im new and need so much help

[kittentamer]

hello im not joking i need so much help. Ive always been interested in (bdsm) but been afraid to admit it, but now I got someone that is willing to explore this with me,and she has some knowledge in this field, and she rock my world but I want to rock hers too. but I dont know where to begain we talk but she dont want to push I know she means well by doing this.she lets me do anythig I want but I want to know more about this world before I get in to deep.anything will help

 

[chris9]

Hello kittentamer, and welcome to the forum
It's always good to learn as much as possible before you do something. If you're talking about all of it, you already know the very basic of advice: Communication.
We have a library here where many informative threads can be found, so that might answer some of your questions.
If you are looking for info on specific things, also try the 'search' function. If you're like me and can't get it to work, make a thread on that question. Either you'll get answers from posters here, or someone who has mastered the 'search' thingie might just help you out.

Other than that, go slow, enjoy, communicate. Have fun!

 

[Chicklet]

I guess the thing I'd say first is that you wouldn't be involving yourself in any world but your own... unless you take a leap to involve yourself in a local community near you, it's just your own private thing. Don't be afraid that you're entering some sort of club you might not be sure about.

Next thing I'd say is don't be afraid to say no to things, or admit that you want other things. Just knowing someone is into "BDSM" doesn't mean they like the same things you like.

Last, read. Read lots! Read random threads in the BDSM forum, read books, read articles, read anything! Educate yourself.

And have fun.

 

[Little Bird]

Ive always been interested in (bdsm) but been afraid to admit it, but now I got someone that is willing to explore this with me,and she has some knowledge in this field, and she rock my world but I want to rock hers too. but I dont know where to begain we talk but she dont want to push I know she means well by doing this.

If it's hard for you to talk about it, but she is much more open with it, tell her that you want to try more and ask her to make suggestions of things that she'd think you might like. If it sounds good to you, you both can try it, if you're afraid of it, you may set it back to be brought on later again. And even if it sounds interesting to you, but you realize you don't like it, when you try it, tell her about it and stop.
She'll most probably respect it and people who don't are those you should stay away from, when it comes to such things.

 

[Savage Kitten]

I love you so much...

I think the key is communication. There is no need to rush into anything. Time is on our side. The more you learn about the subject the more you will know what to expect and what to demand and how to demand it. *smiles*

I am excited, and anxious, but baby... we have our whole life ahead of us.

 

[Xelebes]

Talk to Liontamr.

 

[kittentamer]

Talk to Liontamr.

you forgot im new how do I get in touch with lion tamr.

 

[kittentamer]

I think the key is communication. There is no need to rush into anything. Time is on our side. The more you learn about the subject the more you will know what to expect and what to demand and how to demand it. *smiles*

I am excited, and anxious, but baby... we have our whole life ahead of us.

thank you I needed that when you read this I want you to rock my world.Do want you want and show me your ideas and I got something for our date night (hell no I want you shake it up its no wonder you told me about this sight)

 

[Xelebes]

you forgot im new how do I get in touch with lion tamr.

Wander aimlessly about the GB for a while and see if you can catch him.