I'm wanting to explore my curiosity...

[sexychik69]

I'm a 20-year-old, straight female, but for a few years now I've been wanting to explore my sexuality and do some bisexual/lesbian acts. I have a good friend of mine that has been my friend for about 9 years. She's a female as well. We speak about sex often when I visit, but I only get to visit once or twice a year. We're very close and even cuddle sometimes when it's cold. We're both very open and I think we're both very willing to try new things. Although she is a virgin, and I'm not, we both share advice about sexual acts and orgasms and things of the sort.

I'm visiting this coming weekend and staying for two weeks, and I feel like we've grown close enough for me to mention my feelings towards women to her, but I'm really nervous and I don't know what to say. I've never told her about my attractions towards women, but quite honestly I think there's nothing sexier than two women together - I imagine it being so passionate (especially if there's a history between them - which there is with my friend and I) and a wonderful experience I would like to have. But I need some advice on how to confront her about it. I know she would be understanding, but I would like to ask her about her feelings, if she ever has the same ones that I do, and if she would like to explore things with me as well.

Any ideas on how I could tell her my feelings and attractions and not scare her away? Or ideas on how to initiate physical things between us? This isn't my realm really but I want to explore it. Any feedback or advice would be much appreciated. (P.S. Sorry about the length, but I felt I needed to give a little background)

 

[forestorgy]

hey there hot stuff !

my friend and i are in the same boat. but were guys. a while ago we hung out after not seeing eachother in a few years and got along better than ever.

after our reunion we didn't see eachother for a while but we emailed back and forth and really became awesome friends. For a long time like two years ive been having sex fantasies about him and another friend of mine, and myself all waking up in my bed together with super hard-ons and then sucking eachother wildly under the sheets and things. and then some more hot fantasies like it. occuring like when im daydreaming or driving. it got kind of dangerous.

So a while after we saw eachother i got up a TON of courage, cause im really shy about sex discussions with new love interests and emailed him and I said because we were such good friends that if there was a guy i would want to explore my bi-curiousness with it would be him.

then i wrote that i am bi-curious but not into the gayish type of bi-sexuality.
because im not so much attracted to most men as much as to sexy encounters between my good friends and his body is kind of hot and curvy.

anyway i said i was just plain bi-curious about getting it on with a cute guy. and that he was really cute and the only guy i knew who was my type. which is true.

then i said i needed to suck his cock ! and that we should totally go camping and make hot hot love.

then share our love with girls ! to turn them on.

and that seemed to work great. at first i was terrified cause it took him a day to get back to me, but i was so happy when he did that i couldn't help but walk around all day feeling so sexy and turned on that it was kind of to much !

i asked him when i felt that we deserved to behave however we wanted! regardless of society. and what other people might say.

and i also felt it would be fun one way or the other. and that gave me the courage to ask.

so just write that you want to make love together and then tell her how hot it would be to do something specificly lesbian ! with her.

i think people like to be made love to ! so your friendship's not going to be ruined. one way or the other.

as far as physical love goes:
get double dongs.

my girlfriend uses one on her best friend and they cant get enough !

 

[bi_married_lady]

Hi sexychic, you sound like me 20 years ago. Next time you talk sex, and find yourself cuddling, just keep taking it a step further. She should give you indications to stop or keep going. She sounds like she may have the same feelings. I had a friend who was talking with a good girlfriend of hers, and then she just asked "Let's go in the bedroom and talk, and just see what happens." They both went in smiling not knowing what the other was thinking, and they were naked and in bed in seconds.

And if she backs away, clear the air, and be friends as always. Good luck.

 

[Roxanne Appleby]

Here's an idea: Print this story out and give it to her when she arrives, or email it to her in advance:

Roxanne's Steamy College Girl-Crush
http://english.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=239805

Preface: This is a story about two sweet college girls who live in a dorm and are best friends. In the spirit of a child-like Valentine's Day romance between very close friends they plan a special evening together. An unexpected event turns the conversation to the subject of girl-girl sex and whether either has ever thought about the other in that way. Both admit they have . . .

Yep, you know what happens next. It's sweet and shy and all takes place in the context of really close friends. Here's a little excerpt:

Of course, I was nervous about the next step, but mostly I was overwhelmed with affection for my friend, and joyful at being able to freely express that emotion with a natural, physical act. I leaned forward and ever so gently, placed my lips against hers.

. . . Our lips came together in a nervous kiss. I felt an overwhelming, heartwarming satisfaction and happiness at being able to physically express the deep affection I felt. We pulled apart, and I was beaming.

Claire looked at me quizzically as if she was missing something funny. "What?" she asked.

"Nothing," I answered. I understood why she was puzzled though, and explained, "I'm just happy." She smiled back, and my affection overflowed . . .

If this doesn't break the ice and get things moving, well, I guess it's not fated to happen.

 

[Samuelx]

There is no magical formula for winning over any man or woman on this planet. Get out there and take chances. Just remember that while you are a novice and therefore nervous, the other party might be feeling the same way. Good luck.