LTMMC
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2020
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The core of it is realizing that strict monogamy is not our ideal form marriage. Both you and I are searching for extra-marital excitement. Trouble is: many long-term married folks may feel like you and me, but that has not moved mainstream thinking very much. Yet.
The lucky ones of us are married to spouses who have realized the same, so they practice one form or the other of "open marriage". Threesomes or foursomes or other forms of swinging. but mine does not tick this way, and yours does not either. And for unfortunate folks like us, who are not prepared to end their marriages, because other factors bind them together – despite their extra-marital yearnings – today's world offers only few alternatives.
Real-life extramarital affairs, or porn watching and (Lit) story reading are the most prevalent ones. Congratulations and more power to those, for whom this is working out. But it is not working well for me, and maybe not for you either.
So instead of resigning to perpetual unhappiness, I have been trying another form of relief: establishing a virtual connection with a woman of an intimate nature. For me this has yielded surprising happiness, but unfortunately for far too short periods of time. The way I explained it to myself, and to prior virtual partners: our bonds were just not strong enough.
Not all that surprising I'd say; after all: how long had we spent, and how much effort had we put into, finding our spouses? So why should it be any easier to find a virtual partner for lasting happiness?
Now in case you have seen the myriad of personal ads I have written, you realize how much thinking I have put into this already. In case you are new to the task of searching, I invite you to read some of my ads. I hope you will find some you enjoy reading. And in case you possess a well-working imagination, you might dream also, like I do sometimes. And maybe – if you and I are extremely lucky – we might even dream in the same direction?
The lucky ones of us are married to spouses who have realized the same, so they practice one form or the other of "open marriage". Threesomes or foursomes or other forms of swinging. but mine does not tick this way, and yours does not either. And for unfortunate folks like us, who are not prepared to end their marriages, because other factors bind them together – despite their extra-marital yearnings – today's world offers only few alternatives.
Real-life extramarital affairs, or porn watching and (Lit) story reading are the most prevalent ones. Congratulations and more power to those, for whom this is working out. But it is not working well for me, and maybe not for you either.
So instead of resigning to perpetual unhappiness, I have been trying another form of relief: establishing a virtual connection with a woman of an intimate nature. For me this has yielded surprising happiness, but unfortunately for far too short periods of time. The way I explained it to myself, and to prior virtual partners: our bonds were just not strong enough.
Not all that surprising I'd say; after all: how long had we spent, and how much effort had we put into, finding our spouses? So why should it be any easier to find a virtual partner for lasting happiness?
Now in case you have seen the myriad of personal ads I have written, you realize how much thinking I have put into this already. In case you are new to the task of searching, I invite you to read some of my ads. I hope you will find some you enjoy reading. And in case you possess a well-working imagination, you might dream also, like I do sometimes. And maybe – if you and I are extremely lucky – we might even dream in the same direction?
