I'm Turned on by older Mature Women.....

[lonelycowboy]

Guys turned on by Mature Women.....and Women who like it

Hi ,
I was wondering "How many of you guys are have been turned on, fascinated by older ,mature women at some point in your life ?" I know, I have. I still do . and How many women like it ?
If anyone want to join in and share. Also the women who find younger men attractive. Please share your experiences good,bad or ugly....

 

[virgin boy]

Just to clarify - how old is an older woman? I had the most terrible crush on my high school foreign language teacher (and still do, but unfortunately haven't seen her in years) - but she was only in her late 20's/early 30's.

 

[lonelycowboy]

reply to virginboy

Older can be a day old or even be 20 years older....
And as you mentioned a school teacher is a perfect example....
Please share your story..

 

[virgin boy]

Well, she was a beautiful woman of Italian blood . . . Jet black, long hair down to her shoulders, great legs, absolutely amazing breasts. In any case, she was breathtaking and an incredibly nice person, and I was only a piddly little high school freshman, what could I do I thought. I still think about her today, but oh well . . . I'm sure most guys have little crushes like that through high school or middle school, but just don't act on them or fail if they do.

 

[lilymay]

attracted to younger man

I had a thing for my brother's best friend, but his family moved across the country and nothing ever happened.

 

[lonelycowboy]

Thanks for sharing virgin boy... any more incidents...

thanks for sharing .... i'm sure everyone has had a crush or two on a teacher while in school....

 

[lonelycowboy]

thanks lilymay...

tell us something more about your brother's best friend...

 

[1stTwistedSistr]

A thing for younger men...

I'm currently seeing someone that is much younger than I, like 23 years younger. I feel like such a perv. He had to do some mighty long winded talking to me in order to convince me that it isn't wrong. I think he's just the sweetest guy, so tender and special. And the sex is absolutely great.
We met online and decided to meet, I was one nervous nellie believe me! I was so afraid that I couldn't live up to his expectations, seeing as how the women he was used to seeing were all young hardbodies, and I'm older, far from being a hardbody, gravity has hit with a vengence, and I've had two kids and several surgeries on my bikini line and so don't have the muscle control I had. He just keeps reassuring me that I'm exactly what he wanted and exactly what he's always dreamed about since he was in the eighth grade.
Even after it ends, I'll always treasure the memories he's given me. Not counting the ego boost he's given me, knowing that I could at 43, still attract a 20 year old. That in itself is priceless.

 

[Ice Cold]

Most of the women I have been with have been older, ranging anywhere from a year or fourtenn years older. Something special about them, their maturity and comfort with their own sexuality.

 

[MissTaken]

*leaning with ear against the door to hear the young men singing the praises of us old women*

 

[claris]

Hello,since I am an older woman I can definitely say that age may indicate how long you have been alive but not necessarily how well you have lived..younger,same,older....men are great

 

[lonelycowboy]

reply to 1sttwstdsister

thank you for sharing your experience with us ....
any particular memorable incidents u wish to share ?

 

[lonelycowboy]

hey ICE COLD

do share some of your experience with us ...

 

[SubK]

reply to 1sttwstdsister

My boyfriend is 20 years older than me, so I'm sure he feels the same way, being able to attract a college student at age 40.

Also, for the guys out there, there's hope! The govenor of Md., Paris Glendenning, just married a women 25 years younger than him.

Age is what's between your ears.

 

[SubK]

sorry!

sorry 'bout the double post....

 

[SubK]

reply to 1sttwistedsistr

I'm engaged to a guy 20 years older than me and I'm sure he feels the same way you do. Quite happy that he could still pick up a college girl at age 40.

A bit of information that might cheer some people up: The Govenor of MD. just got married to a woman 25 years younger than himself.

Age is what's between your ears.

 

[SexyChele]

Re: reply to 1sttwistedsistr

I'm engaged to a guy 20 years older than me and I'm sure he feels the same way you do. Quite happy that he could still pick up a college girl at age 40.

A bit of information that might cheer some people up: The Govenor of MD. just got married to a woman 25 years younger than himself.

Age is what's between your ears.

Your story is a great one, and I give you best wishes on your upcoming happiness!

But, unless I'm mistaken, people like 1stTwistedSistr are women in their 40s attracting men in their 20s. In our society, it is not uncommon for older men to attract, and marry, women many years their junior. However, the idea of a woman attracting a man many years her junios, is quite different.

Sorry, if I misread your post...

 

[SubK]

SexyChele

You're right. I seemed to have forgotten it's been quite the tradition since the beginning of time. (You didn't mis-read my post!)

However, I've had a wonderful weekend experience with my older female neighbor. Some of the best fun I've had and I did find that she was much more caring and passionate (and also knew what she wanted).

 

[1stTwistedSistr]

You're Right Sexy Chele...

I personally think that in this respect, society is really screwed up! Why, do you suppose it's all right for men to be with younger women, but we older women are regarded as perverted if we like younger men? Makes no sense! But I too thought the same thing, which is why I had such a hard time accepting this relationship coming to fruition. And I don't even really agree with it! Somebody please explain THAT one to me.......!!!


I think, for now, I'm just going to enjoy the moment and not worry about how anyone else feels about me or what I'm doing. Screw 'em if they don't like it! It's not like I was trolling at a highschool or anything... He approached me BECAUSE I am older. I'm just glad he did, however other people think about it.

 

[gbboy1975]

Society's Gendered Assumptions

Having discussed this issue at an 'academic' level - it is simply because the wrong person is being penetrated (Obviously I don't mean wrong - I merely mean what society deems correct or incorrect) Traditionally, the patriarch, the man, has the 'power,' he also, generally speaking, does the penetrating. When a younger guy and an older women are together, this throws society's gendered assumptions into a spin, the male is no longer necessarily in the position of power, because he is younger, however, he is still, generally, the one doing the penetrating.

This kind of thing has/will continue to happen - for example. In Native American societies, pre-contact, it was common for women to engage in agricultural labor, and men to hunt. Over the year, between 80-90% of all the nutritional intake of these groups came from crops - squash, pulses, beans, corn, etc. However, with regard to 'status' the 'hunt' has always been revered in society (both Native American and European) even though, for Native Americans it accounted for the most minimal aspect of the people's diet. Why - because its what the male engaged in, so it automatically was given greater significance, despite nutritional reality, than the growing of crops.

 

[1stTwistedSistr]

Thanks gbboy!

Thanks so much for the explaination, but I was really saying that I wish I knew why, since I don't agree with "society" about this issue, I was having such a hard time accepting it! It was an internal war with me! I really was in a quandry about it! (wow, don't think I've ever used that in a sentence before!) It really was an internal struggle for me, and I think the main reason I went ahead and met with him, was because it had gotten to the "do or die" point. And it wasn't worth losing him or his friendship over what people might, or might not think of me. It turned out to be a very good decision on both of our parts to go ahead and meet. I'm just sorry for what I put him through to get to where we are now. If I had known how it would turn out, I don't think I'd have had the struggle that I had.

 

[Loverman]

hi C T C T

Hi 1stTwistedSistr

Hey good looking what's cooking

Loverman

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Thanks gbboy!

Thanks so much for the explaination, but I was really saying that I wish I knew why, since I don't agree with "society" about this issue, I was having such a hard time accepting it! It was an internal war with me! I really was in a quandry about it! (wow, don't think I've ever used that in a sentence before!) It really was an internal struggle for me, and I think the main reason I went ahead and met with him, was because it had gotten to the "do or die" point. And it wasn't worth losing him or his friendship over what people might, or might not think of me. It turned out to be a very good decision on both of our parts to go ahead and meet. I'm just sorry for what I put him through to get to where we are now. If I had known how it would turn out, I don't think I'd have had the struggle that I had.

You are definitely preaching ot the choir there! I put my sweety through a lot over the course of the three years I have known him. I just was so frightened, of "us" I almost blew it. I am happy to say that we are still together, but still apart. He is in Texas, I am in Connecticut. but only until October, I hope! The airfares are killing us!

EB

 

[badmatt]

well

I've had relationships that ranged from 2 years older to 30...and I must say...they were all wonderful and taught me a lot....and I'm still in contact with the two who're 30 years older....

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: well

I've had relationships that ranged from 2 years older to 30...and I must say...they were all wonderful and taught me a lot....and I'm still in contact with the two who're 30 years older....

I am not surprised. I think older women are more realistic about the outcome of relationships with men in general, and specifically men who may be younger. We have been through it all, and have survived.

That may be the allure, that older women accept what happens and move on, most of the time without rancor and revenge.

In my case, I hold life too dear to let one bad end cramp my style. Life is too damn good!

Ebony