jiggytigrr
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- Dec 9, 2013
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I've looked all over this place now for the past few days and have realized im going about this all wrong. We as men have two heads if you know what I mean and instead of using the one with a brain I used the other and came here seeking a quick way to get my rocks off and ive come to realize that this site is about more than that.
I will say this is no match dot com. I don't see many people here looking for soul mates, in fact 9/10 of the people here are in relationships sneaking around to get off because there significant other isn't around or isn't fulfilling his or her duty. I'm not judging you guys or gals that do that, to each his own.
Let me tell you about me, and what im looking for in detail now, and for those of you looking for a quick read go ahead and leave.
My name is my name, you can call me whatever you want but until I feel comfortable I don't want to put that out there. I am in my early twenties and a guy. I grew up in an all girl family, I kid you not, there are only 3 men in the family, me my oldest cousin and my grandfather. It was amazing growing up with all girl family. I have five sister and used them to get to their friends. I know how most woman think and because of that I got labeled as have a silver tongue, meaning I have a way with words. I can talk myself out of or into just about anything given the right motive.
I lost my virginity at the age of thirteen, It was horrible now that I think about it, I was 13 she was 16. I was at vacation bible school and the deacons daughter asked me to help her with laundry in the washrrom and I didn't know what I was doing, but I lost my virginity the deacons daughter on a dryer. I bragged like boss to all my friends, and before the week was over the church was furious and considered her a hethen and it was the end of it.
Losing my virginity at such a young age I felt like I was the man and was cocky, I walked tall, I didn't have sex again til I was 16 and I realized I had no idea what I was doing and actually was laughed at by the girls that heard about the incident. I was the one hitter quitter lasting maybe 10 mins. I started watching porn and reading about sex not because I was horny all the time but I considered it a skill in which I wanted to master. I read all about karma sutra and watched videos to train myself. The next girlfriend I had was a long distance relationship that prolly ruined me.
We would see each other every three month for a 3 day period, we went through a box of condoms every visit, and the longer we did this the worse I got in the need department. I could get aroused and get off by just seeing her in a picture of her lingerie at first but it got to the point where I was hopeless. Whenever I heard her voice, I got hard, pornography doesn't do that for me anymore, Im being completely honest I have tried to watch different stars, different story plots like fetishes nothing happens but let me hear that womans voice and im rising to full mast. Now at first she loved having that power, but it got to the point where I couldn't finish without her help be it a sexy story or her talking dirty. Me and her ended up breaking up because of this, and the problem persisted I was alone and still couldn't handle myself without the help of someone else.
I actually went to a doctor and he told me about this syndrome, its rare in my part but does exist, its called HALS, hyper active libido syndrome. and its caused by different ways, in my case how I had so much sex and just quit cold turkey, like smoking a person will get cravings for sex and that's what happened to me , my sex drive was off the charts but I was addicted to this girl so it all tied together. To this day I still have problems with this, its a syndrome so its a mind thing that a person has to get over with over time. There is medication for it, its basically the opposite of Viagra but taking it has risk making me sterile, I can do counseling but who has the money for that.
This site has helped me a lot with this, and Thus I am here. Im not looking for love, with that said if it happens it happens. Im also not here to find a woman get my rocks off and move to the next.
My issue scares me from pursuing relationships, im scared because I have such a high sex drive and having to have help with this monster in the groin area is going to run off a girl. I am currently single. I am looking for a woman older than me, who may have some advice, or offer her services. She can be married or in a relationship im not looking for anything along the lines of a relationship here.
I think if I were to start talking to women here I would slowly get out of this rutt, I am awkward and funny at times. I video game and I am a huge nerd, and when I say im a nerd im not referring to comic books and stuff, I general have fun learning things from religion even though I don't necessarily believe in one, but the whole concept of learning appeals to me. Like I said I love to game as well. I'd love to find a woman to talk to just to have a conversation. If your a insightful woman enlighten me por favor? It would be great to find a girl or woman to game with aswell. I am looking for a friend in all honesty and a woman to talk to but be warned I do get aroused easily and often, that's why I am here and not on a match dot com thing or on facebook looking for a friend. I'd love for the woman I meet here to be able to handle that if a problem arises, not all the time because I am trying to basically cure myself of this burden but occasionally be willing to dirty talk or roleplay with me. If your interest post here or pm me, if you think you know of a way to help me get over this dilemma please leave me your ideas. I have attempted a few things like meditating and I have been to a therapist, but I don't want to resort to having to risk not having kids to have a fulfilling relationship.
so just to be clear, Im looking for friends that are woman just to get used to talking to them again and being around them. I am quirky and funny and my sense of humor is a bit on the naughty side. I would love to find a gamer buddy but just a female companion will be fine, and be willing to occasionally help me get my rocks off, I would do the same for her if she needs it. If you need to see what your getting yourself into I have pictures of myself on here, I only posted a few because I was requested to do so. Its nice to see who your talking to. If your not interested but would like to assist me with information or ideas to help me with this please post them
yours truly,
Jiggy
I will say this is no match dot com. I don't see many people here looking for soul mates, in fact 9/10 of the people here are in relationships sneaking around to get off because there significant other isn't around or isn't fulfilling his or her duty. I'm not judging you guys or gals that do that, to each his own.
Let me tell you about me, and what im looking for in detail now, and for those of you looking for a quick read go ahead and leave.
My name is my name, you can call me whatever you want but until I feel comfortable I don't want to put that out there. I am in my early twenties and a guy. I grew up in an all girl family, I kid you not, there are only 3 men in the family, me my oldest cousin and my grandfather. It was amazing growing up with all girl family. I have five sister and used them to get to their friends. I know how most woman think and because of that I got labeled as have a silver tongue, meaning I have a way with words. I can talk myself out of or into just about anything given the right motive.
I lost my virginity at the age of thirteen, It was horrible now that I think about it, I was 13 she was 16. I was at vacation bible school and the deacons daughter asked me to help her with laundry in the washrrom and I didn't know what I was doing, but I lost my virginity the deacons daughter on a dryer. I bragged like boss to all my friends, and before the week was over the church was furious and considered her a hethen and it was the end of it.
Losing my virginity at such a young age I felt like I was the man and was cocky, I walked tall, I didn't have sex again til I was 16 and I realized I had no idea what I was doing and actually was laughed at by the girls that heard about the incident. I was the one hitter quitter lasting maybe 10 mins. I started watching porn and reading about sex not because I was horny all the time but I considered it a skill in which I wanted to master. I read all about karma sutra and watched videos to train myself. The next girlfriend I had was a long distance relationship that prolly ruined me.
We would see each other every three month for a 3 day period, we went through a box of condoms every visit, and the longer we did this the worse I got in the need department. I could get aroused and get off by just seeing her in a picture of her lingerie at first but it got to the point where I was hopeless. Whenever I heard her voice, I got hard, pornography doesn't do that for me anymore, Im being completely honest I have tried to watch different stars, different story plots like fetishes nothing happens but let me hear that womans voice and im rising to full mast. Now at first she loved having that power, but it got to the point where I couldn't finish without her help be it a sexy story or her talking dirty. Me and her ended up breaking up because of this, and the problem persisted I was alone and still couldn't handle myself without the help of someone else.
I actually went to a doctor and he told me about this syndrome, its rare in my part but does exist, its called HALS, hyper active libido syndrome. and its caused by different ways, in my case how I had so much sex and just quit cold turkey, like smoking a person will get cravings for sex and that's what happened to me , my sex drive was off the charts but I was addicted to this girl so it all tied together. To this day I still have problems with this, its a syndrome so its a mind thing that a person has to get over with over time. There is medication for it, its basically the opposite of Viagra but taking it has risk making me sterile, I can do counseling but who has the money for that.
This site has helped me a lot with this, and Thus I am here. Im not looking for love, with that said if it happens it happens. Im also not here to find a woman get my rocks off and move to the next.
My issue scares me from pursuing relationships, im scared because I have such a high sex drive and having to have help with this monster in the groin area is going to run off a girl. I am currently single. I am looking for a woman older than me, who may have some advice, or offer her services. She can be married or in a relationship im not looking for anything along the lines of a relationship here.
I think if I were to start talking to women here I would slowly get out of this rutt, I am awkward and funny at times. I video game and I am a huge nerd, and when I say im a nerd im not referring to comic books and stuff, I general have fun learning things from religion even though I don't necessarily believe in one, but the whole concept of learning appeals to me. Like I said I love to game as well. I'd love to find a woman to talk to just to have a conversation. If your a insightful woman enlighten me por favor? It would be great to find a girl or woman to game with aswell. I am looking for a friend in all honesty and a woman to talk to but be warned I do get aroused easily and often, that's why I am here and not on a match dot com thing or on facebook looking for a friend. I'd love for the woman I meet here to be able to handle that if a problem arises, not all the time because I am trying to basically cure myself of this burden but occasionally be willing to dirty talk or roleplay with me. If your interest post here or pm me, if you think you know of a way to help me get over this dilemma please leave me your ideas. I have attempted a few things like meditating and I have been to a therapist, but I don't want to resort to having to risk not having kids to have a fulfilling relationship.
so just to be clear, Im looking for friends that are woman just to get used to talking to them again and being around them. I am quirky and funny and my sense of humor is a bit on the naughty side. I would love to find a gamer buddy but just a female companion will be fine, and be willing to occasionally help me get my rocks off, I would do the same for her if she needs it. If you need to see what your getting yourself into I have pictures of myself on here, I only posted a few because I was requested to do so. Its nice to see who your talking to. If your not interested but would like to assist me with information or ideas to help me with this please post them
yours truly,
Jiggy
