in sw ohio, does nice = boring?

[mrtnmoon]

this is adapted from a personal I had on another site. I wanted to call this thread "curious", because I'm really not sure what I'm looking for. then I realized people might think I meant that I am bi-curious, and I do know I'm not looking for that. ummmm.... not that there's anything wrong with that. (trivia: what tv show did that phrase come from?)

anyway, here goes.......
it says a minimum of 120 characters for profiles here.... last time I tried this I was up to 1,400 and I wasn't even halfway finished. I'll try to be more succinct this time.

my upside - women have told me I'm sweet, sensitive, caring and funny. my downside - I can be pretty shy, and I can have a tendency to be down on myself sometimes, but I'm working on that. that sensitive side can also be overly sensitive. working on that, too.

I like to play board games, listen to music, watch tv, go to movies and go for walks when I'm sufficiently motivated. I play guitar, and I like to go dancing or to karaoke on occasion. I'm a trivia buff. I like sex (what guy doesn't?) and I'm very touchy-feely. I love to hug and hold hands.

I don't know what I'm looking for, really. I'm kind of hung up on someone but the feeling isn't mutual at this point, so this is a first baby step at seeing what's out there. it would be great if someone responded to this, but I'm not expecting anything.

my ideal match would have some of the same interests as mine. she would know what succinct means... yes, smart can be a turn on.

if I'm shooting for the stars, she'd be petite. that sounds shallow, I know.... in my limited experience the women I've gone out with have been large and that's ok, too. I just like the way someone short and petite feels in my arms.

I guess I better stop there... at the very least maybe I'll be able to find a walking partner for when the weather warms up.
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more info about me that I didn't put in the other ad...

I'm 40 and I live with my mother. the next question after that is usually either, "are you gay?" or "are you a mama's boy?" I'd say no to both of those... I think about eating pussy way too much to think consider myself gay, although I've said before that if I don't find the right woman in the next few years I may consider switching teams

as for the "mama's boy" thing... I just never had the right opportunity to move out when I was younger. now, my mom's health is on the decline and I'm worried about what would happen to her if I tried to leave now.

I'm about 5'6" and 320 pounds, so I'm kind of a big guy. for that reason I don't really consider it much of a possibilty that I'll end up with the petite girl that I desire... but no harm in taking a shot, right? I've heard there are girls called "chubby chasers" that prefer big men, and the girl that I mentioned being hung up on is fairly small but never saw my size as a problem.

I can't really think of anything else to say right now. I'm perfectly willing to answer any and all questions, either here or in PM. as I stated before, not really sure what I'm looking for or what kind of response I hope to get. I dunno if I'm a "one night stand" kind of guy, but if the opportunity presented itself, who knows?

 

[mrtnmoon]

bumping myself. seems like I do that a lot..lol.

 

[mrtnmoon]

bump

rescuing myself from the doldrums of page 7

 

[defiantdee]

Friendly Pep Talk

Geez, this has changed since my last time but here goes.

Don't give up or compromise too much on what you'd like for a future mate. There certainly isn't anything wrong with wanting someone different, slightly or drastically, from the type of women you've been with in the past.

You are being honest about what you are looking for and that is more than most people these days.

Good luck with the quest.

Dee

 

[mrtnmoon]

Good luck with the quest.

when I saw that someone other than me had posted on this thread I thought I'd attracted some interest. not that I'm sure how I would handle it if you had been interested. thanks for the pep talk, tho. it was very nice of you to take the time. have a great day .

 

[mrtnmoon]

bump*

 

[babydoll2u]

just stopping in to lend you some moral support
and say "good luck" in your search.

 

[mrtnmoon]

thanks, babydoll... so far the only luck I've had is nice ladies like you and dee stopping in to wish me good luck..lol. any good will is appreciated, tho. thanks and have a good day/evening/night/whenever it is that you read this.

 

[mrtnmoon]

time for the weekly *bump*

 

[mrtnmoon]

time for the weekly *bump*

 

[mrtnmoon]

a late birthday bump.... yesterday was the day. sure wish I'd gotten lucky here... or anywhere

 

[peped2k]

merth im a bit younger then you 23 and i seem to have the same problem may be we should start a club or some thing like jk some thng good will happen to both of us we just need to keep our chins up

hope that gril your looking for is around the corner. i know im hopeing

good luck

 

[mrtnmoon]

if it's sunday, it must be time to *bump*

 

[mrtnmoon]

this is adapted from a personal I had on another site. I wanted to call this thread "curious", because I'm really not sure what I'm looking for. then I realized people might think I meant that I am bi-curious, and I do know I'm not looking for that. ummmm.... not that there's anything wrong with that. (trivia: what tv show did that phrase come from?)

anyway, here goes.......
it says a minimum of 120 characters for profiles here.... last time I tried this I was up to 1,400 and I wasn't even halfway finished. I'll try to be more succinct this time.

my upside - women have told me I'm sweet, sensitive, caring and funny. my downside - I can be pretty shy, and I can have a tendency to be down on myself sometimes, but I'm working on that. that sensitive side can also be overly sensitive. working on that, too.

I like to play board games, listen to music, watch tv, go to movies and go for walks when I'm sufficiently motivated. I play guitar, and I like to go dancing or to karaoke on occasion. I'm a trivia buff. I like sex (what guy doesn't?) and I'm very touchy-feely. I love to hug and hold hands.

I don't know what I'm looking for, really. I'm kind of hung up on someone but the feeling isn't mutual at this point, so this is a first baby step at seeing what's out there. it would be great if someone responded to this, but I'm not expecting anything.

my ideal match would have some of the same interests as mine. she would know what succinct means... yes, smart can be a turn on.

if I'm shooting for the stars, she'd be petite. that sounds shallow, I know.... in my limited experience the women I've gone out with have been large and that's ok, too. I just like the way someone short and petite feels in my arms.

I guess I better stop there... at the very least maybe I'll be able to find a walking partner for when the weather warms up.
**********************************************************

more info about me that I didn't put in the other ad...

I'm 40 and I live with my mother. the next question after that is usually either, "are you gay?" or "are you a mama's boy?" I'd say no to both of those... I think about eating pussy way too much to think consider myself gay, although I've said before that if I don't find the right woman in the next few years I may consider switching teams

as for the "mama's boy" thing... I just never had the right opportunity to move out when I was younger. now, my mom's health is on the decline and I'm worried about what would happen to her if I tried to leave now.

I'm about 5'6" and 320 pounds, so I'm kind of a big guy. for that reason I don't really consider it much of a possibilty that I'll end up with the petite girl that I desire... but no harm in taking a shot, right? I've heard there are girls called "chubby chasers" that prefer big men, and the girl that I mentioned being hung up on is fairly small but never saw my size as a problem.

I can't really think of anything else to say right now. I'm perfectly willing to answer any and all questions, either here or in PM. as I stated before, not really sure what I'm looking for or what kind of response I hope to get. I dunno if I'm a "one night stand" kind of guy, but if the opportunity presented itself, who knows?

gonna give myself a little *bump* since it's been almost a month.

I was going to let this thread die its nice, quiet little death since things have been going pretty good with the girl I'm "hung up" on (as mentioned in the first post in this thread). I even had a response via PM, which was kind of a surprise and a thrill, but I kind of blew her off because things were going so good with this other girl. well.... I dunno if blew her off is the right way to put it.... I told her I'd like to get to know her but I had to be honest about my feelings, but hey... you can never have too many friends, right? apparently you can, because she never replied after that..lol. which I understand.

anyway, I'm rambling....

the point is I have a feeling that my little buddy is about to put an end to things again, so here we go.... I'm moving myself up from whatever the hell page I was on after no activity for a month. I still dunno if I'm ready to move on into a relationship, but it'd be nice to start trying to get to know some other ladies (like the one that PM'ed me, if she's still out there.... she seemed kind of interesting).... the only ones I ever meet are at work and I dunno if I want to go that route again. have a good day.

 

[babydoll2u]

Good to see you willing to start again here.

Problem is, there aren't many women who will contact you, knowing that they
are definitely second choice. Would I want to be with a man knowing he'd rather be with someone else? Is most likely thinking of her even as we kiss?
uh uh, nope not me

Anyway, I'm thinking that you just might want to do some re-wording on the "ad", if you want to get someone's attention.

Good luck again

 

[mrtnmoon]

so, what you're saying is there is such a thing as too much honesty?

 

[babydoll2u]

so, what you're saying is there is such a thing as too much honesty?

just saying that either you be with the woman you're with,
or if you decide to find someone else, leave that woman behind, in every way.
Otherwise, you'll always be looking for someone to measure up to this gal.
And not only is that totally unfair to the other women... but
they'll know it and leave you in the dust

 

[mrtnmoon]

I always thought honesty was the best policy, but I guess I see your point. maybe I should just go ahead and let this thread die.

not that it makes any difference as far as what you're saying, but I would be with this girl if I could. she's the one that's doing the leaving behind. guess I was hoping for some new friends to help me forget.