Indianapolis (317) -- Wife sends 60+ year old searching...

[OnceFuturePoly]

Together almost 20 years, both of us have had polyamorous secondary relationships. We've always encouraged each other to show the hall pass if needed. The last "other person" was 5 years back.

Over a year ago, she finished menopause and declared "no more sex; it hurts". Went to the doctor, and nothing they gave her helped. I suspect this is a common scenario for us ancients.

Finally she said, "If you are going to ever get laid again, you'll have find another partner. Let me know if I need to talk to her."

Tea & Sympathy, anyone?

 

[glBock]

alternatives for "getting laid"

I am new to Literotica Personals. Am in your age bracket, with similar problems.

It seems to me that several alternatives are available to the two of you, to avoid sex associated with pain. The French way is one, and masturbating together is another.

Does your wife enjoy masturbating while watching you (and/or others)?

if you like, we can carry on our conversation on a PM basis.

Good luck, and keep up your good spirits. glBock

 

[TasteTheRaynebow69]

Could it be vaginal atrophy? Put short and sweet, this is when estrogen levels drop significantly, rendering the vaginal area unable to lubricate itself properly. If so, this can be a simple fix with remedies such as estrogen or liquid/gel lubricants. I would do more research on the subject. If it's more than vaginal atrophy, though, the treatment may be a bit more complicated...

Hope everything works out

Rayne

 

[OnceFuturePoly]

Thanks for all your kind thoughts.

We've been through those subjects, and they didn't pan out.