Increasing Your Penis Size

[mlags]

I checked through the FAQ and didn't find this question:

Is there any actual way (that works) to increase the size of your penis? Mine is about 5-5.5 inches in length (I don't have a ruler handy so I can't double-check) and I'm embarrassed by it. I've always wanted a larger penis but I don't know how to go about doing it, and I've heard that lots of "quick-fixes" don't really work so I wanted to know if anyone has ideas on who to see, what to take, etc.

My ex didn't care about my size, but I do. I want a dick that girls will like.

 

[SweetErika]

Yes, there's surgery. Of course that is extremely expensive, painful and can cause a lot of problems.

Don't bother wasting your time or money on pills, creams, temporary procedures like fat injections or special exercise/stretching programs.

Therapy might be a good investment, though. Your size is perfectly average, will work with most vaginas extremely well, and is both detectable and not an impediment to things like spontaneous and anal sex. Why would you want to mess with that kind of success? Also, do you value yourself so little that you're willing to be intimate with women who will judge you based on your cock size, or focus on your cock more than you? Why not just date/sleep with people who like all of you, including your cock (regardless of what size it is)?

 

[whywouldi]

You should refer to this thread http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=653881 that covers the subject entirely...

 

[Eilan]

You should refer to this thread http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=653881 that covers the subject entirely...

LMAO! You saved me the trouble of linking that thread!

 

[satindesire]

If you know of the existence, location, and function of a woman's clitoris, you have nothing to worry about.

 

[mlags]

Well I'm doing this more for me than anyone else.

The way I'm hung now, especially if I'm wearing athletic shorts, it tends to stick more out than down, which is kind of embarassing.

And yes I do know where the clitoris is.

 

[SweetErika]

Well I'm doing this more for me than anyone else.

The way I'm hung now, especially if I'm wearing athletic shorts, it tends to stick more out than down, which is kind of embarassing.

And yes I do know where the clitoris is.

And where do you think you got the idea that an average-sized cock is too small?

If you're embarrassed about your cock sticking out in shorts, perhaps more supportive undergarments and/or less revealing shorts are in order. Who do you figure is looking at your cock when you're wearing shorts, anyway?

You can try a long, arduous stretching routine or whatever, but you'd be risking offsetting any size gain with erectile/sexual dysfunction now, or in the future. Would you rather have an average-size, healthy cock that works, or one that's bigger and doesn't work well?

 

[mlags]

I do wear supportive undergarments. Its usually boxer briefs and even briefs don't help, and the shorts are just standard basketball shorts.

And I mis-measured. It's 4.5 inches. Besides, do my reasons really matter? This is something I want to do for me. I don't want a monster dick; I'd be fine with 6.5 inches.

 

[SweetErika]

I do wear supportive undergarments. Its usually boxer briefs and even briefs don't help, and the shorts are just standard basketball shorts.

Yep, a bigger cock is going to be less noticeable in your basketball shorts.

Anyway, whether you want to minimize or maximize the appearance of your cock in clothing, there are plenty of ways to do it. Take a cue from those of us with breasts, male underwear/swimwear models or women who "pack." Of course you're probably going to be the only one who notices (we've had previous threads on whether or not women look at guys' bulges, and the verdict was a resounding "no" if I recall correctly), but if it's important to you to look different just in case another man or woman checks out your crotch while you're in your shorts, go for it!

And I mis-measured. It's 4.5 inches. Besides, do my reasons really matter? This is something I want to do for me. I don't want a monster dick; I'd be fine with 6.5 inches.

Whatever your reasons, the answer is still the same: there's no proven safe, effective, fairly affordable way to make your cock bigger. If there was, you wouldn't be asking because you would have heard about it by now along with the rest of us who have contact with the outside world. Such a thing would be plastered all over the media and spread like wildfire through word of mouth.

There are tons of ways to make your cock seem bigger, feel better about it and be a fantastic lover, however. Most of them are very effective, totally safe and free. I'd suggest investigating and implementing as many of those things as possible, and then seeing if you still feel like you want a bigger cock. Chances are, if you truly invest in being happy and working with what you have and who you are, you won't see a need for a couple more inches. Length isn't a big deal unless one falls on either extreme end of the spectrum, anyway (your cock doesn't).

 

[VelvetDarkness]

As Erika said, nothing but surgery will affect your penis size one iota. Surgery is expensive, risky and unnecessary if you have a perfectly functioning cock. You could come out of it with a foot long schlong that won't stand to attention or lose sensitivity and pleasure in pursuit of size. I have B cup tits, you think that means I can't satisfy a man unless I get them pumped full of silicone?

I know you think you want to do this for you but you don't. You're worried about women's perceptions but you're a guy and therefore have only the vaguest notion of how women tick and what they prize most in a lover. You have low cock esteem and you have already said in this thread that you're embarrassed about your manhood. The problem is not in your athletic shorts, it's in your head.

Most guys don't go comparing notes in the shower. Most guys get a warped notion of 'standard cock size' from porn, which is as good for your self esteem as women getting notions about standard breast size from porn. I understand you want to satisfy women but you already have the equipment to do that. I personally find anything over 6 inches downright painful unless shallow positions are used and where's the fun in that?

Lack of confidence and self belief will lose you far more women than the size of your dick.

Be grateful for what you have. You're probably a reasonably healthy man with a fully functioning cock. Do you have any idea what many disabled guys or those with prostate/erectile problems would give for 4.5inches of fully functioning manflesh? What about young servicemen coming home maimed and paralysed? There are far worse things than an average package and you lack perspective. Like an anorexic who swears they're overweight when they're actually dangerously thin, you look at your cock and see only what is not there, what is not true. You need to stop this before it ruins your sexlife and your relationships with women.

"Enjoy your body, use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it, it's the greatest instrument you'll ever own." Baz Luhrman.

and if you're another alt for testosterone1, you need to get a grip... on your life.

 

[infinity706]

Yep, a bigger cock is going to be less noticeable in your basketball shorts.

Anyway, whether you want to minimize or maximize the appearance of your cock in clothing, there are plenty of ways to do it. Take a cue from those of us with breasts, male underwear/swimwear models or women who "pack." Of course you're probably going to be the only one who notices (we've had previous threads on whether or not women look at guys' bulges, and the verdict was a resounding "no" if I recall correctly), but if it's important to you to look different just in case another man or woman checks out your crotch while you're in your shorts, go for it!


Whatever your reasons, the answer is still the same: there's no proven safe, effective, fairly affordable way to make your cock bigger. If there was, you wouldn't be asking because you would have heard about it by now along with the rest of us who have contact with the outside world. Such a thing would be plastered all over the media and spread like wildfire through word of mouth.

There are tons of ways to make your cock seem bigger, feel better about it and be a fantastic lover, however. Most of them are very effective, totally safe and free. I'd suggest investigating and implementing as many of those things as possible, and then seeing if you still feel like you want a bigger cock. Chances are, if you truly invest in being happy and working with what you have and who you are, you won't see a need for a couple more inches. Length isn't a big deal unless one falls on either extreme end of the spectrum, anyway (your cock doesn't).

Actually, I think you recalled incorrectly. I'm pretty sure the answer was that women do look, but more to see how excited he is.

 

[NippleMuncher]

LMAO! You saved me the trouble of linking that thread!

<spews drink!!> Great minds think alike!



mlags - The best advice is this. Don't worry about what you can't control. It's like male pattern baldness, ya gotta deal with what God gave ya with dignity. If you do that, then nothing else matters. Most men have "size" issues, but thankfully, most women don't, because it's the motion of the ocean that matters, not your junk in your trunks. If you're concerned about how you look in clothing, then wear clothing that is more flattering. A jock strap goes a long way to holding things in their place, no matter what the size. Jeans and pleated front slacks are more concealing than spandex and tight garments. But again, no one cares about your size but you. Get over it and worry about more important things.

 

[manim]

I never cared before...

I have 6" and was with a woman who told me that I was fine and she loved it. About a month later I started asking her about size and she finally said "I dont want to hurt your feelings" so I pressed and told her to say it.

She said her ex had a HUGE penis and I asked what that meant for her all she responded was "well, we had good sex". To me that implied we didn't...

Now, I know she enjoys sex with me and wants me but that statement hurt me so badly I had similar thoughts to mlags. No way in hell would I go to get surgery but the thought was planted "If I had a bigger dick, would I be a better lover?".

I did an informal survey last week. I will post some comments from those that answered.

 

[manim]

Survey results part 1

"Personally, any size seems fine to me if you are liking the guy. Though really tiny, I suppose isn't as much fun. But it is one's perseption of tiny, right? Standard size by what statistics are seems fine to me."

"To be completely honest I would prefer an average sized penis. Larger is not always better for me."

"My answer is that the size is not the most important factor. It is the emotional connection and lust for each other that is important."

"As long as he knows how to use what he's got, larger doesn't really matter. Meaning the guy can have an 8 inch cock and not know how to fuck and it hurts, on the other hand he can have a 6 inch cock and hit every inch. I'm all about mutual gratification, a guy who makes sure I'm cumming instead of just having him get off it A+ in my book"

"I would say [penis size is] slightly important. The most important aspect would be his attentiveness and stamina. But if all other things are equal, larger is better."

"the size is not as important as the knowledge and confidence of how to please a women. He needs to not just assume what I need or like, but ask me to to show him, guide him, etc.
As far as what I want and would look for... is a man who's gentle but politely dominant. Who takes me, but in a way that makes me want no one else but him, who makes me feel like there is no one else but he and I, who is intensely erotic and passionate, and who is not afraid to show his emotions...."

"Dignified? Heh. Well, I do try to remain a lady. But honestly...I had a lover once who had a 9 or 10 inch cock. It was amazing, but because he took his time and was loving. The mere presence of it doesn't give girls orgasms! And my life partner is completely average and is a wonderful lover."

"meh.. Ive had large.. and Ive had small. I wouldn't want smal as in not feeling anything.. But myhubbys is perfect.. so it no biggy"

 

[manim]

Survey results part 2

"as for size, i have no preference. i have found that it really isnt as important as the size of enthusiasm and intellect."

I found that one funny - I am quite the intellectual guy - girls never called it sexy to me before...

"Honestly I don't care what size my partner is. Those aren't the kind of aspects I look for"

following is not from the survey...

I will have to finish up later yes I still have more - but as you can see there are mixed messages coming through - I guess the key is to find the right woman mlags.

If anyone is curious or just want to discuss anything off this thread pm me

 

[mickwannabe]

If you know of the existence, location, and function of a woman's clitoris, you have nothing to worry about.

That right there is exactly what my gf taught me when we first got together. I'm definitely average length, but between my girth and my tongue skills she's never complained

 

[Comrade_Ash]

Im happy with mine.

 

[RuneBlade]

Cock rings can be a really cheap and easy way to make you a bit bigger temporarily, but it can start to hurt after a bit. I find that I lose pleasure sensation with it and the orgasms aren't as good.

 

[CWatson]

Incidentally, for the lulz, be sure to check out this week's series of Pearls Before Swine. One of the crocs has a very underendowed tail, and Pastis is milking it as much as he can.

 

[whoknew1212]

<spews drink!!> Great minds think alike!



mlags - The best advice is this. Don't worry about what you can't control. It's like male pattern baldness, ya gotta deal with what God gave ya with dignity. If you do that, then nothing else matters. Most men have "size" issues, but thankfully, most women don't, because it's the motion of the ocean that matters, not your junk in your trunks. If you're concerned about how you look in clothing, then wear clothing that is more flattering. A jock strap goes a long way to holding things in their place, no matter what the size. Jeans and pleated front slacks are more concealing than spandex and tight garments. But again, no one cares about your size but you. Get over it and worry about more important things.

Ok that's just not true..I had no idea until my current bf told me about it, but there is a whole world of people who do nothing but try to figure out how to get a bigger dick. My bf got into (in my opinion he def doesn't need to, but it was a personal thing for him) it and tried to find something that works. He tried a few things and realized SOME of the products work..but the big thing is patience...you can't get a bigger dick tomorrow (like with those stupid pills) it takes time and effort...but it works

I think it is a confidence thing...if you feel you need a bigger dick than look into it.

 

[EASY213]

More good advice - thanks for sharing it with us

 

[Frankie22]

That's weird - I thought the smallest Internet cock was at least 10" -

 

[Eilan]

That's weird - I thought the smallest Internet cock was at least 10" -

My e-cock is only 8". Turns out I was measuring it wrong.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Ok that's just not true..I had no idea until my current bf told me about it, but there is a whole world of people who do nothing but try to figure out how to get a bigger dick. My bf got into (in my opinion he def doesn't need to, but it was a personal thing for him) it and tried to find something that works. He tried a few things and realized SOME of the products work..but the big thing is patience...you can't get a bigger dick tomorrow (like with those stupid pills) it takes time and effort...but it works

I think it is a confidence thing...if you feel you need a bigger dick than look into it.

I hate to break it to ya honey, but no amount of jerking off, er, uh "jelking" will make his dick grow, other than getting hard while he's jerking. There are no pills. If you're into surgery, that would be the only way.

You're right about one thing though, it's a confidence thing. As I said, get over it with dignity.

 

[Irrumatio]

My cock was once 10.5 inches.

In college I had a brief sexual relationship with a girl. It was just friendship and sex. She was a year ahead of me; the school year was ending and she was graduating and going off somewhere else.

One night she whipped out a ruler and announced that she wanted to measure my cock. She measured it soft (I don't remember the result) and then started blowing me almost until I came. She measured and announced that it was almost 10.5 inches. Then she finished sucking me off.

Now my cock is nothing special. I have never measured it myself, but I have seen enough porn to know it's not a whopper. I later decided she'd probably measured from my knee but didn't think much about it at the time. (I was thinking about the rest of the blowjob.) I didn't know what average was (this was the 1960s) and didn't care.

But when the next term started a few weeks later I was quickly sought out and seduced by a couple of her friends (at different times) who seemed particularly interested in my penis and, it seemed, a little disappointed when it appeared. (Not too disappointed overall though, since they both came back for repeats.)

I eventually figured out that she'd probably told them that I had a real briefs-buster in there, and so I asked one of them if she'd heard something from the original girl about my equipment. She was terribly embarrassed and admited that was the case. I shouldn't have asked though; in her embarrassment, she never approached me for sex again. (I'd already kind of eased away from the other one, because I didn't enjoy her company.)

A few years ago, I read that as you age, your brain and your penis shrink.

Fortunately, I have a really long tongue.