In a ladies mind

[Juspar Emvan]

Last night, night club, dancing, having fun, drinking too much. Dancing with a group, attractive girl joins the group, soon we're daning alone. Her fine arse pressed back into my crotch, it's impossible that she doesn't notice my half aroused cock swinging against the backs of her thighs inside my satin boxers. I put a hand on her hip, my face in her hair. Tangling fingers together, I roam gently across safe areas of her body. Her hand on mine gives her control, I brush her breast, testing. She allows, head back resting on my choulder - her nipple is tight and hard.

We dance that dance, close, urgent, sensual. And the next, her facing me, knees between each other's legs, chests pressed together, lips brushing ears.

We dance two more times through the night, more of the same. Then she starts avoiding me.

 

[TN_Vixen]

hell, Juspar, that was easy

she's a cock tease.

 

[Tyrael]

More choices :

Maybe she started thinking about what she was doing and got embarassed.

Maybe she found someone she liked better.

Maybe her husband/boyfriend came back from wherever the hell he was.

Maybe she got off and doesn't need you anymore.

LOL sorry if some of these seem cold but there are some women who use men just to get off too.

 

[April]

I haven't a clue, but if it was me, I would have dragged you into a dark corner for a little fun.

 

[TN_Vixen]

More choices :

Maybe she started thinking about what she was doing and got embarassed.

Maybe she found someone she liked better.

Maybe her husband/boyfriend came back from wherever the hell he was.

Maybe she got off and doesn't need you anymore.

LOL sorry if some of these seem cold but there are some women who use men just to get off too.

Nope, she's just a tease addicted to eliciting attention from men in general. Don't read more into it.

(grin)

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Hmmm ....

Maybe she was drunk and then did not realize what she was doing ... then reality set in and she felt bad for allowing herself to get lost in the dance ?!?!?

Huh ?

 

[Tyrael]

Nope, she's just a tease addicted to eliciting attention from men in general. Don't read more into it.

(grin)

Awww, but it's fun reading into things.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Nope, she's just a tease addicted to eliciting attention from men in general. Don't read more into it.

(grin)

Bitch

Oh come one people - surely there has to be some compassion out there. No one willing to even give her the benifet of a 'something else'? And what does that say about me?

 

[patient1]

Well, I'd like to think that her body was going faster than her heart, she was getting carried away with you, & she got scared.

Who knows? It's not as if you can talk in one of those places.
Guess you didn't get her name & number

 

[bluemuse]

It's power thing...

...some women do it just because they can. And most of us can.........but the classy ones don't....unless they mean it.

Don't waste too much time thinking about it.


bluemuse

 

[TN_Vixen]

And what does that say about me?

Oh don't take it personally, it really doesn't reflect on your judgement at all. Men are men, after all and at any hint of pussy, they'll automatically respond. ;-)

btw, bluemuse, the "classy" ones are guilty too. They just aren't as blatent. (smile)

 

[bluemuse]

Know what?

Oh don't take it personally, it really doesn't reflect on your judgement at all. Men are men, after all and at any hint of pussy, they'll automatically respond. ;-)

btw, bluemuse, the "classy" ones are guilty too. They just aren't as blatent. (smile)

You're right, TN Vixen........I was just thinking about it......and to my embarrassment I remembered a few times I behaved the same way....just for the fuck of it. And I do consider myself to be a classy broad.

I wouldn't behave that way now, of course.....


bluemuse

 

[TN_Vixen]

Re: Know what?

You're right, TN Vixen........I was just thinking about it......and to my embarrassment I remembered a few times I behaved the same way....just for the fuck of it. And I do consider myself to be a classy broad.

I wouldn't behave that way now, of course.....


bluemuse

Cool. But, I would do it again simply because it's fun to flirt, and basically that's all it is, really... flirting and having fun, unless you're the type of woman who gets a thrill out of manipulating men in general. I certainly would do it again, but I never have and never would do it in the context of stringing someone along for my own amusement.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

What a hard arse bunch of mofo's you are. 9:1 say she's deliberately teasing.

OK, finish the story.

I notice her sitting at her table, two frinds close by, go over - intend to ask to dance. Tears streaming down her face. Back up, not my place. Friends consoling her.

Night club closes, everyone leaving. Woman selling roses on sidewalk. I buy rose. "Smile, it's not all bad." She smiles.

Friends cluster around, "Bitch *laugh*, you have a boyfriend, no one ever buys me flowers." Limo pulls up, friends pile in, she approaches. Kisses my cheek, "Thank you, call me ###-####. Please."

Something else seems that appropriate answer. And patient probably hit it in his comment, though I don't know how he voted.

 

[patient1]

Bitch

Oh come one people - surely there has to be some compassion out there. No one willing to even give her the benifet of a 'something else'? And what does that say about me?

I think whether you were interested enough to obtain& remember her name speaks for itself about you, one way or the other I'm not saying you I know the answer to that, but you do.

Actually I suspect that her name was TN_Vixen

 

[Tyrael]

Now Juspar..why did you only tell us half the story?

Had I known this other part it would have made my initial reaction much different.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Patient, I do know her name, and I can smell her hair. Though I punched her number into my phone straight awy, so I wouldn't foget. Somehow through the alchohol, I can still remember her exact words as she gave me her number, a number which I recal perfectly.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Now Juspar..why did you only tell us half the story?

Had I known this other part it would have made my initial reaction much different.

Of course - but if you'd been me, you would have got half way through the night and judged her a ruthless bitch, so you probably wouldn't have given her a rose.

Nice guys might just get the girls after all. Once the hang over wears off, she'll likely regret giving me her number, but we'll see.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Actually I suspect that her name was TN_Vixen

hehe... nope, I'm quite a distance away from Canada, darling.

 

[bluemuse]

She was crying and she has a boyfriend....

If you had included those two VERY important elements in the story, my answer would have been very different.

I still believe that most of the time when this happens, it's just flirting for the sake of flirting.......and a power trip.


bluemuse

 

[Tyrael]

Of course - but if you'd been me, you would have got half way through the night and judged her a ruthless bitch, so you probably wouldn't have given her a rose.

Nice guys might just get the girls after all. Once the hang over wears off, she'll likely regret giving me her number, but we'll see.

Um no.

The initial story ended with her dancing and getting hot and heavy with you then ignoring you for the rest of the night - which is what a bitch who uses people does.

The story ending with you talking to her and giving her a rose and her kissing your cheek and giving you her number isn't the same thing as the "she avoided me the rest of the night" story you gave us at first.

 

[perks]

she has a SO who hasn't been treating her well.

She went out for a night on the town with the girls to blow of steam and get a little attention.

Sexy you gave it to her.

No matter what she says or the number she gave you. She's still a user.

sorry, Pukka.

perks

 

[Juspar Emvan]

I danced with her last at midnight(ish), got refused twice after that, and she wouldn't meet my eyes. I was about to give it one last shot just before 2am closing, when I found her crying. I figure at that point, most people have come to thier conclusions about her motives. We danced on and off for an hour - then two hours of being avoided. Would you have tried that last time, even if you had, would you have bought the flower. Not personal attack, just observation en mass that we judge without all the facts.

 

[patient1]

Okay... Bear in mind that I type slower than you youngsters,
and that the dialogue progresses faster than I can post....

I was the 1st don't understand women post.

I was teasing Juspar. I don't think he's a man-slut , just because he's got the body for it.

Any chance this was a bar-hopping bachelorette party?

 

[Wiggles]

This is my guess.

She and her bf are having a fight, her friends took her out to get her mind off it.

She found a cute sexy guy to take her mind off her troubles. Eventually the alcohol buzz wears off, and she starts thinking about bf, and what she should do.

Then the sweet sexy guy she left on the dance floor gives her a flower, and she thinks hey, I'd like to talk to him again.

- Give her a ring next weekend, maybe she want's to get her mind off her troubles. I'd call by Thursday. You don't want her to think she's a last minute thing.



(And give it up, you'll never understand women, we don't understand ourselves!)