I'm quitting

Betticus said:
BDSM. I don't see the point anymore. It was a fun fantasy.

The start of a New year is supposed to re-energise you.

Quitting doesn't seem your style besides people will miss out if go vanilla.
 
Betticus said:
BDSM. I don't see the point anymore. It was a fun fantasy.

Bett, sweetie, I don't know what drugs you've been taking lately, but they're not helping anything.

Go have a nap and feel better. Maybe some cookies too.
 
quit the cigs now bdsm, quit the ex girlfriend.
One door closes another opens.
I have a friend for whom it all became too hard.
At least you have added skills and will play safely, even if its just to add spice to a new relationship.

Man Checklist..
age- pass
body- pass
salary- pass
likes kinky sex- bonus points
 
I'll always be kinky. I just want to kind of get rid of all the labels. Brand new year, fresh start. I want everything to be new.
 
Betticus said:
BDSM. I don't see the point anymore. It was a fun fantasy.

*smack* *smack* *smack*

snap out of it, man!

*smack* *smack*

don't make me smack you upside the head.
 
Chicklet said:
*smack* *smack* *smack*

snap out of it, man!

*smack* *smack*

don't make me smack you upside the head.

What are you trying to say?
 
Betticus, there is never a need for labels -- but if "bdsm" is part of your life, don't give up on it. I did, missed it so much, and would have missed out being with my Master whom I am with now, and that would have been a travesty.

Best of luck in your journey! :)
 
Ah, let him quit. It won't be long before he'll come crawlling back, lookng for something in a BDSM relationship. I once tried to quit, when I was in my 20s. That was when there wern't any kinky ladies looking my way.

I thought shit, what is the good of it, when I'm in this all alone? And, at the time, it really seemed to make sense to me. But, you know...it wasn't long before I was getting those kinky twinges all over again.

If you are born gay, you can't be hetro. If you are born sub, you can't be Dom. If you are born BDSM, you can't be vanilla. Sure, it might seem like a nice cleansing feeling for a while, but that's all it is.

And, it is sometimes healthy to do just that...take a break. But, don't say you won't be back. Once kinky, always kinky. And, there's nothing wrong with that.
 
What he said. VVVV :cattail:

DVS said:
Ah, let him quit. It won't be long before he'll come crawlling back, lookng for something in a BDSM relationship. I once tried to quit, when I was in my 20s. That was when there wern't any kinky ladies looking my way.

I thought shit, what is the good of it, when I'm in this all alone? And, at the time, it really seemed to make sense to me. But, you know...it wasn't long before I was getting those kinky twinges all over again.

If you are born gay, you can't be hetro. If you are born sub, you can't be Dom. If you are born BDSM, you can't be vanilla. Sure, it might seem like a nice cleansing feeling for a while, but that's all it is.

And, it is sometimes healthy to do just that...take a break. But, don't say you won't be back. Once kinky, always kinky. And, there's nothing wrong with that.
 
Betticus said:
BDSM. I don't see the point anymore. It was a fun fantasy.
I have no idea if I will ever be able to work this kink into a full-time lifestyle. But I know I will always love spanking women and making them serve me.

You don't need to do more than you want. There is enough room under the giant umbrella of BDSM for everyone. Carve your own niche.
 
I think that I may just be really kinky! Is there a bdsm category for freak ass pervy guy?
 
Betticus said:
I think that I may just be really kinky! Is there a bdsm category for freak ass pervy guy?
ok, how come you never said anything nice about my av's then? Not good enuff? :eek:
or am I taking you too literally?
Good luck.I am making a new start this year too. But only as far as work and place of residence is concerned.
BDSM, like some of my other vices....I will quit them when I am too old to enjoy them.
 
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Betticus said:
I think that I may just be really kinky! Is there a bdsm category for freak ass pervy guy?

How is that different? :p
 
DVS said:
If you are born gay, you can't be hetro. If you are born sub, you can't be Dom. If you are born BDSM, you can't be vanilla. Sure, it might seem like a nice cleansing feeling for a while, but that's all it is.

Holy shit wha a load a sanctimonious BULLSHIT this is............
 
Betticus said:
I'll always be kinky. I just want to kind of get rid of all the labels. Brand new year, fresh start. I want everything to be new.


Labels drive me crazy and always have. Someone tries to label me and I will try to buck them even harder. To me it is crazy making to try to figure out just where I fit in the big scheme of anything let alone allowing anyone else to put their 2 cents into it (especially considering its usually narrow minded thinking). Sorry but we are fluid and should be able to move accordingly as we see fit. If we don't, we tend to get stuck in a rut which isn't healthy. There is a certain amount of freedom in allowing yourself to react and be how you want to be without someone pressing their ideals on you.

Be true to yourself and figure out your own "labels" if you need them - otherwise toss the damn things and enjoy life because it is too bloody short. If you are lucky you will find someone whose kinks happen to coincide with yours.

Just my "rant" .... ;)

~kierae :rose:
 
Betticus said:
I think that I may just be really kinky! Is there a bdsm category for freak ass pervy guy?

Someone PM Laurel and tell her we need a "FAPG Cafe"
 
landcruisergal said:
ok, how come you never said anything nice about my av's then? Not good enuff? :eek:
or am I taking you too literally?
Good luck.I am making a new start this year too. But only as far as work and place of residence is concerned.
BDSM, like some of my other vices....I will quit them when I am too old to enjoy them.

Sorry, my net has been slow and it takes too long to load all the graphics so I turned off avatars and signatures. I don't even see them unless I view a profile.
 
Betticus said:
Sorry, my net has been slow and it takes too long to load all the graphics so I turned off avatars and signatures. I don't even see them unless I view a profile.
your loss then. :kiss:
 
Kajira Callista said:
*pets betticus*
Maybe Betticus should create one of those little animal things, like your pussy, so anybody could pet him.
 
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