Impact play, with hands.

[Tommybowler]

Spanking. Over the knee spanking. Moving your hand quickly to impact on your subs ass with a resounding slap. The hand stopping after making contact.

This is how the majority of the spankings I have given have been done. Rubbing after changing cheeks, varying the timing sometimes moving to spank then pulling back and just touching.

Today I changed it up a little more. The spank where the hand keeps moving creating quite a jiggle as it passes. Very satisfying for me and well received by the puppy. (I don't know if this nick name has any special meaning In the lifestyle. It's just she is my puppy first and my slut second when we play and often puppy when we don't it was a pet name before we found and settled into our master/sub roles)

We also tried it on her breasts with positive results. She does enjoy pretty much all Breast play we have tried.

She had requested I slap her face, something that I find awkward to do, I love my puppy more than I thought I could love another. But I do this for her, probably not as hard as she would like but the best I can within my limits although I don't think I could use the follow through style I have used on her ass and breasts.

I am looking for further ideas how to change up our Impact play so please tell me what you enjoy dominant or submissive all is good to share ideas and methods that work for you for the consideration of others. Please stick to with hands as other methods deserve their own threads I think.

Thanks tom X

 

[MastersDelight]

Something my Master has tried recently was to use both hands to smack along my ass and thighs. In quick succession, like one would on bongo drums. With moderate strength it seems light and playful but builds as he continues. It creates a nice jiggle and brings up a lovely pinkness. He'll sometimes do this then strike me harder between taps.

Hope this helps.

delight

 

[Farawyn]

Smack her on her clit.

 

[babslovesherdaddy]

My favorite spanking of all time was two swats with Daddy's hand. It left bruises that lasted a week. But it hurt His hand so I can't ask Him to do it again. Not that I asked the first time. It was a total, wonderful surprise that I will never forget. I hope no one minds me telling my favorite spanking story.

 

[cookiecat]

On her back, knees pulled to chest, legs spread - slapping, spanking inner thighs.

Not sure if you're in to humiliation play but spanking areas that might feel uncomfortable: tummy, thighs. Have her stand with arms clasped behind head or straight out to sides. I had a dominant who wanted me to see he was getting a hard on even when I thought I was too "curvy" -- so he'd grab my thighs, slap them, tell me I was jiggling then say look at my cock, is it hard?

Plan a series of questions, spank her and discuss questions as you lecture her. I like the confusion that ensues... spanking as if it's going to lead to something more but he's asking me the most mundane questions - what did I do today? Did I talk to anyone special? Did I think about daddy's cock? All the while, he's spanking, fondling, spanking, expecting met to answer as if we're just having a regular conversations.

Sometimes I'd get a punishment spanking where - say I forgot my keys. Once found, I'd have to hold them in my mouth as he spanked me. Or saying I didn't like a butt plug so having to hold in a plug as I was spanked.

Spanking asshole? It's not full out spanking, but have her bend over, spread her ass cheeks and "present" it to you... just take a few fingers and tap tap tap in the crack.

I was in a scene years ago that was just full out slapping. My arms were over my head and she just slapped me everywhere. Then stop, rub me down, let my body cool down a bit then start over. Arms, back, thighs, breasts. Most times both hands coming down at the same time. The alternating between these hard double-handed slaps and then being rubbed, touched, kissed made me feel crazy. Good crazy.

Good luck!

 

[Tommybowler]

Thank you for the ideas I can see several that could work for us.
The mention of clit and anus are areas I use another part of my anatomy to tap gently. She only recently opened up about how to treat her clit, I had been trying to get her to say for a while but she was reluctant. I think in part to a body image issue she has down there, I hope with my help she will get past that

Cookicat I love the idea of combining with mundane questions that will, as I believe is the American vernacular, "throw her a curve" I can't wait to try this one.

Masters delight, play her like bongos and expand the areas is something we will try too.

Our play has really started to expand and go higher recently as our connection has deepened.

 

[MastersDelight]

Thank you for the ideas I can see several that could work for us.
The mention of clit and anus are areas I use another part of my anatomy to tap gently. She only recently opened up about how to treat her clit, I had been trying to get her to say for a while but she was reluctant. I think in part to a body image issue she has down there, I hope with my help she will get past that

Cookicat I love the idea of combining with mundane questions that will, as I believe is the American vernacular, "throw her a curve" I can't wait to try this one.

Masters delight, play her like bongos and expand the areas is something we will try too.

Our play has really started to expand and go higher recently as our connection has deepened.

I can understand the body issues, I have those too and I harbor a lot of "pussy hate".

And I enjoyed Cookicats question idea so much I had Master read this thread last night

 

[Tommybowler]

I can understand the body issues, I have those too and I harbor a lot of "pussy hate".

And I enjoyed Cookicats question idea so much I had Master read this thread last night

I really think all pussies as beautiful. The male genitalia is such a mess by comparison.

We won't get to play properly for a few days now, we both have kids. Next week is possible but the situation may not be the best. We had planned on playing Saturday or Sunday but kids first.

 

[MastersDelight]

I really think all pussies as beautiful. The male genitalia is such a mess by comparison.

We won't get to play properly for a few days now, we both have kids. Next week is possible but the situation may not be the best. We had planned on playing Saturday or Sunday but kids first.

See, I think some pussies are pretty, some aren't. But I love most male genitalia with few exceptions.

I get the kids thing, they're the best (and cutest) cock block around lol.

 

[_Necrosomantic_]

Hello there, it truly warms my black heart to hear stories of relationships progressing so positively!

If I may make a recommendation, a tried and true method to heighten a sub who enjoy's any kind of rough play's experience, is to mix in some good old fashioned orgasm denial.

Try alternating between your normal spanking/striking efforts, to some intense teasing ( restraints optional, with or without toys, maybe add in some light verbal teasing ) that will bring her to the brink, before switching back or stopping to issue a command.

I've had several partners that absolutely LOVED this, especially when switching between extremes. Just when they where about to orgasm, I'd give them a nice slap across the face, give their hair a solid yank, or just stop and tease them verbally.

Now, everyone is different and its up to you as a good Dom to figure out the timing/order/how many times to do this, but I think it just might work for you. Try it out

 

[babslovesherdaddy]

Hello there, it truly warms my black heart to hear stories of relationships progressing so positively!

If I may make a recommendation, a tried and true method to heighten a sub who enjoy's any kind of rough play's experience, is to mix in some good old fashioned orgasm denial.

Try alternating between your normal spanking/striking efforts, to some intense teasing ( restraints optional, with or without toys, maybe add in some light verbal teasing ) that will bring her to the brink, before switching back or stopping to issue a command.

I've had several partners that absolutely LOVED this, especially when switching between extremes. Just when they where about to orgasm, I'd give them a nice slap across the face, give their hair a solid yank, or just stop and tease them verbally.

Now, everyone is different and its up to you as a good Dom to figure out the timing/order/how many times to do this, but I think it just might work for you. Try it out

Yes!! This!! Makes my subbie heart tingle!

 

[Tommybowler]

No time to play due to dealing with some family issues in another country. But we will be soon the waiting is killing me but where we are staying is really not conducive to any kind of sexual relations. Did try the mundane questions and spanking briefly as we packed to go. I think it was a hit.

 

[cookiecat]

No time to play due to dealing with some family issues in another country. But we will be soon the waiting is killing me but where we are staying is really not conducive to any kind of sexual relations. Did try the mundane questions and spanking briefly as we packed to go. I think it was a hit.

Sometimes those moments - where you think there isn't any room for sex - amping up the anticipation can be pretty fun.

I had someone put tape over my nipples. Weird. I went to work with tape on my nipples thinking this is dumb. But it's all I could think about all flipping day. It didn't hurt, there really wasn't much sensation about it but I knew it was just there. He did this to me.

Same with writing something on her butt cheek or belly or... "property of" or "this is mine" or whatever. Just knowing it's there.

Hopefully your family issues are worked out.

I'm glad to know the questions/spanking worked. To add to this, pictures were taken - before and after - and I was made to review them with him after. Ugh. I hated it and loved it.