Incestual Food for thought

[Bigfoot71]

Here's a discussion starter. Why is it that there were negative posts about "Lets Talk about Incest" where the guy has had sex with his daughter, but when we something is mentioned about having "Sex with the parents", it's virtually ignored? It all seems the same to me.

For a point of reference so you know I'm speaking from experience, I have had incestual relations before. My first-cousin was the one to take my virginity. I used to play with my sister all the time before bed by massaging her until she was "asleep" (faked it I know from talking to her in recent years) and then played with her pussy through her panties, finally getting to lick her one night. In recent years, we've started a close relationship, though nothing has gone past kissing and playing with each other. I have had some relations with my mom. She allowed me to finger her, also while she was "asleep", but when I tried to go further she "woke up". The taboo was ingrained in her too deeply to submit to her needs

I'm only 28, too yooung to have children right now, but when I do, I hope to erase societies taboos from their minds. As long as it's safe, no pregnancies involved, why not experiment with someone you love? It's a lot better than going out, finding some guy or girl to take your cherry. We all know how traumatic that can be. Some girls won't have sex for years afterwards. Guys can get so embarrassed that they don't last or aren't good enough that it will ruin the relationship they're in.

There are right ways and wrong ways to intitiate someone into sex. My wife and I plan on having an open household where we'll leave doors open and have sex where we want. If the children want to come in and watch, and when they get old enough, join in, that's their choice. No body will force them.

I'd love to have some intellegent responses to this. Not just people asking for me to send them details about my experiences. They won't get answers, but if someone involves themselves in the discussion and leaves an email address, I'll answer that. Nor do I want "Flames" saying that this is wrong, period. Give me specifics, make your case. Let's get this DISCUSSION started.

 

[Bigfoot71]

Oops

Just reading my post. At the end of it, it should have said, "When I find that someone special, my wife and I will plan on having an open household." I made it sound like I was already married. I'm not. I'm still looking.

 

[LolliGirl]

open household

I read your post and totally agree. I began allowing my father & brothers to touch me when I was VERY young and having sex with my father at the age of 12. They never forced me to do anything. It was all left up to me how far to let it go. I have always enjoyed this form of physical affection in our house and hope to continue it in my own someday. email me if you'd like to chat. I'm still looking too.
-Seani

 

[summerdrums]

Past experience with incest

Hey guy, I know what you mean about the negative input about sex with a daughter. My first sexual experience of any consecquence was also a first cousin. Hers was the first fully bushed pussy I ever had my finger in. My sister and I used to play doctor a lot. My home life was a very sex restrictive venue. Since you and your sister have gotten so close, I see no reason for you to not carry it to the next level.

 

[Tawny T]

Incest

I recently had a series of long discussions with a lady who had sexual relations with her father. For Father's day she and her daughter had sex with her husband and the girl's grandfather. She also has sex with her sister and her son, and daughter both.

I neither condoned or condemned her. She said she had sex with both her parents at age 12. There was never any coercion, the people involved entered willingly into the relationship.

It happens, whether we think it is morally right or wrong. I would love to get in contact with the lady again, as I would like to write a true story about the sexual relationship, how it started, and how it developed into a whole family relationship.

 

[familycouple]

I am a 43 yr old mother and was introduced to
family sex, along with my twin brother from when I
was very young. There was an open door policy by my
parents regarding their sexual activity and I asked to
to join them. I have never regreted it and now my
husband and myself have continued this pleasure with our own children. We would be very happy to discuss our experineces
with anyone who may be interested. We would prefer to exchange views with other experienced people, but
we are also happy to answer any questions from those
who wish to embark on this life style.

 

[Rocky36]

if nobodys getting hurt and there having fun
who care let them be
who are WE to judge
just my tought
rocky

 

[LARGEMAN]

I'm 51 and glad I found this place as I had no idea there were so many people like myself that had sex with a mother or father. I had sex many times with my mother from age twelve untill eighteen and the worst thing that occured to me was fear of detection. She and I never had a problem with the love we had shared and had sex several times after age 18 but in no way regularly but many X-mas and b'days we gave each other a wonderful gift of love.

 

[Guest]

Yall are sick

Ewww. Sex should not be with family members. That's called sexual abuse if it starts at 12 like the one girl posted here. HAs yall ever thought of the mental repercussions of these acts?

 

[dayumufine]

incest

i would really like to hear from all of you that have experiences with family members. i have only had relations with a first cousin, but i'm extremly interested in all other relationships. thank you for your replys to dayumufine@yahoo.com

 

[hornydevil]

I see nothing wrong with incest myself as long as it is not forced upon anyone. If everyone enjoys it, it is nobody elses business.

 

[Thor's Hammer]

Interesting, how people can justify actions. By what standards would one decide that a 10 or 12 or 14 year old has sufficient maturity to "consent" to sex with a parent (the source of guidance and discipline).

Bottom line, incest in ALL its forms is sick. Consent (thats a laugh) or not. Go play with non-family members.

 

[ETex Bi Chick]

Incestual conset

To say that a person who is a minor cannot actually give knowing consent to incestual sex (or any kind of sex for that matter) is kinda dumb. Did I know what I was doing when I consented to have sex (non-incestual) when I was 15? Hell yeah, I did. I had a long-term affair with a 1st cousin (female - a year younger than me)until I was 14, and I think I knew enough to consent then, too. No adults were involved, so I was comfortable. But, back to the subject: can a young person give consent? Legally, dependin' on the state, if its younger than 17, usually not. Should that be the law? No way, because most people 13 and up are now sophistocated enough to understand what sex is and what it is about.

 

[hornydevil]

I would rather have my daughter or my son be introduced to sex by myself and my wife rather than have some bungling idiot force themselves on them. I would want to teach my children all about sex safely than to have them go out and stumble into some STD or get some girl pregnant at the ripe age of 12 or 13. Kids today are becoming smarter and smarter, as well as growing up faster and faster.

 

[Thor's Hammer]

chilling

I'm a bit surprised, even here, at some of the posts. If one is a consenting adult, everything is fair game. I can't decide if the "pro" posts are for real or a spoof. If you are serious about supporting incest, you need help fast! Get professional assistance quickly. If one follows the conventional wisdom, behavior is learned - abuse, incest, etc.

And if I ever find out who you are, the gendarmes will be there shortly!

 

[Angel Girl]

Here are a few arguments for you all. And though some of this may seem futile and silly to even discuss it is all true from a certain point of view. I find that relantionships between parent and child are those of nuturing and educating as well as emotional and pyschological support. How parents choose to handle each aspect is definitely up to them as parents. Open households are good ones. I had one of sorts but not to a sexual extent. Ny father bought my tampons for years. My mother and father both bathed us as children. That made me learn not to be ashamed of my body as a woman. I do not want nor have i thought about incest with my father because of the simple fact that I am not attracted to him at all. However it is perfectly natural to find your parents sexy or good looking. Everything is a personal choice. Even in the Bible (my dad is a preacher too) all the marriages were not to outsiders many were incest based. In the south right now TODAY... Still on the law books in Mississippi incest is legal. The idea of consenting as a mature adult... Well lets just say that our kids now are consenting to a hell of a lot more than we give them credit for. They are having babies raising families and taking care of business why would they not be able to consent to have sex with mom or sister... Sex in general is still a taboo thing to speak openly about, but why is that? It is how we all get here. Talk to your kids about it... but then if they need know more than what you give them... would you rather show them as a parent in love and concern or let some other "blind" child who has no clue or even someone else's mother or father teach them. Wake up America. Incest has been going on for years. this is not new. The only thing that is new is the fact that is talked about publicly. I comend all or you honest people who choose to change society's warped veiws on OUR SEXUALITY!
BRAVO!

 

[dayumufine]

Re: Angel girl

Preach on sister !!!!!!

I have never had any sort of physical relationship with my parents or siblings, just don't have the attraction, but I am very interested in those who do. How did it start? Who made the first move? What are your feelings after it happens? These are questions that are valid in the minds of a great many of us in today's society. I would like to hear of personal accounts if anyone is interested in shareing that info with me. I am a 29 yr old male who grew up in the south (with some beautiful cousins).

dayumufine@yahoo.com

 

[dayumufine]

familycouple

familycouple.

i am interested in your experiences with your parents, and your kids as well. this subject is a turn-on for me and i have lots of questions.

hope to hear from you soon.

dayumufine@yahoo.com

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Angel Girl]

To Celestial...

I understand where you are coming from Celestial however I also think that you misunderstand us. We are talking about CONSENTED and no matter what anyone says young people as young as 12 are making ADULT decisions for themselves. We are not talking about forcing anyone to do anything. Simply stated it is more an issue of how much credit we give our young people. Also it is perfectly natural to be attratced sexually to those you are closest with and too. Remember that also homosexuality was punishable by death as well but also so was masturbation. The times of our ancestors are no different from the times we live in now with the exception of technology. KNow that I am not trying to change your mind darling just wanted to add to the lists of facts given...

Peace and Love