Incest.... only a man’s desire??

[Funinkilts]

I get the fact that society labels us men as dirty, perverse, n lecherous. Always on the prowl for our next conquest/fuck. But where incest/taboo is concerned, fantasies and deep seated desires come to mind. “The perverted dirty old man” label is cast upon us. Where we men are automatically at fault for ANY society labeled untoward relations with a family member. I feel a truer sense and more deeper a love is involved. Where nature’s laws over rule man’s laws.

Now most incest/taboo encounters are portrayed as mother/son or brother/sister, and written from the man’s side. Do women not feel the pangs of love for family members in this way? If so, where are their tales of love and carnal lust? Or is that too taboo for society??

 

[AlinaX]

I'm wondering if we're on the same site.

 

[lovecraft68]

Daddy/daughter has a large female readership...I mean come on, just think in terms of the expression "daddy issues" and the Daddy dom faction of BDSM. The "little' fetish/kink etc...

Mom/son does tend to be a more male readership which makes sense.

Brother/sister from what I can tell draws both men an women

So I don't think its branded as a man's desire, at least not from anyone who knows anything about the kink.

 

[SimonDoom]

There are plenty of incest/taboo stories told from the point of view of the woman. I've written some. I know, too, from comments that I've received, that some of the readers are women, and that women also have incest/taboo fantasies, whether from the point of view of daughters, mothers, or sisters. There's plenty for everyone here.

 

[Salacious_Scribe]

Just a reminder, generalizations are always wrong.

 

[Vafunman42]

Incest

I enjoy reading Mose incest stories as they turn me on. Most are Mother and Son but bro and sis , and father daughter are good. I also like aunt and so,e uncle stories.

 

[ElectricBlue]

Just a reminder, generalizations are always wrong.

Generally speaking, you're right .

 

[Jada59]

I can only speak for myself. That sort of thing doesn't interest me a bit.

 

[Funinkilts]

Thank you all for your insights. I shall delve deeper and do more research

 

[SimonDoom]

Just a reminder, generalizations are always wrong.

This is the kind of statement that Captain Kirk used to tremendous effect in several Star Trek episodes -- driving supercomputers and robots to smoke-emitting breakdowns and sputtering protests: "It does not compute . . . error . . . error!"

 

[SluttyMommy77]

I really don't know where you get that impression. I like incest stories, although more so the daddy(or mommy)/daughter ones than the mom/son ones. And I write incest stories on request of my female friends, so there are certainly a lot of women who like these types of stories.

 

[Beth87]

I think there's a large difference between the fantasies and the prevalence of incest --the latter of which is still proportionally much higher as men being the instigators of it...even accounting for the taboo of sharing female perps or mothers in this role.

So for that case...many men would be "at fault" but there's plenty of women with these and darker desires.

 

[sheltering]

daddy desires

Some victims of incest abuse maintain a sort of secret fascination and even a desire to FANTASIZE about those issues, but not a desire for the reality. For me, the incest pornography is powerfully stimulating.

 

[Beth87]

Some victims of incest abuse maintain a sort of secret fascination and even a desire to FANTASIZE about those issues, but not a desire for the reality. For me, the incest pornography is powerfully stimulating. yes papa

I had a yearning for the fantasy and the reality at times. the latter much less frequently and usually about unresolved poop. I have maintained a few Dd roleplays over the years. Some more healthy than others...

 

[Funinkilts]

I’m not into the ddlg or dom/sub “Daddy” portion that some portray. Just the basic family love that can be the purest form. Where the woman should, and does with me, feel empowered tew ask for what she desires

 

[lovecraft68]

I think there's a large difference between the fantasies and the prevalence of incest --the latter of which is still proportionally much higher as men being the instigators of it...even accounting for the taboo of sharing female perps or mothers in this role.

So for that case...many men would be "at fault" but there's plenty of women with these and darker desires.

That's why in my dad/daughter stories I always portray the daughter as the instigator. Either a scenario where she comes onto the father who had never thought of her in that way(but of course begins to at that point)

Or the father may find he's looking at his daughter in an unhealthy way, and feel conflicted, but when the daughter figures it out and pretty much tells him she'd be happy to make him happy...

Almost every one of my incest stories no matter what the dynamic feature a form of conflict. I will have the father thinking about his daughter sexually, then berate himself and call himself sick and feel guilty, until that point where he gives in, but because she is saying its okay.

I think readers like that both in it presents an actual story, the conflict adds reality, and also takes away any rapey vibe-especially in dad/daughter because personally I can only see a story where dad instigates as having that vibe, so I guess I write by my own "rules"

What I find interesting is there is plenty of talk of girls with Daddy issues, and I don't mean their wanting their father, but an obsession with older men, wanting to be in a bit of a needy role and be taken care of etc...

But on the other side when young men have a thing for older women its just the cougar Milf thing, and nobody brings up Mommy issues...find it interesting and I have a theory, but wondering what others might think.

 

[DarkPleasures]

Just a reminder, generalizations are always wrong.

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[ElectricBlue]

What I find interesting is there is plenty of talk of girls with Daddy issues, and I don't mean their wanting their father, but an obsession with older men, wanting to be in a bit of a needy role and be taken care of etc...

But on the other side when young men have a thing for older women its just the cougar Milf thing, and nobody brings up Mommy issues...find it interesting and I have a theory, but wondering what others might think.

I've had good traction with older man/younger women stories that occasionally touch on the "daddy thing" without needing to go down the whole Freudian rabbit hole.

I've got a WIP that's older woman/younger man (but not milf/cougar) - it'll be interesting to see how that one runs in comparison. Mature is an accommodating category with not much evidence of category police, which is nice.

 

[NotWise]

But on the other side when young men have a thing for older women its just the cougar Milf thing, and nobody brings up Mommy issues...find it interesting and I have a theory, but wondering what others might think.

If it's the older woman who starts the relationship, then there's not much need for the younger man to have mommy issues.

I have a series of (mostly) standalone cougar/cub stories. I've never used a "mommy thing" to justify the young man's interest in a woman who is twenty years older. Instead, the cougar is fit and attractive. She's also sexually confident, which the cub is not. She picks her cubs, takes time to seduce them, and ultimately makes it worth their while. She has no interest in a sustained relationship and, with one exception, they end up as friends.

 

[lovecraft68]

If it's the older woman who starts the relationship, then there's not much need for the younger man to have mommy issues.

I have a series of (mostly) standalone cougar/cub stories. I've never used a "mommy thing" to justify the young man's interest in a woman who is twenty years older. Instead, the cougar is fit and attractive. She's also sexually confident, which the cub is not. She picks her cubs, takes time to seduce them, and ultimately makes it worth their while. She has no interest in a sustained relationship and, with one exception, they end up as friends.

I'm referring a bit more to real life, than what we put here. When you look at how popular step mom/mom is in the porn industry and of course how big mom is here, there are obviously a lot of guys with Oedipus complex(fancy jargon for mommy issues) now i you look at Milf, mother I'd like to fuck, I think there is a connection its still a mother figure, just not your mom. Here, I have noticed mom/son fans will cross over to milf mature stories so I think they are somewhat linked.

But my real life theory is older men with young women like needy. From classic sugar daddy to trophy wife where the need is financial to relationships where the daddy issues are more emotional and they want a lover who is also a father figure in way.

Older men with young girls, don't just screw around with them, they want to date them, keep them, have them on their arm because they are oh so impressive to their mid life crisis friends.

Older women look at younger men as someone to fuck. They want hot sex without the drama or baggage of a guy their age and having to talk about a relationship. Most cougar types will screw a young guy then kick him to the curb(and most don't mind, they just went for a hell of a ride)or they may use them as a cub with benefits sort of thing

But they keep them secret, and get what they need. Few women feel the need to show up at an event with a 21 year old on their arms

Guess my end point of its yet another example of older men being pathetic and needing to be needed. Older women looking specifically for young lovers only want one thing, and don't need to turn them into human jewelry or something to brag about.

 

[Beth87]

They might if it didnt mix with how we generally view maternal figures. I think some people would feel a level of revulsion that we’ve been socialised out of (outwardly) when a man is openly dating someone he could father or grandfather (unless the woman looks borderline legal)

But having been immersed in all the stuff for such a long time..you dont even see it. I was really surprised when i heard my therapist talk about how he thinks adult women dressing as “schoolgirls” fetishised children. (Not kink shaming..im partial to the student teacher dynamic myself) but it has changed how i feel about the mass fancy dress market that does sexualise children. Hearing it from a man was pretty profound for me because i presumed all men liked that. Even though many of my own kinks are emotional and dont extend to beyond the realm of the relationship ive built with someone. Like how sometimes i wanna (consensually) treat a man like a worthless fuck toy..but any porn about it is an instant turn off *

Sexuality is weird, as is its interplay with our socialisation and psychological being

 

[Damoiselle]

It's interesting, because I'm not very drawn to incest, but I'm very drawn to other genres that I guess a lot of people perceive as inherently gendered. Namely, noncon. As the person above me noted, it's heavily rooted in socialization. I was raised in a strict religious environment where I was told it was my responsibility not to encourage men to see me sexually, or to be sexual. Even though I'm out of it, I still have latent fears about being very sexual, and thus some fantasies where my autonomy is taken from me are inherently and counter intuitively freeing.

I'm also somewhat submissive by...I don't even know how much of it is nature and how much is nurture, and I'm a bit of a masochist in certain very particular ways. I feel like my exploration of my own sexuality is a mine field a lot of the time. I love reading some noncon, but hate some popular themes in the genre.

Similarly, I was actually rather drawn to step sibling stories, but I can almost never ever find porn of it that suits my taste and doesn't start with an argument that the step brother then punishes the step sister for by forcing her. Which is a huge turn off for me. I want desire motivated not anger motivated fantasies god dammit.