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angelicminx

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I'm making my big move this weekend. I'll be staying with my best friend until I can save some money for my own place, but she assured me that I will have internet connection. :D

I got the job that I have been waiting 4 years to get. This fall I will be a full-time assistant preschool teacher. No more substituting. :D

I don't know when I will file for divorce, it will depend on the money situation I'm sure, but so far we are being adults about it and compromising where needed.

Chey is okay with us splitting up, she's a great kid. She is excited about the changes being made, although she is scared that she will lose some of her friends by moving out of the trailer park.

I finally have the support of my parents in my decision to end my marriage, after a rough week or so of my mother's "advice" on "holding it together". My father supported me from the first, though he didn't want to see it happen, he was behind me no matter what I decided. My twin brother is pissed, but I figured he would be. My baby brother cried and still doesn't understand my decision, though I have explained to all of them that they don't HAVE to understand it, it's MY decision, not theirs. My grandparents, as far as I know, don't know and won't be told. They live 1200 miles away and my grandmother has alzheimers. As to the rest of my family, I haven't told them, and that's okay, I don't want to hear it.

That's the update, so far, on my life and the reason I haven't been online much in the last couple of months.

I was suppose to be writing a collaboration with Dreampilot for the Nude Day Contest, but I haven't had time. I apologize Dream. Writing about sex at the moment is very hard to do, as I have little interest in having it, lol. If all goes well, we'll get the collaboration finished just for fun. His beginning is wonderful and I hope I can live up to it.

I have another in the works for the contest, but it doesn't look like I will have it finished in time... sigh. I am also working on my first non-consent story, wish me luck with that, y'all. :D

I'm going to do my best over the weekend to read the entries into the contest and at least cast my vote, I haven't read any of them yet, except for the ones sent via PM for an opinion.

Feel free to do what y'all wish with this thread. I just wanted to let y'all know what was going on, just in case you actually missed me and was wondering. :rolleyes:

My love to all of you, you mean a lot to me. :kiss:
 
Of course I missed ya.. and totally understand about the joint effort....

just hope things go well with ya!
 
Best of luck to you though this time. Sounds like on the path you are on, things will be better as soon as you get over the hill.

Best to you!
 
I'm glad to hear the kid is all right. Try to make the new place a stable one, so that she won't have to lose another set of friends. She'll need stability. Good luck in your new life teaching. Be aware of things. Trust your judgement. Love from us all.
 
GO MINX!! I had no idea thiat was why you hadn't been posting, but I am glad you found the strength. God never throws things our way that we can't handle. Be happy.
 
Way to go Girl!!! I am so proud of you. Wishing you all the best and sending you *hugs*
 
Minx,

Good to see you around again and hoping that all goes according to plan. Encouraging that your soon-to-be-ex is being civilized and sensible about it.

For now, take care of yourself and Chey, that's what's most important.

We'll still be here once you're settled. :rose: :kiss:
 
When you get in the mood for sex again, you know where I am........... :D
 
So, this is what I get for not keeping track of you people? Y'all go and have all kinds of turning points in life and stuff. ;)

Sounds like great news, Minx, and that everyone will be better off in the end. Congrats on the job too.

How old is your kid? The funny thing about children is that they are often more adult about these kind of things than the adults are. When my parents got divorced, they had stalled the desicion for three years for the sake of my little brother, who was twelve. They were terrified he'd get torn up about it. His reaction to the news was "Well, duh. Why didn't you do this long ago?"

So, have faith in the young. It seems you raised a good one.

Don't be a stranger, and pop in when you can.

#L
 
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Minx,

That's great news, I'm glad to hear things are working out for you and the soon to be ex is being an adult about it.

A word of advice about people not understanding your decision. They aren't in your shoes and they don't know what's going on no matter how many time you try to explain it to them. Make yourself happy. If they love you they will come around to accepting and helping you in your endeavors. (They may never understand but remember it's your life not theirs.)

As for the teaching job, out-fucking-standing!

Cat
 
Hey minx.

Sad about the breakup, happy for the job and pleased you have the strength to carry on.

:rose:
 
Congratulations on the job and good luck on the movie. I lived with my best friend for about five months and it was a blast! I stayed there until I could find an apartment to move in with my boyfriend, good luck again and stay safe; give us updates!
 
Minx

Luck on the move and Congrats on the Job.
I think you need nana's for the Job :nana: :nana: :nana:

~Moonie
 
Minx,

Sounds like you made some though decisions.
Hope you keep your courage, go for it.
I wish you all the happiness in the world.

:D
 
Quick update before I take Chey to her dad for the night. I'm finished moving and I have the net back. WOOHOOOOOOOO!:nana: More to follow. :D
 
Best of luck to you, Minx. I can relate to what you're going through very well! If you need an ear, you know where I am. :)

:rose:

SJ
 
angelicminx said:
Quick update before I take Chey to her dad for the night. I'm finished moving and I have the net back. WOOHOOOOOOOO!:nana: More to follow. :D

Glad to hear you're doing well. Good luck. I wish you the strength to rebuild.
Take care Minx.
 
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