Impact pain without color or marks

[Big1958]

What are the best ways to hit a female subs ass, or breasts or pussy without producing a lot of color or marks that are visible after let us say 30 minutes. I don't mean love taps either, something painful.

 

[sybarite_1]

Wide broad slaps with a flat hand or a wide flat paddle will often do the trick. They excite lots of nerve endings for mazimum pain but don't do the deeper damage that causes bruising. Avoid anything that directs a lot of pressure onto a small spot, like canes.

Yikes. The hand should be cupped not flat..

 

[Athalia]

This question might be more suitably posted in the BDSM section of the forum, as the people there have had more experience with it.

 

[thelaughingcat]

Yikes. The hand should be cupped not flat..

Definitely cupped hand. My OH's marks have normally faded after about twenty minutes or so (though I still felt them on the exercise bike this morning ) We've also found a crop works well - whippy but leaves little stinging sensations all over.

However, every person's body is different. Start light and get a little harder each time and test out where those limits are, when the marking occurs. It doesn't take long to figure it out and it will be a huge amount of fun!

 

[Emerson40]

What are the best ways to hit a female subs ass, or breasts or pussy without producing a lot of color or marks that are visible after let us say 30 minutes. I don't mean love taps either, something painful.

As far as striking your sub, you really should involve them as to what works. For example, the open hand mentioned above... some say flat palm, which would produce a sharper, more stingy sensation, and others suggest cupped hand, which would be less stingy. Your sub may be in favour of one over the other.

Start off light in intensity, and watch the body language. If your sub is leaning into or towards the strike, they are being receptive. If they are pulling away, or pulling their shoulders back when striking the ass, you may need to spend more time warming things up, adjust intensity, or try something different.

Vary speed and intensity, and sensations and reactions will vary as well. Communication between you and your sub will be key to having the best scene possible, and play a big part in achieving what you both seek.

As far as leaving marks, there is a great deal that could contribute to this. Types of toys - paddles, floggers, straps, etc - can make some difference. But intensity, and even repeated strikes to the same area can have an effect as well.

Lastly, some folks just mark easy, and others don't. I have had a few hard slapshots hit me while playing hockey, the puck catching me where there is no padding, on the inside of my thigh. The area gets a little red, and feels tender for a day or two, and that's about it. My wife took a bad pitch to her inside thigh in the Spring, while back-catching during a softball game. Half her thigh bruised, and rotated through shades of purple, pink, and blue over the next couple weeks.

I'm curious as to why you are wanting to minimize color or marks. The areas you are talking about are generally covered, and, in your words, you are talking more than love taps. Why the concern about leaving visible marks?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I'm curious as to why you are wanting to minimize color or marks. The areas you are talking about are generally covered, and, in your words, you are talking more than love taps. Why the concern about leaving visible marks?

I wondered that as well

 

[Emerson40]

I wondered that as well

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[twister947]

I wondered that as well

Probably for the same reason you don't leave hickies on someone else's spouse. Creates tension, yanno?

 

[ToPleaseHim]

What are the best ways to hit a female subs ass, or breasts or pussy without producing a lot of color or marks that are visible after let us say 30 minutes. I don't mean love taps either, something painful.

It's different for different people, you know? I mark up easily, but it doesn't last long at all. My good friend, her bruises last for ages. You need to talk with your sub.

Probably for the same reason you don't leave hickies on someone else's spouse. Creates tension, yanno?

I was curious, too. Marking up areas covered by clothing is rarely a problem...unless the marks are being hidden from a person who would also see those areas.

 

[Emerson40]

Interesting thread note...

Looking at the OP's profile and post history, it appears she is the sub.

 

[mrron]

I was curious, too. Marking up areas covered by clothing is rarely a problem...unless the marks are being hidden from a person who would also see those areas.

ya think??

 

[GiggLeGasm]

lol.. this reminds me of the time my youngest and I were discussing law.. and when the lightbulb went off, he brilliantly exclaimed..

"I get it! It doesn't matter who's right or wrong.. It's who has the best evidence!"

 

[ALustInWonderland]

But leaving marks are the best part.