I'm frustrated... but should I be?

[BostonGirl]

The last few times my husband has made love to me, he's brought me to orgasm pretty quickly with his hands. Now, I need a few minutes to recover, but he's ended it there. He'll hold me for a little bit and that's it. Tonight he actually fell asleep within about 3 minutes. I'm really frustrated that he's not actually having sex with me. I don't think I really have a question, I'm just venting. And maybe I shouldn't even be bothered - I mean I got my orgasm, right? If he doesn't want one, then it's his problem, right?

 

[bharman4102]

I think you might have a few things to worry about....or maybe not!

1. Is he cheating, and feeling guilty about sex so he's avoiding it?

2. Is he just unable to get hard?

3. Is he too tired and prefers this b/c its so much faster and easier?

4. Is he a great guy, and while he's just not in the mood, loves you so much that he wants you to cum?

If he loves you, and you love him, and your relationship is solid, then don't worry...but try to get him to relax so you 2 can enjoy some intimacy. Good luck to you!

And meanwhile, enjoy the orgasms.....him tbeing here has to be better than you working on them alone!

 

[Guest]

Does he over-exercise, particularly on an exercise bike? This could be affecting the quality of his erections - maybe he is too embarrassed to attempt? You two should talk about this. - Good luck!



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[alvin462]

sex drive

Talk Talk Talk !!! At 24 you should not be dressed much . At that age I was all hands ,toung ,cock . You are too young for a poor sex life .

 

[mike_mike02128]

too soon

If your only 24 then I assume the marriage is still young. It is too soon to be getting tired of sex with each other. Maybe you should prevent him from finishing you off so quickly. turn the tables while you both got steam. You take control and get him to want more once you've gotten him arroused. He probably feels that you are done and maybe you dont want more. Have you asked for seconds? or do you just wait for him to attempt a second go.Maybe some of his past relationships wouldnt go more than once and he is hesitant to try. Let him know you are not done...maybe go down on him or fondle him, while you are waiting for your body to be ready.

If all else fails.....give me a call.

 

[Monazwx]

There's a reason for concern, but don't freak out too much over this. At least he cares enough to give ya the orgasms rather than rolling over and falling asleep.
Maybe something happened at work (double shifts, increased workload, etc.)?
Ask him to share his thoughts with you before you seduce him (not that he'll mind I'm sure), but let him know that you miss that cock. He'll get the message.

 

[deliciously_naughty]

I would guess that there's something really stressing him out and he doesn't want to talk about it, but still wants you to be happy so he's worrying. Ask him...