my first born child if......" Not everyone is lucky enough to ever have a first born child.

 

[dertyoleman]

What a wonderful, sensative and caring thread this is. I can only sympathise with those who cant concieve. There sure is an irony in that when were young we prayed for a crop failure after each unprotected rumble in the back seat and like circ! said so often couldnt get pregnant for ages when we wanted to. Sometimes I wonder if Old mother nature doesnt really Know best of all, and wants the babies carried by the young women as soon as they are able The animal theory has some merit ....... but ....... well......We just got a puppy!! that would really confuse our grand children. My best wishes to all of you ...keep trying.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

I did it I worked a full 8hrs I finally made it,,, Now where did I put my hammer for that damn troll??