im not to small, am i?

[the one an only]

I was just wondering on what the average size is wanted by a woman i guess. Im just short of 6 inches, but ive onlybeen with virgin girls, so i dont think theyd know big if they saw it....all i have been with ahve been really satisfied, but i just feel my length is lacking...what do you guys think?

 

[gotwaves]

5 1/2" to 6" inches is considered average. The average vaginal canal is only 5 1/2 inches deep so length really isn't a factor from a physical standpoint, but in this world of bigger is better it is often a factor, if only in our minds. Now girth, that's a whole different story he he.. Seriously with few exceptions,if you use your tool properly, size really doesn't matter to most women.

 

[ordiva62]

Hi

I agree totally with gotwaves. Girth is good but if you use it well there should never be a problem. If you approach the woman with the goal of satisfying her, no matter what, you will be in high demand by your woman or women.

 

[wicked woman]

Actually depending what study you site...five to seven inches is normal...so don't worry... you're spot on.

 

[swtcuntryguy]

what about me?
http://www.mustangmods.com/data/881/jonnie001.jpg

 

[ordiva62]

Re: what about me?

Looks GOOD to me baby!

 

[swtcuntryguy]

*bump* gonna get this thread going!

 

[pleased2eatyou]

I was just wondering on what the average size is wanted by a woman i guess. Im just short of 6 inches, but ive onlybeen with virgin girls, so i dont think theyd know big if they saw it....all i have been with ahve been really satisfied, but i just feel my length is lacking...what do you guys think?

I wouldn't be overly concerned with your length, I have a longer penis than alot of guy's. I am lacking in girth more than other guy's however. Most women that I have been with or talked to on the subject would prefer GIRTH over length any day!!!! Hell I would trade an inch or so to get and inch or so of girth....
Don't worry in either case though, there are a lot of guy's with big cock's out there that don't have a clue on using them from what I've been told. So focus more on being good with what you have! Not like you had a choice in the matter anyway. If we could choose none of us would get any women because we would all have 12" beer can sized dick's . Here's mine though just for the record...

Pleased

 

[Limbhugger]

Oh a subject I enjoy discussing. I'll most assuradely repeat a lot of what has been said already, but here goes...

First and foremost, unless a person is unusually small, penis size is almost always a male thing. I am a man so I know how we think. We think like this, "Ugh...cock good. Big cock better! Woman on movie like big cock. Must have big cock for woman." I won't even begin to pretend what women think because life has taught me that is a very stupid thing to do with a man's brain. But in my experience, women enjoy the allure and excitement as much and sometimes more than the act itself. In fact, maybe that's what makes the act itself a good or bad experience. Anyways...

We're extremely visually oriented as well. If you doubt that, look at how many men reply to women's pics as oppossed to how many women reply to men's pics. (No ladies I am not saying you aren't visually stimulated, just that for us it is much more a factor than for you) And, while most of us hate to admit it, we are ego driven. A woman will tell you this in heartbeat while we'll sit there going nuh uh as we wonder if the neighbor chic thinks we're hot. And if she doesn't then what the hell is wrong with her!

So, especially in this open communication world, we see these guys with big, bigger, and massive cocks. And of course chics are always diggin them. Especially in porn. Quick hint guys, most porn is made by men for men.

Foreplay and feelings are almost always the top two things women site as being the key factors in good sex. Cock size almost always rates at the very bottom, usually below bad breath and long toe nails.

In GENERAL, men are seduced with their eyes and physical stimulation and women are seduced with their minds and hearts.

Certainly there are women who enjoy larger penises but even amongst them, usually 7"+ is considered hung and 8"+ is extremely hung. Granted, a lot of women enjoy looking at and maybe even playing with a large cock, but that doesn't mean a regular old average one is any less exciting to them. In fact, for a lot of women, when it comes to out and out sex, they prefer an average sized penis.

The most contemporary and arguably the most accurate study of male penis size was conducted by a leading condum manufacturer. It puts the average size (across the board race wise incidentally) at right about 5.75" long and 4.75" in girth.

Measuring the erect penis is a whole other story. Depending on how the penis measured, the results can be dramatic. The best methods are NBPL and BPL or Non-Bone Pressed Length and Bone Pressed Length. In the first, a ruler is layed atop the erect penis with the end of the ruler just touching the abdomen. In the later the ruler is pressed inward to the pubic bone. I think NBPL is a better representation. Girth should always be measured using a "tailor's tape" at the thickest part of the penis which is usually about half way up the shaft.

Which leads to another question, do penis enlargement methods work? Yes. I say forget surgery, that is for extreme cases and has WAY too many side effects. Pills? I guess if you want to spend the money but I PERSONALLY think they aren't worth it. Which leaves Natural Penis Enlargement (NPE). In otherwords training or working out your cock. Yep that's right, cock workouts. Does it work? I am a firm (pardon the pun) believer that it does.

I adventured into NPE three months ago. I knew full well it was for me and not my wife. In fact she scoffed at the idea and actually told me she liked me just the way I was and that I fit everything perfectly. But it was something I wanted to do and she supported me. I will not go into specifics of workouts as there are a zillion different methods, attitudes, and variences out there. I researched a lot, asked a lot of questions, expriemented, and then found what worked for me.

In six weeks I gained a 1/4" in length and girth. I have undergone massive work/life schedule changes as of late so my workouts have dropped off significantly. But my size hasn't at all. Almost every guy I have encountered says the results are quite permenant and a lot of these guys stopped NPE long ago. I set a personal goal of 1/2" gain in both length and girth. A little fuller and longer but still well within reason and well within my wife's liking.

A side benefit to NPE is erection control. This if nothing else, is a tremendous achievement even if you personally struggle with size gains (as some men do). The exercises themselves encourage and develop ejaculation control and accustom you to direct stimulation. It's too much to get into here but each excerise requires a certain level of erectness for effectiveness and injury avoidance.

I'm not sure if this is allowed, but I am going to recommend a couple web sites. I will not put in the exact addresses as I think the Lit Mod's frown on that but do a search for:

Double Long Daddy
DLD Penis Enlargement Forums
Matters Of Size
Thunder's Place

Great resources. But remember, NPE is porbably more about you than it is about women.

Okay I have rambled enough. In the end, it will likely be your heart and your mind that make a woman swoon not your cock.

Of course this is all just MHO.

 

[MizTabby]

very informative...

and quite a mouthful , limbhugger!

I agree the visual aspects of a more hefty cock can be
quite stimulating, but personally, I much prefer a tasty
morsel that I can fit all of in my mouth comfortably
and eat to my (and hopefully his) heart's content!!
Being a firm believer *lol* in pleasure being mutual,
I always feel it's not the size of the cup, but how satisfying
the drink is!!


*thanks for that eye candy swtcuntryguy

*and where did the one an only get to?? he'd sure get some
pointers from you, limb

 

[Limbhugger]

Well thanks Miz Tabby.

 

[Limbhugger]

More than 950 views of this thread and only 10 replies. I thought this would have generated more input. From both men and women. Maybe it isn't that "big" of a deal afterall...lol.

 

[sticky_keyboard]

Size is a matter of mind

and mostly in men's minds. My male ego used to belive that any woman who said size doesn't matter never had me. Then my world was shattered by a woman who told me that I was far from biggest she had ever/seen had. That experience was initially a shock, and it angered me, but later I realized it was an eye opener.

One of my all time favorite lovers summed it up best: It isn't what you've got, it's how you use it.

So I've spent years learning how to use it so women enjoy it and want it more. That's been the key to my success over the years.

One more universal law: If a guy has to tell you how big he is, he isn't.

 

[patient1]

More than 950 views of this thread and only 10 replies. I thought this would have generated more input. From both men and women. Maybe it isn't that "big" of a deal afterall...lol.

Size discussion has been done to death on most of the boards. Try the search feature.

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