I'm looking for a possible boyfriend/FWB/roommate

GirlInProgress

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Hi, I apologize in advance for the length of this post.

My name is Kristi. I'm a newly transitioning transgirl in kind of a bad situation. I haven't begun hormone therapy, but start in about two weeks. I'm looking for someone who can open their heart and home to me, not right away, but after we get to know one another. I don't care how old you are, or how attractive you are, because I'll probably like you anyway. Genuinely like you. I like most people. Seriously. My cut-off age is like... let's say sixty or sixty-five. That's a bit too old. Below that is fine. Fat is welcome, but I have to say morbidly obese isn't attractive to me.. Obesity is defined as being 30 pounds overweight, and I'm fine with that, but I'm afraid the seriously overweight won't do. Sorry. Best of luck on losing weight to those people, though. I really do understand that in a lot of people, it's no one's fault. As far as looks go, I'm about 5'6, slender but not skinny (size 7), with shoulder length brown hair and eyes, I'm kind of pale, but not translucent. Pretty flat, except for some tummy fat I'm trying to shed. Uhm. I'm not sure how to begin explaining what I want, or if this is in the appropriate section. If not, admins feel free to move it. Thanks.

But, to begin with, I suppose I need to say I'm looking for a man who wants the company of a woman on a regular basis. I'm living in a very rural area, and will be needing to move within the next year or so. I can't afford to, nor do I want to live alone, and instead of moving then looking for roommates, I want to go from point a to b right away. B being with a guy who'll enjoy my company. My regular company and my romantic company. A live-in boyfriend type, you could say.

This is going to sound desperate, because it is, but I don't care if you have roommates, or if you live in a small house/apartment. I'll sleep on the floor, the couch, the bathtub, or with you if you like. I'd prefer to sleep next to you though. I'm not picky and I don't complain. I'm totally humble, meek, and unobtrusive. But some say quite funny. I can also be quite sarcastic, but I try to watch that. You don't have to take me out or celebrate anniversaries like you do with traditional relationships. I would feel more comfortable if it was more low-key and laid back. It's more comfortable that way, right? I don't expect you to exclusively see me; I'm not a big supporter of monogamy, so see as many other girls you like. If you just want a girl to live with and not be romantic with, that's fine too. I won't be insulted. I'm also pretty quiet, so you won't even know I'm there, really. I don't really have any bad habits. I'm not addicted to drugs or alcohol, but I'm not uptight, I don't care if other people use them. I think people can make their own decisions. I also don't eat much. So basically, I'm cheap and easy. I wish that didn't make me sound as bad as I'm sure it does.

So, the thing is, I don't have a lot of money. I'm actually pretty poor, I am disabled and receive SSI and Medicaid. If it doesn't work out you can kick me out and I'll figure something else out. I'm easy to get rid of if you change your mind. I'm not a leech. I'm very independent. This move is actually me trying to transition as painlessly as possible, and balance out having independence without isolating myself. I'm alone all the time, and while the solitude helps me focus on getting my life headed in the right direction, I hate feeling alone. I'm also living in a fairly risky area for me. So I need someone to take me in. Like a pet. Well, except you don't have to feed me or clean up after me or pay attention to me, unless you want to. That would be nice actually. I guess more like a house plant? A cactus, maybe? I dunno. I suppose I'm cactus-like. But cuter. Which isn't hard, but I digress.

I'm completely serious. I know someone out there must feel lonely, and wish there was a nice girl to come home to, to talk to or care about them. I'll do the cooking and the washing-up. All of the housework as well.. It's like having a roommate or a live-in girlfriend but without the stress. I won't cause stress, I promise. I'll relieve stress on a regular basis. I give great massages, head rubs, hand jobs, blow jobs etc. I also enjoy making love or fucking, preferably both. I'm not very experienced, but open to talk about trying new things.

Anyways, if you do feel lonely, but don't know if I'm a good match for you, e-mail me, and I'll answer any questions. I guess I can give a little personal info here; I hope you find it useful.I love computers and techie things. I have a Droid 2, which I think is one of the most awesome things ever. I also like video games. Mostly MMOs, and RPG type games. So, basically, I guess I'm a huge geek. I love Sci Fi films, and Sci Fantasy. I like chick flicks as well, but wouldn't make you watch them. I love to read, and will read almost anything. I like most types of music, but mostly alternative and some metal. I also like classic rock. I love Rush. I'm cool with sports, though I know little about them. I like to cook and clean, I make pretty awesome spaghetti I think. I'm 38, but act younger most of the time, maturity is overrated. I'm warm and friendly, but shy, I don't talk or smile much, but it isn't hard to get me to open up. I'm very empathetic and compassionate, I don't trust many people, but I try to love them...some people's mission in life is to test the patience of others it seems. I run into them quite often. I'm graceful and tactful though, and while I'm almost always honest, I'm never rude or uncouth.

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask me anything at all, and I'll answer as completely as possible. Yes, I know this is an erotic lit site, but I don't feel comfortable posting in traditional dating sites.
 
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