I'm Your Best Friend: Can I Fuck Your Ex?
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BlazeofLife
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lavender said:
What she said.
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plasticman33
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My God! If the poor bastard wants her, is into serious mental abuse, he's more than welcome!
bluemuse
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It sorta happened to me...
..she wasn't my best friend, though. Just one of my friends.
At the time I was quite upset. Now, I raelize that they made a much better couple. He wanted a woman that he could bend to his will.....I was not that woman...she was.
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..she wasn't my best friend, though. Just one of my friends.
At the time I was quite upset. Now, I raelize that they made a much better couple. He wanted a woman that he could bend to his will.....I was not that woman...she was.
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Yes, actually, this HAS happened
A "friend" of mine dated my ex-husband after we were divorced. (She dated him while we were married too, but they didn't know I knew that.
).
If her taste is that bad, or she is that desperate for a fuck, she can have him!
A "friend" of mine dated my ex-husband after we were divorced. (She dated him while we were married too, but they didn't know I knew that.
). If her taste is that bad, or she is that desperate for a fuck, she can have him!
alexandraaah
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unwritten rule.
of course, it depends on the circumstances. The bottom line is, will you be hurt?
For some reason, when a friend of mine begins to date someone, any essence of that person being appealing to me is unplugged.
of course, it depends on the circumstances. The bottom line is, will you be hurt?
For some reason, when a friend of mine begins to date someone, any essence of that person being appealing to me is unplugged.
LukkyKnight
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Please do, juicy, it might loosen her up a bit.
KillerVanity
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If we're not together anymore, there's probably a good reason -- I have dated some real crazies! If it was any of my normal friends I'd be sort of creeped out, but it'd be especially weird if my best friend went that route.
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Elizabeth said:
My sentiments exactly!!
Gilly Bean
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Well... I have a few different veiws on this.
1. If I had broken up with him, and realized that it just wasn't going anywhere, and we were better off broken up, I would wish them luck, and try to be happy for them. I might be a tad jealous, but if I gave up on him, I honestly don't think I have any right to say who he can and cannot date.
2. If he broke up with me, and I was still into him, then I would not want it, and would be mad if it were to happen, but I wouldn't have a say in who he decides to date.
3. If the breakup is still fresh, and qualifies as #2, then I would be mad. If it has been a while, then I don't think I would be nearly as much.
Time and reason play a big part in this. If you are considering your friends ex at all, I would wait until the wounds are not so fresh.
1. If I had broken up with him, and realized that it just wasn't going anywhere, and we were better off broken up, I would wish them luck, and try to be happy for them. I might be a tad jealous, but if I gave up on him, I honestly don't think I have any right to say who he can and cannot date.
2. If he broke up with me, and I was still into him, then I would not want it, and would be mad if it were to happen, but I wouldn't have a say in who he decides to date.
3. If the breakup is still fresh, and qualifies as #2, then I would be mad. If it has been a while, then I don't think I would be nearly as much.
Time and reason play a big part in this. If you are considering your friends ex at all, I would wait until the wounds are not so fresh.
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juicylips said:
I can and have handled it with no problems at all. My best friend went out with him for three years longer than I ever did. They were better suited.
Now that I am older, though, the only request would be - Can I watch?
Fly_On_Wall
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lets see.
1 me and her broke it off on good terms (still firneds)
2 them two are happy together
3 they don't try to hide it from me and think of me in a way.(how i'll be affected)
4 they don't flaunt it at me.
then I'd be okay.
1 me and her broke it off on good terms (still firneds)
2 them two are happy together
3 they don't try to hide it from me and think of me in a way.(how i'll be affected)
4 they don't flaunt it at me.
then I'd be okay.
celiaKitten
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Been there, done that, got the manual!
It's uncomfortable, but hey - like was previously said, I don't own anyone.
It's uncomfortable, but hey - like was previously said, I don't own anyone.
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My best friend actually wanted to go out with my ex. It hurt like hell when I heard that they were gong behinde my back.
When I told way it hurts me, and that it isn't what a best friend would do, he just says that I still got feelings for her.....
When I told way it hurts me, and that it isn't what a best friend would do, he just says that I still got feelings for her.....
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Ever happened to you?
Nope, I can actually say it has not happen to me.
I think its because my girl friends and I have such different taste in men. All the men they have dated have never peaked my interest and the same can be said about my men.
Nope, I can actually say it has not happen to me.
I think its because my girl friends and I have such different taste in men. All the men they have dated have never peaked my interest and the same can be said about my men.
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juicylips said:
I have no hold on him, so I guess that after a time to get over the breakup, I would be ok with it. As long as it was a relationship, not the jump into bed and do it thing.
If it was too close to the break up, I would probably feel hurt and betrayed by my friend. Only because I would still be thinking that there was a chance for us to get back together.
It's hard to let go.
