In your opinion what are the differences between erotic stories written by guys and erotic stories written by girls ?

[BaherOlwy]

In your opinion what are the differences between erotic stories written by guys and erotic stories written by girls ?

 

[Debbie]

Imo the guys are all like she was so wet and slick that when we were getting jiggy with it I damn near slid right off her and I woulda face planted in the shagpile and probably have gotten carpet burn on my giant anaconda if I couldnt get traction and stop myself sliding.

The girls are like he is hawt. Like really hawt. I got wet wet wet just looking at his 6 pack and the humongous bulge in his budgie smugglers. He looked at me with his bedroom eyes and said sheila get in my trailer cos i wanna nail ya.

So i did.

 

[allclad]

Guys seem to use the phrase "big/huge cock" A LOT more often.

 

[easyoff]

Women seem to be more into the Taboo things.

 

[live4thebj]

I prefer a female perspective on a mom and son story but there are a lot of males that write a good one.

 

[Pabiporffor]

Quality.

 

[MelodyLikeAMemory]

I have noticed guy authors script the sex scene like every porno. Guy eats girl. Girl sucks guy. Vaginal sex in positions that are great for camera angles but not much else.

Girl authors build the tension better. I want to read about how the couple can’t resist being together anymore because several things led up to the sex scene.

 

[ZfrkS62]

Imo the guys are all like she was so wet and slick that when we were getting jiggy with it I damn near slid right off her and I woulda face planted in the shagpile and probably have gotten carpet burn on my giant anaconda if I couldnt get traction and stop myself sliding.

The girls are like he is hawt. Like really hawt. I got wet wet wet just looking at his 6 pack and the humongous bulge in his budgie smugglers. He looked at me with his bedroom eyes and said sheila get in my trailer cos i wanna nail ya.

So i did.

Bloodhound Gang could have written that post

 

[FL30]

In your opinion what are the differences between erotic stories written by guys and erotic stories written by girls ?

one has a dick and the other one has tits & a pussy.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

“Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.”​

As Good As It Gets

 

[TwinkleStars]

None. They all end in some awesome fuck fest.

 

[jomar]

Imo the guys are all like she was so wet and slick that when we were getting jiggy with it I damn near slid right off her and I woulda face planted in the shagpile and probably have gotten carpet burn on my giant anaconda if I couldnt get traction and stop myself sliding.

The girls are like he is hawt. Like really hawt. I got wet wet wet just looking at his 6 pack and the humongous bulge in his budgie smugglers. He looked at me with his bedroom eyes and said sheila get in my trailer cos i wanna nail ya.

So i did.

I was gonna go with a joke riff on the numbers, but it doesn’t get any better than this.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

Guys get really into describing the girl in clinical detail—how tall she is, how much she weighs, cup size, hair color.

They also like talking about how much they want her and all the stuff they’re going to do to her. There’s never a hint of what she might be feeling, only that she REALLY wants his cock.

Girls sometimes describe the guy’s physical details, but they focus more on how he’s treating her. He’s not a plaything, he’s an active participant. They still don’t care very much about his feelings or motivations though. It’s all about what he DOES.

 

[Rob_Royale]

One thing I've noticed is that female writers seem to focus more on how the characters are feeling emotionally than male writers.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

One thing I've noticed is that female writers seem to focus more on how the characters are feeling emotionally than male writers.

I think it’s because since girls don’t write guys as passive fuck toys, they at least have to give them motivations, even if they don’t delve deeply into their emotions.

 

[jehoram]

Guys get really into describing the girl in clinical detail—how tall she is, how much she weighs, cup size, hair color.

They also like talking about how much they want her and all the stuff they’re going to do to her. There’s never a hint of what she might be feeling, only that she REALLY wants his cock.

Girls sometimes describe the guy’s physical details, but they focus more on how he’s treating her. He’s not a plaything, he’s an active participant. They still don’t care very much about his feelings or motivations though. It’s all about what he DOES.

This thread should be in the Authors Hangout...

But I think you're generally right about that difference in writing styles. If the story is in the first person, narrated by a man, there's going to be a lot about the female character's physical aspects but not much about her thought processes, unless he's trying to figure out what she's thinking. I guess the same thing could go for a female author's first-person story about a woman's encounter with a man. Third-person stories have a lot more flexibility, since the author can get into both of the characters' heads, so to speak.

But I remember reading some female author saying that women are better at figuring out what men are thinking than men are about figuring out what women are thinking, because their entire life is spent in studying that. They are more dependent on men, so they attach more importance to what men are thinking about women in general and themselves in particular.

 

[KatieDoes]

This thread should be in the Authors Hangout...

But I think you're generally right about that difference in writing styles. If the story is in the first person, narrated by a man, there's going to be a lot about the female character's physical aspects but not much about her thought processes, unless he's trying to figure out what she's thinking. I guess the same thing could go for a female author's first-person story about a woman's encounter with a man. Third-person stories have a lot more flexibility, since the author can get into both of the characters' heads, so to speak.

But I remember reading some female author saying that women are better at figuring out what men are thinking than men are about figuring out what women are thinking, because their entire life is spent in studying that. They are more dependent on men, so they attach more importance to what men are thinking about women in general and themselves in particular.

Dependent? LOL. No.
I think it’s that women are in more danger, so we have to learn (from very young) how to read men so we can be safe and recognize when we might not be.

 

[lovecraft68]

They are more dependent on men, so they attach more importance to what men are thinking about women in general and themselves in particular.

Seeing this thread is not in the "we all have to be nice" AH and here on the GB I am happy to be able to reply:

Fuck off with your sexist bullshit, this isn't the fifties anymore. At least not for those of us who don't suffer from cold male insecurity.

Christ, when is your breed going to die the fuck off, and stop making things hard for the decent guys out there.

 

[Britva415]

This thread should be in the Authors Hangout...

What for? I presume they're asking readers, not authors.

 

[lovecraft68]

Any answer here is going to be a generalization. Not all men-or women-write to the stereo typed perception of the gender. There are men who write convincingly as women, and women who can write as men. I mention this because despite what the author claims for a gender here, it may not be true.

The simplest answer I can give-and it is defaulting to generalizing, is men write more in tune with one handed strokers which are sex heavy and plot thin. They also use their Male MC to live vicariously through so they will always describe exactly how big their cock size is(with the actual dimensions, because men are more likely to use "8 inches" and talk abouty "38DD breasts" even though most don't really understand bra sizes. They will always have the woman screaming, gushing and begging for more and telling them what a stud they are. This is base male fantasy that appeals to most male readers.

Women are more erotic. They will tell you about the characters, the back ground, the reason their is an interest in the guy, probably toss in a little conflict, the "Damn, I want him, but he's....fill in the reason" The sex can still be raunchy but you'll get more varied descriptions of the action than "cock to cunt", overall they will tend to focus as much on story and the build up as they do the main event.

Neither of these approaches are wrong, there are readers for both, its just a question of are you in the mood for a hamburger or a four course meal for your reading.

 

[Tigersman]

As an editor for both men and women, I find men are too hung up describing the woman in detail. Men also have the misconception that all women desire a ten-inch cock. Men's sex scenes seem rushed and straight out of porn movie. Women tend to take time building up the characters and the plot. Their sex scenes are not rushed nor is there all the oohs, aahs, or omgs. They also like to prefer not to have their characters get up and leave right after sex. One author, Karenkay was very good at adding a twist at the end of her stories. A couple of my male authors are by far more realistic with their descriptions of their characters and the sex scenes. They definitely know how to build a plot that has a twist and keep the reader coming back.

 

[grenefire]

Maybe it is because I grew up in the AOL chat rooms, but I never trust when people on sites like this say they are a woman. Because of that it is hard to really say if there is a difference between stories written by men or women since I don’t trust people’s profiles!

 

[Amy_K]

Guys get really into describing the girl in clinical detail—how tall she is, how much she weighs, cup size, hair color.

They also like talking about how much they want her and all the stuff they’re going to do to her. There’s never a hint of what she might be feeling, only that she REALLY wants his cock.

Girls sometimes describe the guy’s physical details, but they focus more on how he’s treating her. He’s not a plaything, he’s an active participant. They still don’t care very much about his feelings or motivations though. It’s all about what he DOES.

Guys write in a raw context.

Girls write with emotions.

 

[lc69hunter]

Men write gigantic cocks and huge boobs and women write erotica

 

[jehoram]

What for? I presume they're asking readers, not authors.

Good point. I notice that many of the responders are authors, though.