I recently posted the following "ad" recently on a local board and got only 1 response, someone that didn't read it at all, only the subject.
My question is aren't there any people out there that don't want to just meet other Bi people and hang out? maybe if a large enough group did get together hookups would happen but what about being friends first? Do all bi men just want to cheat on their spouses?
Opinions/thoughts/whatever, are more than welcome.
Michael
The "ad":
Subject: Bi male/curious female looking for friends (45/26)
If you are a cheater or your other half is in any way not aware that you are looking at this, stop reading now. We do not want to meet anyone who is not able to be themselves 100% of the time. If you have to sneak or in any way hide your desires, look elsewhere.
We are a bi (he)/bi-curious (she) couple. We are open minded and want to meet good people that are intelligent and interested in friendships. If from that friendship something sexual happens great; if not great! If you are just looking for fun people that have open minds fantastic! We are just looking for fun people too!
What we are:
He is 45 (almost 46), bi, 6’, 225, shaved head. Photography and her, are his passions. She is 27, 5’6”, bi curious, curvy and won’t tell her weight to anyone but not heavy at all. I guess she is 145ish. She has long brown hair and brown eyes. We both like intelligent movies and plays. We prefer intellectuals, people who think outside the box. She is speaks fluent French and he speaks geek. We have lived together for about a year and are always looking to meet interesting people. We like thunderstorms, walking the city at night and all kinds of the arts.
What we aren’t:
We are not interested in drama; there is enough of that in life. We aren’t cheaters or philanderers or liars. We aren’t just horny looking for a way to get off. We don’t need to add spice to our relationship; our sex is quite fantastic as it is. We don’t care if you fuck like a porn star or have a dick that will make us gasp in awe. We don’t think you can do this or that better than we have ever done. You are not going to make our lives complete or our bedroom a playground of fun.
Honesty and integrity are what is important to us. We want to meet people where it is OK to be a sexual being that has friends, not required to be sexual to be friends.
If this is you and/or your partner or just you, if you are single, shoot us an E-mail and tell us about yourself. What are you like, what makes you happy, excited? What makes you special?
If you have read this far and are still interested in meeting, you are a rare individual and we may really want to get to know you. And yes, we are for real.
My question is aren't there any people out there that don't want to just meet other Bi people and hang out? maybe if a large enough group did get together hookups would happen but what about being friends first? Do all bi men just want to cheat on their spouses?
Opinions/thoughts/whatever, are more than welcome.
Michael
The "ad":
Subject: Bi male/curious female looking for friends (45/26)
If you are a cheater or your other half is in any way not aware that you are looking at this, stop reading now. We do not want to meet anyone who is not able to be themselves 100% of the time. If you have to sneak or in any way hide your desires, look elsewhere.
We are a bi (he)/bi-curious (she) couple. We are open minded and want to meet good people that are intelligent and interested in friendships. If from that friendship something sexual happens great; if not great! If you are just looking for fun people that have open minds fantastic! We are just looking for fun people too!
What we are:
He is 45 (almost 46), bi, 6’, 225, shaved head. Photography and her, are his passions. She is 27, 5’6”, bi curious, curvy and won’t tell her weight to anyone but not heavy at all. I guess she is 145ish. She has long brown hair and brown eyes. We both like intelligent movies and plays. We prefer intellectuals, people who think outside the box. She is speaks fluent French and he speaks geek. We have lived together for about a year and are always looking to meet interesting people. We like thunderstorms, walking the city at night and all kinds of the arts.
What we aren’t:
We are not interested in drama; there is enough of that in life. We aren’t cheaters or philanderers or liars. We aren’t just horny looking for a way to get off. We don’t need to add spice to our relationship; our sex is quite fantastic as it is. We don’t care if you fuck like a porn star or have a dick that will make us gasp in awe. We don’t think you can do this or that better than we have ever done. You are not going to make our lives complete or our bedroom a playground of fun.
Honesty and integrity are what is important to us. We want to meet people where it is OK to be a sexual being that has friends, not required to be sexual to be friends.
If this is you and/or your partner or just you, if you are single, shoot us an E-mail and tell us about yourself. What are you like, what makes you happy, excited? What makes you special?
If you have read this far and are still interested in meeting, you are a rare individual and we may really want to get to know you. And yes, we are for real.
